Originally Posted by peeve:
“And I'm sick to death of those ridiculous homewrecker stories - and sick to death of people who constantly blame the woman when a man has an affair, or blame a woman (any vaguely connected woman) when a man's marriage breaks down. Have you been watching too much Downton Abbey? This is the 21st century, when you would have thought a man and a woman could smile at each other without people assuming they're jumping into bed with each other. What boundaries are you talking about? And how an earth do two people dance, say, a rumba, without the odd smouldering look. Why is it Kristina's job to 'protect the spouses from hurt'? What utter nonsense!”
Downton
It's called female intuition I guess.... I haven't slated K, just said she could be more careful, but it's not her duty to you're right. Would have been kind and respectful though. She was all over him, staring wistfully...it wasn't a smile n a high five. Then being in public witH his arm round her soon after the marriage breakdown was not a nice thing for either of them to do, his wife must have been gutted, it was lazy and thoughtless at the least.
This isn't a thread about Ben!
If i was a dancer id be very aware of the wife watching, would keep the relationship extremely professional And vastly play down the 'chemistry' act, and certainly never act on it. Then having said that in real life I barely even look my friends' boyfriends in the eye - ott maybe but I don't want my friends to get the slightest idea that I might pose any threat whatsoever. I've been burned in the past by friends guys coming onto me, was extremely unwanted, awkward, killed friendships and so im just extra sensitive to these things maybe... Also I like to treat people the way I'd want to be treated.