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well...no wonder Pav is not trusted!!!!
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Cat-
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by BabelBrook:
“How can Pav not see himself as a victim when most of his DR entries are "Poor Pav".”

Because he's confused when he's made concerted efforts with the hms only to get the cold shoulder. I also don't see all this poor Pav stuff in the DR either. He's not crying his eyes out or hiding himself away in a corner. If you listen to his DR excerpts, he's admitted that it will take a bit of time for the hms to trust him as a newbie but he will keep trying. That's what we've seen him do.

He's not privy to the attacks and backstabbing going on behind his back and is taking everything at face value when the hms are saying one thing to him but another behind his back. As I said in my last post, it's subtle, and he knows something's not right, but can't put his finger on what it is exactly. Well the clues are in how Chris and Mark have been as examples from how they've spoken about him behind his back and then changing tact when he asks for a direct answer.
BlackberryGirl
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Alrightmate:
“On just about every HL show Pav is seen in the diary room speaking to BB about how he's not accepted by the group.

But almost every other scene they show of him in the house he's actually there with a group of housemates talking and having a laugh.

The housemates talk with him, sit outside with him, and one one occasion he's actually having a hopping race with him.

What does Pav expect of them?
Even Marlon seemed to be more on his own in his last week than Pav is.”

Agree, this 'I'm being rejected' narrative Pav is promoting, just doesn't add up with what we actually see happening. We see him rapping with Winston, sitting and chatting with everyone, singing and playing and generally having fun.

Sure they are wary of him and they talk about him, but that's not surprising since the only stuff they know about him comes from outside. They have no reason to distrust the judgement of those former housemates who all advised them to be suspicious of him.
NathalieR
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Cat-:
“I pretty much agree with you. I think the hms have been full of suspicion and paranoia and have not taken too well to Pav's VT. However, the excuses that they have come up with to validate their points are laughable. In fact, they've actually changed the context of what was said in his letter and are making a mountain out of a molehill that he's some kind of gold digger and will kill to get to the final and the 'prize money'.

I also think Pav has made every effort to fit in and get along with them. He has been seen to do this and like another poster has said above, we have seen him sit and have a laugh or having fun. But | think that's down to Pav trying not to allow them to ostracise him and just forcing himself to be part of the group. Where else would he go? Sit on his own in the bedroom? Surely that would really be seeking sympathy and victim status? No, instead he's probably flummoxed and confused at the open hostility shown from the likes of Mark. That incident where he was asked his opinion about what kind of fruit he'd be was an example of being hostile even though they were the ones to ask his opinion. I.e. to look like they are including him but then sneering at him when he says anything. It's very subtle, but it's there and he must be confused by it.

And then the talking and bitching about him behind his back. It's the viewers who have given Pav the victim status, not Pav himself. He's said he expects to go on Friday because he doesn't fit in despite his efforts, but will do his best to have as good a week as he can.”

I agree, I really don’t think Pav has done anything wrong, even with how he reacts to being isolated.
I actually liked Marlon (one of the few who did lol!) but I felt when they had the issue with him saving himself, he didn’t help himself once he became isolated, moping around in bed etc but in this instance with Pav, I do think Pav has tried to intergrate himself.
JVS
31-07-2014
Pav isn't a blokey bloke so he would never have fitted in with the 'cool gang' even if he had been in there from Day 1. Sadly, Chris has made sure he won't fit in the meek-and-mild group, either.

Pav is doing his best to mingle by sitting in on conversations and relaxing on the same sofas, but I'm not surprised that he still feels ostracised.
Cat-
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by BlackberryGirl:
“Agree, this 'I'm being rejected' narrative Pav is promoting, just doesn't add up with what we actually see happening. We see him rapping with Winston, sitting and chatting with everyone, singing and playing and generally having fun.

Sure they are wary of him and they talk about him, but that's not surprising since the only stuff they know about him comes from outside. They have no reason to distrust the judgement of those former housemates who all advised them to be suspicious of him.”

