Originally Posted by Mirliton:
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Thanks Jennifer, that's very interesting, not least because it presents a counter view to what we viewers are regularly fed about the male celebs having the hardest time because they have to lead, and the implication of that therefore being that the female celebs have it relatively easy!
I also remember someone (may have been you, can't remember now), saying that on Strictly, the pieces are choreographed and each couple has the floor to themselves, and as a result, the male celeb doesn't actually have to lead the female pro.
I'm therefore inclined to think the female celebs do not have it any easier than the male celebs at all. Like some others here, I thought Kellie did extremely well.”
Hi - yes it probably was me !
Firstly not taking anything away from the hard work that the lady celebs have put in, they simply would not have the skill of knowing how to follow. The lead is not just the man pushing/pulling or steering. It is far more subtle than that. Its two bodies dancing as one, as lady, you are in tune with what your partner is "telling" you to do through body connection.
The man leads through his body but through his back, with the ladies weight coming forward by relaxing through her legs and knees, there is a resistance or light pressure.
The lady will always have the feel that her weight is coming forward even though she is dancing backwards, to keep this light pressure, without this you cannot really monitor as well. An exercise that we often use in our practice is to dance with a CD or Tea towel between us, and it should not drop no matter what you are dancing.
The man will dance groups with correct alignment through feet and body, the lady will instinctively know - if this is lead correctly - what groups the man is dancing. This is something that you really learn over time. I remember one particular Championships at Blackpool and there were so many couples on the floor, we could not dance what we had planned, my partner just had to look for the spaces on the floor to dance. He made up the whole routine as he went along and I just had to relax and follow.
There is no doubt that the lady celebs have it easier to look good. They still have to learn the steps etc, but they are dancing with a Pro who will have a good frame from which to dance. The male celeb will also have to learn how to hold a good frame ( rarely they do as it takes a long time to master) and look as though he is leading.