Originally Posted by Sasparella:
“I don't doubt that you find her unlikeable, but you still brought her past into it, which means that you're factoring that into it as well as disliking her behaviour. I have no problem with anyone disliking her behaviour in the house, I dislike some of it myself. I was saying however that some were never going to like her, even if she'd behaved like Mother Theresa in the house, because of her past. The amount of posts that use epithets like slag, slut, or making "jokes" about her wanting to sleep with people and how it will be £180 have been horrendous, yet she's done nothing in the house to warrant them, unless they think that kissing Ash is slutty ? We're supposed to judge HM's on their time in the house and I have no problem with people thinking that she's bitchy etc, but when they start bringing her past into it, and making comments along the lines of how she can't love her kid because she went into the BB house and "doesn't seem to be missing him", then it really grates on me. I'm not saying that you personally have done this, I'm just saying that a lot have.”
Thank goodness for a level-headed post instead of all the ridiculous fake psychoanalysis about what she's thinking, how she's feeling, what her motives are etc etc. She has no feelings so she "must" be crying out of rage and frustration, blah blah. Somebody even said she has no self awareness, when she seems to be the ONLY housemate who actually has a capacity for self-criticism!