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Irrating and fake IMO
I don' get why viewers vote for her though as it's obvious barring the food she isn't going to do the challenges. Plus how much of Kendra doing the food was helped by having Jimmy there as support? I guess one good thing is that by Gemma leaving it means we don't have trial after trial of her doing them. However Kendra is just as bad. Can't wait for when the viewers stop voting and we actually get a good trial. |
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I bet there are still few posters who are scratching their heads even after this explanation!
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This is not meant to be nasty but I have just found out that Kendra's baby is only a matter of months old! (I had nooooo idea who she was or what she was famous for until this week)
I am actually staggered that she would leave a baby that young just to be on a reality show. Whilst I am sure that the baby is being well looked after, needs net etc I cannot for one minute imagine anyone making such a decision. I could never have left my babies at that age. I would have been destroyed emotionally to be away from them for so long. This does rather give credence to her me me me philosophy though. I wonder if Edwina knows this? ![]() Quote:
Actually the husband is Hank Basket but what is most disturbing (which she admitted) is that he is battling depression and she does admit not paying enough attention to his severe illness. Is he really looking after the children?!!!!!!!!
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Irrating and fake IMO
I don' get why viewers vote for her though as it's obvious barring the food she isn't going to do the challenges. Plus how much of Kendra doing the food was helped by having Jimmy there as support? I guess one good thing is that by Gemma leaving it means we don't have trial after trial of her doing them. However Kendra is just as bad. Can't wait for when the viewers stop voting and we actually get a good trial. |
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This is not meant to be nasty but I have just found out that Kendra's baby is only a matter of months old! (I had nooooo idea who she was or what she was famous for until this week)
I am actually staggered that she would leave a baby that young just to be on a reality show. Whilst I am sure that the baby is being well looked after, needs net etc I cannot for one minute imagine anyone making such a decision. I could never have left my babies at that age. I would have been destroyed emotionally to be away from them for so long. |
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Oh, for pity's sake. Much as I dislike Kendra, barely anybody would bat a flippin' eyelid if she was a bloke who left their partner with a young child for three weeks. Are we to presume her partner is too useless to cope and the woman should be stuck home all day? Jesus wept. Apparently it's the 15th century.
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Well no that's not true.
I remember being very touched last year by Alsonso clearly missing his baby and totally sympathised with him as a new parent. I'm sure that he admitted early on that it was a mistake doing IAC because of the age of his baby |
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Oh, for pity's sake. Much as I dislike Kendra, barely anybody would bat a flippin' eyelid if she was a bloke who left their partner with a young child for three weeks. Are we to presume her partner is too useless to cope and the woman should be stuck home all day? Jesus wept. Apparently it's the 15th century.
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It bores me to tears when the ITV2 show (mainly Andy Peters) bangs on about Kendra 'knowing reality TV inside out' and chooses whether or not to get all the stars.
Complete and utter BS, she got the stars because it was an easier task. |
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Oh, for pity's sake. Much as I dislike Kendra, barely anybody would bat a flippin' eyelid if she was a bloke who left their partner with a young child for three weeks. Are we to presume her partner is too useless to cope and the woman should be stuck home all day? Jesus wept. Apparently it's the 15th century.
So no it was not about a 15th C view of motherhood. |
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£100K for 4 weeks work and people think she is in the wrong I wonder how many people would turn down that amount of money. when she gets out I am sure she will make another significant amount for Photo shoots. Imo that is a small sacrifice to set up a family for a good few years.
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£100K for 4 weeks work and people think she is in the wrong I wonder how many people would turn down that amount of money. when she gets out I am sure she will make another significant amount for Photo shoots. Imo that is a small sacrifice to set up a family for a good few years.
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I would have thought a mothers love and presence whilst the kids are young (and the father ill) sets the family up better than money TBH. JMHO
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I respect your opinion but imo 4 weeks is a small sacrifice for a lot of Financial security.
I'm not sure why people see only money as 'setting up and security' - relationships are far more precious. |
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I find it amazing that people can call Kendra such nasty names and say such nasty things about her and yet accuse her of speaking in a nasty way to Edwina. Some of the bile aimed at her imo is beyond pathetic and is like some completion to see who can make the nastiest comment.
Some people may have formed opinions based on her reality shows and how she behaves. |
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Why all the debate about a woman leaving her children with her husband why not also debate some of the other camp mates circumstances as well or is it just pick on one camp mate I'm only asking as I can't see anyone ele mentioned before anyone jumps down my throat
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If she wins 10 stars at her next trial I will say something nice about her.