Yes that's exactly what he's been doing - joining in and making the best of his experience in the house. How does that detract from getting the cold shoulder or omissions when speaking one-to-one to the hms. And those same hms are not telling the truth at all, but instead as soon as his back is turned they are slating him and even making up lies about him. I.e. his letter from home that changed from 'end goal' to 'prize money'. These are the same hms that have had no qualms in jumping ship, ostracising hms etc. So in that respect it's par for the course with Pav. In fact, why not treat him with even more contempt and those who were left out join right in with the others instead of having the least bit of empathy for his situation.
NathalieR
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Heyyouoverthere:
“You don't know that either. Just because he goes into the DR and bleats it parrot fashion it doesn't mean it's happening. The hms talk about each other even after being together for a longer time.than Pav. BB could be using the odd times the hms talk about Pav because that is the part they have chosen for him.

Just as it seems they have chosen to show Zoe in a negative way just talking about herself and thiking she is above everyone else. The hms seem to have good things to say about her so i am sure she just doesn't have those conversations that BB wants us to believe just as Pav probably doesn't feel isolated as they want us to believe either.”

I have to say I am inclined to believe he has been isolated in there, not just on what he himself has said, and how he has felt in there, and what we have seen, but also bearing in mind he is constantly being talked about by the other HM’s in a negative context.
I find it sad that he would be relieved to leave should he be evicted on Friday.
I don’t think he has really over done the sympathy card either.
Cat-
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by NathalieR:
“I have to say I am inclined to believe he has been isolated in there, not just on what he himself has said, and how he has felt in there, and what we have seen, but also bearing in mind he is constantly being talked about by the other HM’s in a negative context.
I find it sad that he would be relieved to leave should he be evicted on Friday.
I don’t think he has really over done the sympathy card either.”

I think they are doing there best to isolate him, but Pav is also doing his best not to let it get to him. He's got fighting spirit from what I've seen of him. That would be hard going though if it was to go on for weeks and weeks and never being accepted.

I'm just hoping that the reveal task has given some of the hms food for thought and they change their behaviour in a more positive way.
PERILLA
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Cat-:
“Are you referring to several convos that took place after Pav's letter was read out and where the 'end goal' all of a sudden became the 'prize money'? And then all of a sudden these hms who are only in there for the experience start slating Pav for wanting to win?

What the heck are they all doing in there? I smell the hypocrisy a mile off with this lot.”

Exactly this. They seem to have jumped on him because of his letter from home, started picking away at it and have now come to the conclusion that it could only mean bad things. Personally I think his family were telling him to hang in there even though they were all giving him a rough time. Yes they are hypocrites.
Cat-
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by PERILLA:
“Exactly this. They seem to have jumped on him because of his letter from home, started picking away at it and have now come to the conclusion that it could only mean bad things. Personally I think his family were telling him to hang in there even though they were all giving him a rough time. Yes they are hypocrites.”

It's the same with all groups who single out one individual. The worst trait is the validation they all seek from one another that it's somehow okay to do so.
NathalieR
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Petula Gordino:
“BB producers WANTED everyone to hate the new housemates.....they said that they wanted to "stir things up" so this is exactly how BB wanted it to go....everyone is being controlled by BB. Have people forgotten that BB is the 'baddie' here which is why people are losing interest in the show...its all gone 'too far' and its become very nasty.

The show used to be fun but this year people are hating the show”

Yeah I do see why the HM's have turned against pav and zoe as everyone is paranoid and thats what BB wanted.

I agree this year is nasty although I am still enjoying it.
Cat-
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by NathalieR:
“Yeah I do see why the HM's have turned against pav and zoe as everyone is paranoid and thats what BB wanted.

I agree this year is nasty although I am still enjoying it.”

I'm enjoying it too but want triumph over the odds for Pav to stay and get a few cheers on Friday night.
NathalieR
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Cat-:
“I think they are doing there best to isolate him, but Pav is also doing his best not to let it get to him. He's got fighting spirit from what I've seen of him. That would be hard going though if it was to go on for weeks and weeks and never being accepted.

