Originally Posted by Lamballe:
“So because someone had a tough childhood, they should treat other people like rubbish and walk all over them and take what they want, no matter who else suffers for it?
Kristina is being singled out because she has a history. I would feel the same if a man made a dodgy habit of getting involved with married/taken/vulnerable women.
As for the rocky marriage thing, I thought marriage was "til death us do part" not "until I get bored of my humdrum life of wife, kids and charity promotion". Would you be happy if your partner gave up on trying to work things out and fell into bed with someone else? I can't imagine someone ever being happy about that. But celebrities are allowed to do whatever they like, right? As long as they're not hurting those who blindly worship them, what does it matter? It's entertainment at the end of the day, whatever they get up to. Something for nobodies to live vicariously through.
If marriage was not important and sacred, why do people all over the world fight so vehemently to legalise it for themselves?
At the end of the day, it is all speculation (though, to those who think those involved saying there was no third party involved is gospel, remember when a very high profile person stated on camera in front of the whole world that they "did not have sexual relations" with the woman accusing him, who then, funnily enough, became very, very famous after the truth came out), but if it IS true, a fling is bad enough, but if Ben's actually gone and left his wife for Kristina, more fool him.”
“So because someone had a tough childhood, they should treat other people like rubbish and walk all over them and take what they want, no matter who else suffers for it?
Kristina is being singled out because she has a history. I would feel the same if a man made a dodgy habit of getting involved with married/taken/vulnerable women.
As for the rocky marriage thing, I thought marriage was "til death us do part" not "until I get bored of my humdrum life of wife, kids and charity promotion". Would you be happy if your partner gave up on trying to work things out and fell into bed with someone else? I can't imagine someone ever being happy about that. But celebrities are allowed to do whatever they like, right? As long as they're not hurting those who blindly worship them, what does it matter? It's entertainment at the end of the day, whatever they get up to. Something for nobodies to live vicariously through.
If marriage was not important and sacred, why do people all over the world fight so vehemently to legalise it for themselves?
At the end of the day, it is all speculation (though, to those who think those involved saying there was no third party involved is gospel, remember when a very high profile person stated on camera in front of the whole world that they "did not have sexual relations" with the woman accusing him, who then, funnily enough, became very, very famous after the truth came out), but if it IS true, a fling is bad enough, but if Ben's actually gone and left his wife for Kristina, more fool him.”
No one is saying that marriage isn't sacred or that cheating isn't wrong but people at the end of the day people are human and relationships fail for all sorts of reasons. It's also a shame for the kids involved however way you slice it. I objected to the hounding of Bill Clinton too - as long as someone isn't making political capital out of being 'moral' then it it's not particuarly revelvant what they do in their private life. I don't blindly worship Kristina or any celeb but I do object to high-handledly judging someone when actually you have no idea what they're really like. I don't either but I'm not the one judging her. As someone else said it must be cold in that ivory tower.
I think that was probably me, Kat! 
don't give the rumours any more oxygen.
