Originally Posted by george.millman:
“Not necessarily sexist, Pamela targeted Lauren last week.”
Couldn't that be sexist too? The way women see other women can be just as sexist, imo, as the way men see them.
Originally Posted by Scarlet O'Hara:
“I agree that Mark is really competent. He's very persuasive when selling or pitching, a great communicator, relatively cool, confident, shrewd, tactical, etc.
But I think people are finding it ugly that he may be using his gift of persuasion and intelligence in a tactical way as the competition hots up. The flip side of persuasion is manipulation, and I think there's a tendency, possibly unfairly, for us to perceive intelligent, tactical people as threatening. The GBP would rather someone nice and sporting won, like Roisin or Tom the inventor. Plus he does come out with some very arrogant comments (him not being a joke like Daniel or James makes that arrogance more jarring).”
A very reasonable tendency, since they might turn their tactics on you, were you ever to encounter them.
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“Watching him with the useless Daniel is like watching a cat with a mouse although Im gobsmacked Daniel is still there, and so too I imagine, is Mark. Mark has my sympathy there. But after last week, he knew he had to be PM come what may, and he had to know that Lauren was favourite to go. I don't think people like the slightly dishonest, hellbent way he protected himself this week by pushing to be PM, repeatedly drawing attention to Lauren's lack of contribution (even though roles were limited) and supportively giving Daniel all that rope to hang himself with. Its probably what I'd have done though. What I wouldn't have done is choose to focus the blame on Lauren simply because Sugar had her in his sights, not when Daniel yet again screwed up the task. I suspect Mark knew Daniel could wait though, he's walking the green mile.
But he's in a competition and he's playing that side of the game quite brilliantly IMO...focussing on his performance but with an eye on his contingency plan. It's subtle, it's canny, it's what some successful people do, they don't just promote themselves, they target and eliminate the competition. But I can see why it's not endearing....in a climate of corporate greed and government corruption, the public are hostile to the kind of manoeuvring and ruthlessness we see from politicians and business leaders. And I think that's what people see in Mark. But the public don't have to invest 250k and in that sense, he's probably one of the safest pair of hands in the process (if he's got a good proposition.)”
Yes, some successful people. Fortunately, it's not what all successful people do, just the despicable ones. In this context, we're talking about eliminating the competition on a personal level, not trying to win against other companies in the marketplace, though even between competing companies, using underhand tactics to win is still quite despicable; and it's not the "
climate of corporate greed and government corruption" that makes it so. It would be despicable no matter what the climate.
His tactics aren't so subtle that viewers haven't caught on. Perhaps someone in there will find a way to use his slyness against him.
Re the theory that he's a good manager, would you want to work for or with someone like that who might use sly tactics against you at any time? I certainly wouldn't. I think a good manager should be able to provide positive motivation and get people to work together, not set an example of using sly tactics so that everyone has to always watch their backs. The people he eliminates in that way might even turn out to be the very people he'd need to devise an innovative new product, to develop more productive ways of working, or whatever.
Unfortunately, tv shows such The Apprentice and Big Brother help establish the idea, in people's minds, that when something's a competition, or a game, all tactics are acceptable, no matter how despicable they'd normally seem.