Originally Posted by chachachavvy:
“Yeah, I mean I wasn't really ever going to end up voting for her anyway but I was defrosting slightly. I'm not just singling out Pixie. It was a genuine question when I started the thread. I know there are lots of people who say 'It's a dance competition' but we are not being asked to be objective, impartial judges. It is just a Saturday night entertainment show. There were things about Gregg that meant I would never vote for him and there are aspects of Mark's personality coming out that I don't like. I guess it's a question of not wanting to reward someone you don't feel should be rewarded. Believe me, if things came out about my favourites I would go off them too. If you are not a paid, professional judge then it's hard to vote for someone you don't empathise with or respect.
I'm glad I grew up in a time when the pop stars, even the most lightweight ones, were a bit more relatable and political. I guess that's why I'm surprised a lot of young musicians and actors these days seem less progressive and more superficial. You could have gone to the pub with Bananarama!”
I'm often (too) likely to defend unlikeable characters, or to try harder to find the reasons to like them, in a restoring-the-balance kind of way, but on the big central things that matter most to me, I have to let core beliefs win through. But there again I'm a bit woolly. Finding the positive reason to support someone has more sway than discovering a negative one. Eg I voted once or twice for Johnny Ball
despite his anti-climate change stance but it just isn't in me
not to support Backshall, be he ever so crap at dancing, because of what he stands for. I celebrate his small deviations from crapness & admire the spirit

But then in previous years there hasn't really been anyone to respect like that and I've tended to follow the golden rule that whoever keeps Pasha in the comp longest is best. A fine principled outlook
Oh until developing a huge girl crush on Anya last year