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Old 26-11-2014, 10:57
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I can't work out if she's proud, ashamed, regretful or totally left confused after her life living in the playboy mansion with Hef.

That whole conversation in the camp before the bust up with Edwina seemed to show someone who isn't entirely comfortable with their life with Hef. One minute defending the girls who have to sleep with him as a price to pay for lavish riches and the next saying she had a million dollars lavished on her when she announced she was engaged. And then the whole justifying her stance to have the right to do whatever she wants without criticism. Why would you even need to do that if you were so self assured in your life choices.

I think she's a pretty mixed up young woman. What's your thoughts?
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Old 26-11-2014, 11:07
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I just liked the face Mel pulled, she obviously is not too keen on playing the old 78s
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Old 26-11-2014, 11:12
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I just liked the face Mel pulled, she obviously is not too keen on playing the old 78s
Haha... Yes I noticed that.

The sad fact is that there's too many young woman that seem to have no problem seeing that as a fair price to pay. Having read a fair bit about him, I honestly don't know how he's been allowed to continue to operate.
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Old 26-11-2014, 11:58
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Haha... Yes I noticed that.

The sad fact is that there's too many young woman that seem to have no problem seeing that as a fair price to pay. Having read a fair bit about him, I honestly don't know how he's been allowed to continue to operate.
Well, that's the point, really. The definition of prostitution is "offering oneself for hire to engage in sexual relations", which is what Kendra did. I'm sure even she isn't so deluded as to imagine that she loved Heffner at the time, or that he loved her, she was a service provider and she was well paid for it. I've nothing particular against prostitution, I'd be happy enough if it was made legal, but let's call it what it is.
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Old 26-11-2014, 12:12
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Personally i think deep down she does sort of regret it but knows she wouldnt have what she has now without it.

Take that argument, she got all wound up and to me thats a sign that she thinks Edwina is right but doesnt want to admit it. Shes probably had many people question her choices, called her all sorts of things which is why she gets angry like that.
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Old 26-11-2014, 12:20
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Personally i think deep down she does sort of regret it but knows she wouldnt have what she has now without it.

Take that argument, she got all wound up and to me thats a sign that she thinks Edwina is right but doesnt want to admit it. Shes probably had many people question her choices, called her all sorts of things which is why she gets angry like that.
^ Agree. She comes across to me as part defiant, part defensive about it, particularly the way she glosses over the reality of what the playboy mansion was and is and focuses more on the 'perks'.
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Old 26-11-2014, 12:25
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I think she's a pretty mixed up young woman. What's your thoughts?
I think she is exactly that. She's had a tough life, and a pretty unusual one. She seemed to have found some sense of normalcy and had settled when she got married and had her two kids. But now that's all up in the air. I hope whatever happens - whether they work things out or get divorced - that she can find some resemblance of normal again as that was when she seemed to be at her happiest.
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Old 26-11-2014, 13:48
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.......................Having read a fair bit about him, I honestly don't know how he's been allowed to continue to operate.

I think if it was in the UK Operation Yewtree would have been knocking on his door by now! Then again, there has been a lot of coverage of the questionable behaviour of
Bill Cosby in the States, so maybe ...
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Old 26-11-2014, 14:12
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I think she is exactly that. She's had a tough life, and a pretty unusual one. She seemed to have found some sense of normalcy and had settled when she got married and had her two kids. But now that's all up in the air. I hope whatever happens - whether they work things out or get divorced - that she can find some resemblance of normal again as that was when she seemed to be at her happiest.
I didn't realise things weren't going well for her marriage. Isn't her youngest child a baby? The whole thing seems very sad. Maybe when you've lived the high life being the "girlfriend" of an incredibly rich old man the normality of being a wife, mother etc takes a bit of getting used to.
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Old 26-11-2014, 14:13
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I think Kendra is a very manipulative woman,
I didn't like her comments about Nadia when she came into the full camp. It is obvious that she needs to be at the centre of attention and she sees other women as competition (bit like a 14 year old really)
If she was happier with herself and her life choices then she might have more time to like herself and start to enjoy and learn from other people.
She has traded on her looks all her life and I'm afraid it hasn't helped her develop an engaging personality.
Also, can't stand all that screaming on the trials. Actually want to give her a good shake
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Old 26-11-2014, 14:15
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I think if it was in the UK Operation Yewtree would have been knocking on his door by now! Then again, there has been a lot of coverage of the questionable behaviour of
Bill Cosby in the States, so maybe ...
He'll probably die before anything comes out of the woodwork about him. I suspect much like Saville, he's a protected citizen given who has used his services. I imagine the girls all have to sign some kind of secrecy document too so as not to disclose anything other than what's permissable to sell their soft porn mags and other paraphernalia.
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Old 26-11-2014, 19:47
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I didn't realise things weren't going well for her marriage. Isn't her youngest child a baby? The whole thing seems very sad. Maybe when you've lived the high life being the "girlfriend" of an incredibly rich old man the normality of being a wife, mother etc takes a bit of getting used to.
It's generally considered in the US that the whole divorce thing was a PR stunt.
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Old 27-11-2014, 10:28
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She is so mixed up that I do not think she knows what she wants out of life now ? there are emotional scars within.
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