Originally Posted by MissySmith:
“This. Attractiveness should be equal.”
In a lot of cases appearance doesn't come into it although people do judge.
Hubby happens to be much better looking. There was actually a comment many years ago - we were in the pub sitting with an acquaintance, hubby went to the bar and the chap turned to me and said "how did you pull him?"
I don't remember my reply.
You can't make assumptions about relationships.