Originally Posted by aggs:
“Some if it isn't just rumour, though, and if people want to make a decision to like/not like someone based on their own personal preferences of behaviour, then that's up to them surely?”
Absolutely. Everyone has standards. If they let Ratko Mladic out of jail, or Anders Breivik, I don't want to see them on SCD but they're the kinds of extreme where I feel you need a decisive social answer to behaviour. Not the miniature rights and wrongs of ordinary life. Especially when that ordinary messy behaviour is filtered through our glorious press
ETA I don't much like Gregg, or dislike him. I felt sorry for him in his pitiably frightened Cha Cha last night. Poor sod lost any sense of the whole routine but he kept going and there was a lot of content. Personally, I think Aliona did really well to keep him on track.
I'm not immune to the fun of their crappy relationship. The idea she's wearing gloves for protection is fun.


But, but, but, big but... It makes me uncomfortable when a body of opinion decides one thing based on signals, hints and half-heard stuff. For contrast, look at the BBC Facebook reactions to their training vid where folk en masse condemned Aliona for her treatment of poor Gregg. Hardly a voice said otherwise. To me that mass opinion (especially cos it's to do with private lives that we're not part of) is a signal to go slow and not judge
yet...