As a gay man its an unwritten rule you don't do stuff like that to straight guys unless u know them really well. Don't know why you think gay guys act camp most gays I know act normal. But like I said in another thread that's how we are seen on tv and everybody thinks it's the norm.

When in reality it's far from it.

Huh? I'm gay myself and I agree. I am just saying that homophobes will always find a reason to hate and I've seen "straight-acting" gay men be criticized too for not being "camp" and other ridiculous reasons.

How does "didn't challenge" turn into "defends"?

She didn't defend the use of that word, don't make things up please.

you cant be ****ing serious

Well after watching what he did last night I was ashamed to be in the same "community" as him! He is one of the most repulsive humans I have ever seen, and I've met some strange people in my time

She also says she can't bear to see somebody deliberately winding another person up. What does she think she does?

It was incredible that so many people blamed Perez for the use of that word. Yes, he's annoying but that word is never acceptable, any more than the N word is. I'm glad BB didn't ignore it and gave a formal warning.

I know it will probably be seen as light hearted but Katie sawing My Bun Bun's ears off was inflammatory. Can you imagine the reaction if somebody had done that to Cami's teddy bear?

Its sad a lot of users on here pretend to be gay and make statements to make others bad behaviour acceptable.

She didnt care about Alexander. She's jealous of Perez.

Oh good lord... she was defending a man who was being goaded until he cracked... Perez's entire point was to goad and goad until his said something he shouldn't. THAT WAS THE POINT!

*No-one* supported using that word. They also don't support trying to make people say it in the first place.

Who is this aimed towards?

She has said several times in the last few days that she likes Alex.

Why would she be jealous of this bizarre car crash of a man?

Thing is, if this were the other way around and Alex was winding up Perez and Perez called him the N word would people defend him? Now don't get me wrong, I can't STAND Perez but Alex was in the wrong.

Who's pretending I'll in box you my Facebook if u want to ask my friends that I'm gay.

I see. So it's Perez' fault that Alexander is a bigot?

Alex was in the wrong and BB warned him for it.

BUT Perez was annoying everyone, he was causing friction all over the place to such an extent that Alex's comment got lost in all the fuss...but no one defended it.

Did Perez get a Punch in the face by Will i ams manager for calling will.i.am a faggot... so it's ok for Perez to call someone a faggot..But he'll get upset and cry when he gets called one.

So because Perez it's ok for him to blow kisses to a straight man. Because that offensive

Yes true.

No it wasn't ok at all.. The woman is so dysfunctional and immature. She used the situation to try to gain from it. She yearns for paternal approval, he's her man and I'm not in the least surprised. Do her stringent rules not apply to upsetting anyone else in the house like Alicia for instance.

Completely agree. If Perez had done that to Cami's teddy bear world war would have started in there, fired on by Hopkins.

Why is everyone making excuses for Alexander?

He only got away with it because he's black. It was a different story when Ken used an N word though. Come to think about it Ken was sent home for less.

I'm certainly not lying about my sexuality.. I did for the first 15 years of my life though.. I'm curious who's pretending.

Oh my god. What is it, are you and Alexander afraid that if Perez blows him kisses it'll turn Alexander gay or something? If Alexander had half a brain, he'd just pretend to catch it, and then go on his way.

No, it's not offensive. Irritating, sure. But if it's irritating ... don't look at him doing it. No need to use homophobic slurs.

Yep. Perez called will I am a faggot. And he always calls Fergie fugly. Will I am's manager took exception to it.

I wonder what drives the man. He has spent his youth being really unpleasant on a personal basis to celebrities. He seems to crave celebrity himself but is totally unable to handle it.

I'm sure like Ken after his warning for using the N word. If he says it again Alexander will be chucked out. Nothing to do with Alexander being black. its the process they take