I'm just hoping that the reveal task has given some of the hms food for thought and they change their behaviour in a more positive way.”

I do like Pav, I didn’t at first but I like how he has dealt with being outcast as such and accused of things like staring.
psychedelic
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Cat-:
“Yes that's exactly what he's been doing - joining in and making the best of his experience in the house. How does that detract from getting the cold shoulder or omissions when speaking one-to-one to the hms. And those same hms are not telling the truth at all, but instead as soon as his back is turned they are slating him and even making up lies about him. I.e. his letter from home that changed from 'end goal' to 'prize money'. These are the same hms that have had no qualms in jumping ship, ostracising hms etc. So in that respect it's par for the course with Pav. In fact, why not treat him with even more contempt and those who were left out join right in with the others instead of having the least bit of empathy for his situation.”

But all the HM's know that Pav is obsessed with money, he says he wakes up every morning with a vision of a million pounds (or is it dollars) on the ceiling, it's his goal.
Cat-
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by psychedelic:
“But all the HM's know that Pav is obsessed with money, he says he wakes up every morning with a vision of a million pounds (or is it dollars) on the ceiling, it's his goal.”

Well given that they have a propensity to believe whatever they like to validate their distrust or dislike of him, then I'd take that with a pinch of salt.
NathalieR
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by JVS:
“Pav isn't a blokey bloke so he would never have fitted in with the 'cool gang' even if he had been in there from Day 1. Sadly, Chris has made sure he won't fit in the meek-and-mild group, either.

Pav is doing his best to mingle by sitting in on conversations and relaxing on the same sofas, but I'm not surprised that he still feels ostracised.”

Agreed.

I think he went into the house with a game plan and a ”player”, they probably all did and particularly going into the house at such a late stage you need one really, but once you are there, I think everything changes and game plans can go out the window.

I do feel he feels isolated especially because he hasn’t really played the sympathy card too much, the only time he showed real emotion is when he got his letter from home and it looked like a release of what he has been feeling just came out. But what I like is he isnt moping around.
An Thropologist
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Alrightmate:
“On just about every HL show Pav is seen in the diary room speaking to BB about how he's not accepted by the group.

But almost every other scene they show of him in the house he's actually there with a group of housemates talking and having a laugh.

The housemates talk with him, sit outside with him, and one one occasion he's actually having a hopping race with him.

What does Pav expect of them?
Even Marlon seemed to be more on his own in his last week than Pav is.”

Yes I have been scratching my head about that too. He says he feels ostracised yet appears to be included in conversations etc. His personal account hasn't seemed to match the footage we have seen.
NathalieR
31-07-2014
I think he has just been trying to join in, make the most of it, but I wonder how many people bar Zoe he can realyl sit and have a proper conversation with beyind the odd word or task. I like that he is trying to fit in and not just mope about.
Bunions
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Petula Gordino:
“I heard two housemates talking about Pav on the HL show tonight; I think it was Ash and Helen (although I’m not sure) .

They were talking about Pav and they said “Pav keeps boasting all the time that he is going to ‘win the money’ obviously BB isn’t showing us this footage because they want Chris out on Friday but why on earth is Pav doing this..

If he wants to be accepted as part of the group he should keep that to himself and then maybe he wouldn’t have to keep going in the DR and whining on and on about not being accepted…..

Pav also said he has been watching BB from day one….so, where was he when Christopher, Chris and Ashleigh were getting bullied and not accepted by the other house mates. They had to work hard to be accepted and it was painful for them.

Sorry guys but Pav is using the “I’m a victim so please vote the old housemates out because they don’t like me ” as a way to the final….it won’t work ….sadly Winston will be the winner.”

Have you got a magic telly?

