Originally Posted by patsylimerick:
“I actually feel more sorry for Mel than anything else. I think she's clearly been through fairly significant upheaval but that doesn't give her license to take it out on everyone else.
In terms of Edwina's tactics, as you call them; I completely understand why she interjected into Kendra's 'me, me, me' lecture. That must be fairly painful to listen to. Edwina's manner is a bit too direct, obviously, but she was completely right in what she said.
Just because Mel and Kendra are steeped in insecurity does not make it ok for them to sulk or fly off the handle every time anyone questions them.”
Just because they can be wound up doesn't make it ok to wind them up, though "Kendra's 'me, me, me' lecture" isn't really relevant here. (Not that I agree that Mel is "steeped in insecurity".)
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“Well she wasn't the only one. Both Nadia and Michael hinted at much the same. I don't know why you'd prefer 'claimed'. To me that would denote a doubtful assertion. Why would you doubt that she wanted to cook?”
The assertion wasn't only that she wanted to cook. It was "that she wanted to cook but had to bite her tongue because Mel had taken control of the kitchen and she felt it would just lead to an argument if she said she wanted to do some of the cooking".
You had to reduce it to "wanted to cook" to make it seem it wasn't sufficiently doubtful to merit "claimed".