There have been many, many far worse to live with housemates than Helen. Often the people who shout and scream and attack have zero ability to understand another person's way of thinking or feeling. Helen is aggressive when angry, but she is capable of reasoning and seeing another point of view when she wants to listen. And when she's not drunk she doesn't argue often. Barring the first few weeks when (a lot due to Pauline's words) Helen didn't trust people she hasn't had
that many arguments... particularly not that many when you take away the ones Big Brother initiated by their stirring! It's just that when she does have an argument it's a massive screaming battle with all her vitriol directed towards her target.
Originally Posted by Enidan:
“As Mark said ' if she let's you in........' they all acknowledged that if she doesn't she is horrendous.”
I think Helen has let most people in in there. You're right that she is not so far as friends with some as she doesn't trust them fully, but she's certainly supported Chris a lot, she's been friendly with Ashleigh and has seemed to like her for a time, she got on with Christopher even for a while. These three (actually excluding Chris whom Helen has gotten on with for longer than the others) are the ones she gets on least with, but she's not been against them the whole time.
I'd argue that since Helen heard Chris' reasoning for doing the show back in the week the girls had the power ages ago she's possibly had more nice things to say about Chris than he has her. Not that he hasn't and nice things to say too. But I think he's probably done more bitching about Helen than she has about him.
Anyway, there are a lot more awful people to be living with who have been in the house in the past. Helen has her flaws, but the hatred towards her I feel has been inflated due to her pass to the final meaning there has been no chance to get rid of her and also her past.
Just in this year's show Pauline was clearly worse to live with and I think Toya had become so before she left as well.