Originally Posted by curvybabes:
“I saw it as she cottoned onto the fact that Gary was popular with the public so she thought she,d stick in with him. She wasn't considerate at the start when she was drunk, shouting in the bedroom and falling into his bed in the middle of the night.”
Let's say that was her motivation. That her actions were influenced by what she felt the public thought.
If that's the case then so what?
If she was kinder to him, forgot that he was supposed to be somebody to be excluded, and actually had some fun with him and they made each other feel better,...then where's the harm in that? What I'm saying is that even if that was a gameplan of hers it would actually be quite a nice gameplan wouldn't it? Which involves being nice to people as opposed to making them feel awful?
However, thinking even further back, that time when Dee and Lauren were apparently bitching about Gary when he was sat right next to them, didn't Lauren offer to make Gary a sandwich? That was while ago wasn't it?
That was a really nice thing to do regardless wasn't it? Gameplan or no gameplan.
Now in hindsight I'm wondering if it was more the case that Dee was bitching to Lauren. But that at the time nobody really considered that Lauren may have actually been changing back then, as we had little to go on so just assumed that she was on the same hymn sheet as Dee and James.
I think it's fair to say that sometimes the more you get to know someone the more you start to see the real person and the superficial surface image just becomes invisible after a while.