Originally Posted by Whedonite:
“How is it possible to take sexism too seriously? I watch videos on Youtube and the comments are full of sexism. I read posts on Imdb and they're also full of sexism. I watch TV and I see women being dragged for being "slags" when the men don't. I come here and post after post about Katie is about her not "keeping her knickers on" or her inability to "keep her legs shut". Victoria was called a slag for having a one nighter and someone even claimed he didn't think she was "like that". Ross though, has had several one nighters and do you remember all the posts about him being a slag or some male equivalent? Nope, because men get away with it. Just because something is suppose to be funny, doesn't mean it's not sexist. What about the Leyla/Jai/Megan situation? Leyla is being blamed and she nearly had to give up her business, but Jai is basically forgiven. No sexism there from the writers.
ED is absolutely disgusting when it comes to sexism. Yes, Katie cheated on Robert, but Robert cheated on her after being engaged and he cheated on Donna. He did his fair share of sleeping around, but like Adam, he's allowed to call the women vile names for doing exactly what he did.”
You just said everything that annoys me about sexism on the internet/tv. Every time I browse various places on the internet about tv/books/movies/celebrities there's always loads of sexism - some obvious, some not, some 'jokey' and some not. It's disgusting to me however it's put across.
Then there's all the 'slut shaming' in various programmes/movies - it's not just banter or a bit of fun, it's pure sexism. If it doesn't change on tv or other media consumed by millions, then it further normalises women being called sluts and slags for having sex/relationships. It needs to change somewhere, and I very much doubt society as a whole will suddenly be enlightened al by its self.
If used right TV could be a powerful tool to teach youngsters, the impressionable and the unenlightened about sexism, misogyny and loads of other things. Sadly, all it seems is to do is promote sexism by having women being called all sorts as if that's the right and normal reaction to them having a sex life. No, Katie and other female characters need to stick up for themselves,, shut down that kind of attitude, and call the sexist people out on their outdated, backward views.