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I would have thought a mothers love and presence whilst the kids are young (and the father ill) sets the family up better than money TBH. JMHO
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Actually I meant that Kendra seems to be unaffected by this.
I would have been a basket case after 2-3 days, it's not like she can pick up the phone anytime and speak to her children or know that they are ok. I went away for a few days when my youngest was 5 and I felt awful and missed them terribly. I used to miss them when I went to work too and you know that they will be fine and looked after but I was talking about the emotional separation as a mother. Actually, for the record, I would not have left my children for 3-4 weeks for any amount of money. I'm not sure that many new mums/dads would too. |
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She can always earn money - you can never get the time back with your children.
I'm not sure why people see only money as 'setting up and security' - relationships are far more precious. |
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Or...maybe Kendra just knows all too well unlike a lot of the posters on here exactly what it entails to live with very little money or no money, maybe she's more aware of the fact that it's a life or death situation and hasn't had the privilege of a family network to support her?
I don't think you should be able to comment on what someone has to endure to make money unless you've actually been there yourself. You might be surprised at what you'll lower yourself to do in desperate times. |
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I respect your opinion but imo 4 weeks is a small sacrifice for a lot of Financial security.
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Or...maybe Kendra just knows all too well unlike a lot of the posters on here exactly what it entails to live with very little money or no money, maybe she's more aware of the fact that it's a life or death situation and hasn't had the privilege of a family network to support her?
I don't think you should be able to comment on what someone has to endure to make money unless you've actually been there yourself. You might be surprised at what you'll lower yourself to do in desperate times. No matter what, there were lines that I would never, ever have crossed and and I really don't think that Kenrda has really had to make any tough decisions in her life. She chose to go into prostitution at the age of 18 and has lived in the spotlight ever since. I doubt that her children are facing starvation!! |
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Such sanctimonious judgement on here.
I don't like Kendra one bit but this condemnation for 'abandoning' her baby is quite ridiculous. You'd think she was the first parent ever to take up the offer of a nice 3-week earner. Her business, her family arrangements, no one else's. And no one knows her financial situation so suggestions that she doesn't need to do this show are pulled-out-of-thin-air absurd and presumptive.There's plenty of reasons to dislike her but taking up a 3-week job offer with the potential to earn money afterwards off the back of it is really not one of them. |
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Such sanctimonious judgement on here.
I don't like Kendra one bit but this condemnation for 'abandoning' her baby is quite ridiculous. You'd think she was the first parent ever to take up the offer of a nice 3-week earner. Her business, her family arrangements, no one else's. And no one knows her financial situation so suggestions that she doesn't need to do this show are pulled-out-of-thin-air absurd and presumptive.There's plenty of reasons to dislike her but taking up a 3-week job offer with the potential to earn money afterwards off the back of it is really not one of them. |
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Actually, for reasons that I won't go into, I was left destitute (and I mean peniless) by my ex husband and had 3 children to support.
No matter what, there were lines that I would never, ever have crossed and and I really don't think that Kenrda has really had to make any tough decisions in her life. She chose to go into prostitution at the age of 18 and has lived in the spotlight ever since. I doubt that her children are facing starvation!! You don't know what anyone else has been through in their lifetime, what hardships they've endured or what abuse suffered. Women have always had to make sacrifices to make ends meet, they had to work out in the fields once upon a time to provide for their kids, then they worked long hours in factories, women are still going into prostitution in some parts of the world as it's the only source of income they can acquire, not a pleasant fact, but it's societies fault not their own. There's no evidence whatsoever to suggest that Kendra doesn't love and want to achieve a home for her children, so what if she's made mistakes. If you were a forgiving person you would think twice over attacking her over her past. I'm sure you never made any mistakes like the rest of us at the age of eighteen too? |
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No body in Kendra's situation HAS to go into prostitution
She made a life choice which has worked out well for her (financially anyway) She has a partner/husband who earns money too. btw, it has taken me 15 years to work my way out of poverty and keep a roof over my childrens heads and feed them. Just sayin |
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That makes me feel rather sad.


I don't like Kendra one bit but this condemnation for 'abandoning' her baby is quite ridiculous. You'd think she was the first parent ever to take up the offer of a nice 3-week earner. Her business, her family arrangements, no one else's. And no one knows her financial situation so suggestions that she doesn't need to do this show are pulled-out-of-thin-air absurd and presumptive.