Chris admitted he'd been excluding Pav - Pav didn't have to PLAY the victim, he WAS the victim ffs.
NathalieR
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Bunions:
“Have you got a magic telly?

Chris admitted he'd been excluding Pav - Pav didn't have to PLAY the victim, he WAS the victim ffs.”

Thats true, when Chris was asked the questionhe didnt deny it and Mark also talked about it.

I think its fairly obvious that Pav is being a little isolated/excluded in there if you take into account all the factors but at the same token this is what BB wanted by putting in HMs so late in the game AND the fact Danielle Bianca and Matthew said what they said.
psychedelic
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Cat-:
“Well given that they have a propensity to believe whatever they like to validate their distrust or dislike of him, then I'd take that with a pinch of salt. ”

They all distrust him. It's not to do with him being a late entrant because they all trust Zoe so why do you think they all feel the same way about him? Remember they live with the guy.
trevor tiger
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Alrightmate:
“On just about every HL show Pav is seen in the diary room speaking to BB about how he's not accepted by the group.

But almost every other scene they show of him in the house he's actually there with a group of housemates talking and having a laugh.

The housemates talk with him, sit outside with him, and one one occasion he's actually having a hopping race with him.

What does Pav expect of them?
Even Marlon seemed to be more on his own in his last week than Pav is.”

Mm I'm not sure I understand this Are you suggesting that everything is hunky dory and Pav is just pretending otherwise. IMO the issue is that the HMs don't trust him because of his VT, because of what ex HMs said and because he's a newbie. They made their feelings known and this led to Pav finding it hard to integrate.

This has been compounded by the vicious public reception and Chris telling him where and where not to look

Most have said that they will / do include him which they do but there must be a brick wall type atmosphere what with all the mistrust. Even up until last night both Ashleigh and Mark are still saying they won't ever trust him. This must have a massive effect on Pav's time there.

Regarding the money this is just another stick to beat PV with IMO. His letter said keep focused on the goal or something like that and this has been interpreted by everyone bar Ashleigh who got it as meaning only money matters to him, he thinks he's going to win and he's only here for the money.

I'd suggest their obsessing over this says more about them than him. So what if he is only there for the money. Chris had something to say about this and yet he also said he couldn't be bothered to get to know him.

They're basically finding reasons not to like him to justify their dislike of him.
Cat-
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by psychedelic:
“They all distrust him. It's not to do with him being a late entrant because they all trust Zoe so why do you think they all feel the same way about him? Remember they live with the guy.”

They don't trust Zoe either.
Cat-
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by trevor tiger:
“Mm I'm not sure I understand this Are you suggesting that everything is hunky dory and Pav is just pretending otherwise. IMO the issue is that the HMs don't trust him because of his VT, because of what ex HMs said and because he's a newbie. They made their feelings known and this led to Pav finding it hard to integrate.

This has been compounded by the vicious public reception and Chris telling him where and where not to look

Most have said that they will / do include him which they do but there must be a brick wall type atmosphere what with all the mistrust. Even up until last night both Ashleigh and Mark are still saying they won't ever trust him. This must have a massive effect on Pav's time there.

Regarding the money this is just another stick to beat PV with IMO. His letter said keep focused on the goal or something like that and this has been interpreted by everyone bar Ashleigh who got it as meaning only money matters to him, he thinks he's going to win and he's only here for the money.

I'd suggest their obsessing over this says more about them than him. So what if he is only there for the money. Chris had something to say about this and yet he also said he couldn't be bothered to get to know him.

They're basically finding reasons not to like him to justify their dislike of him.”

Agreed.
Ron_Andrews
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Bunions:
“Have you got a magic telly?

Chris admitted he'd been excluding Pav - Pav didn't have to PLAY the victim, he WAS the victim ffs.”

If Chris was the group you would have point, but as he isn't you don't.
Bunions
31-07-2014
Originally Posted by Ron_Andrews:
“If Chris was the group you would have point, but as he isn't you don't.”

Was Pav a victim of Chris's behaviour or not?
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