Originally Posted by
sallystrawb:
“Yes I was very pleased when the popularity polls went up in his favour. But I was expecting they probably would. I think i'm quite a good judge of character, I saw him as quite a fun, entertaining, emotional character but not a nasty person, and I do like people who can be a bit nuts
I think sometimes you can tell the nature of someone's personality by the company they keep, and the main people that seemed to have any time for Perez were Nadia, Alicia, Keith, Katie P...the people I found to be nice and most down to earth...and I think he got on with Calum too, but I don't know what happened towards the end. I think pressure and stress got to that friendship.
Nadia was my second favourite, closely followed by Alicia....though on the launch night I thought Nadia had been in Absolutely Fabulous, I didn't realise that was her sister! Mind you, I had no idea who Perez was either, I just recognised the name.
Oh don't get me started on Michelle, I don't know how she can go on about fighting for the gay community constantly, but completely going against one of them, saying he's set the community back just because she didn't like his personality, its like saying 'James Jordan is an embarrassment to straight people coz he's a complete t*sspot', no...james Jordan is just a complete t*sspot...and if she didn't like Perez, she should just say she cant stand him, not that he is going to set the gay community back 50 years....one mans slightly odd personality is not going to set anything back.......sorry I'm in rant mode tonight. 
I really went off Kav after hearing the feedback from 2 different people who were at the finale night. They said the same thing that Kav, Chloe and 'b*tch please' were mouthing off at Perez to the point they made him cry. Totally unnecessary and nasty. Kav really should steer clear of the vodka! ....but speaking of drink, i did really like Perez's drunken night/sick in the bath tub story
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I'm not really sure how I knew he was. I think I'd just seen him in pictures with some terrible people and written him off as one of those people. I held him responsible for embarrassing me in 2007 by announcing that Fidel Castro was dead so maybe it was then he first flickered into my consciousness. The only thing I knew of Hopkins was that she wanted to bomb Palestinians so I was never going to like her, really.
I loved Nadia too! She's so real but beautiful. I'm at a loss why people have said horrible things. Everything she did was for other people. She was the least self-absorbed person in there and she didn't give a damn what anyone thought of her. She was so sure her heart was telling her the truth and didn't question it. I think that's amazing.
Alicia is obviously a beautiful person and she found the light in the end but she couldn't work out what was going on through all the static. I wish Alicia had stayed in longer.
Michelle, I know! WTF? When she was shouting and crying that Perez didn't represent her community, I assumed she was gay. And I thought it was patronising then! What did him running round the garden being rude have to do with the community? Is there a code of conduct or something? By accident rather than design, my closest friends are gay, I live with gay people and I hang out on a largely gay scene but I would never assume that I was part of the community. Or go around saying I was a voice for the community. And they occasionally make reference to my heterosexual privilege to keep me in my place.
So I watched most of it thinking she was a part of the community she was being a voice for, which didn't seem unreasonable at the time. When the whole husband thing came up it had me scratching my head wondering what was going on. So I then thought maybe she was transgender. When that didn't pan out I really starting reaching. I asked my friend if a straight drag queen is part of the LGBT community and he told to stop being a ****ing idiot. So I had a real WTF?! moment when I realised she was straight.
When I watched it all again and she came across as a very different person.Everything annoyed me about her. She never laughed or ever looked like she was enjoying herself and pulled mean faces when other people tried to enjoy themselves. She wore stupid Union Jack earnings, because we love that, us Brits. She took herself far too seriously. She thought the baying mob outside actually represented popular opinion and thought she was going to win. How could anyone like that over Perez telling us all to go and **** ourselves!?
When Perez came back into the house in such spectacular fashion, she got really upset about it. The bit when she's in tears talking to Hopkins in the bedroom about how upset she is that she might lose out 'to that' and that she honestly wasn't worried about not winning but that 'this voice' wouldn't be heard had me literally face-palming and shaking my head in disbelief at the screen. Maybe they forget that they're being filmed or something? I just don't understand why someone would behave like that. The first time I saw the series I thought she had been manipulated by Hopkins and was trapped on the misery train. The second time I thought she was calculating, devious, self-serving and cynical. There was nothing nice about her. And she took hypocritical to a new level.
I wasn't that keen on Calum on second watching because of the Perez situation, obviously. There was lots of game playing and all that rubbish. But I had a look on his twitter feed and he had lots of charitable causes popping up so it made me think again. And he did come across really well in the interviews afterwards. Although Jimmy Savile would probably have come across well sat next to Hopkins that night.
The night of the final was awful to watch, beside KP winning and Hopkins losing. And Hopkins making a complete prat of herself on live TV. I couldn't bear it. Keith Chegwin doing what he did was a disgrace, really. To throw Perez under the bus just because he thought public opinion would allow it, when Perez had defended him and said nothing but nice things, it wasn't very nice. He's obviously a nice person but he cared more about what people thought of him than he did about someone else's feelings.
I read something about more arguing breaking out afterwards. These forums are still at it too! Do they usually go on for this long? I can see other appreciation threads still going strong. The whole dress thing made me realise that people just see things in different ways and it's as true to them as it is to me. Even though it's obviously blue and black. I know the dress was sooo Friday just gone but are you really seeing blue and dark green?
Oh dear, I didn't mean the post to be this long. I think I out ranted you! I'm so glad I learned to touch type, saves masses of time!