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Old 17-01-2015, 22:44
Dextor_Morgan
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Totally agree. Alot of homophobia on here. Some men ever go as far as to pretend they are gay to use the line I'm gay and I called him a .... shocking really!
Blimey, you can tell someone is pretending to be gay by just reading a post on a forum, you are indeed a talented person.
In other news LMFAO.
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Old 17-01-2015, 22:44
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Can you understand why it's unacceptable for Perez to be called a faggot but he found it perfectly acceptable to use that very same word against someone else?

People, mainly in America, use the term fag or faggot as an insult all the time, normally not even directed at gay people.

Sadly some people over the years have desperately tried to mould it into having the same impact as 'the N word' has to black people. Not even in the same ballpark.
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Old 17-01-2015, 22:44
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I don't think Kav is comfortable with people pointing that out just yet like when he entered Perez said yay another gay men and he looked at him a bit awkwardly...think people are annoyed by Perez because he's quite camp...
Oh right, im sorry if I got that wrong.

Kav is a good guy, gay or straight.
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Old 17-01-2015, 22:46
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Firstly I assume you're trolling and don't really believe that.

Secondly, if you do believe that, can I ask what show you're watching?

Thirdly, if you are actually watching CBB, what more do you actually need Perez to do before you'll accept he is acting like a complete and utter c*nt?
Perez is not the one behaving like a c*nt, he is being attacked by all and sundry in a way which is completely out of proportion to him being annoying why can't they ignore him, he is managing not to react to their baying mob behavior.
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Old 17-01-2015, 22:46
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People, mainly in America, use the term fag or faggot as an insult all the time, normally not even directed at gay people.

Sadly some people over the years have desperately tried to mould it into having the same impact as 'the N word' has to black people. Not even in the same ballpark.
But he can't claim offence to being called a faggot when he's happy to use it himself. It just annoys me how he acts all high and mighty the frigging imbecile
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Old 17-01-2015, 22:47
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Kavana came out publicly a year ago - I don't think he minds who knows it, perhaps he was just a bit taken aback that it was Perez's first comment about him.
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Old 17-01-2015, 22:49
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Trust me you get all sorts on the net.

They'd pretend to be gay on this forum to make it seem acceptable to call gay men like Perez a f*ggot.

Something like 'I'm gay and I called him that so its okay Alexander calling him thatI hate Perez he deserves it'... thats what I read on another thread...how disgusting.
Ok. Please OUT all the gay posters who are straight.

I've never used the f word in my life, a far better description of Perez is total cun*.
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Old 17-01-2015, 22:52
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I am gay and I can honestly say there is nothing in this world that would make me happier than to start punching that pathetic little f***s face and never stop. He is by far one of the worst housemates to have ever gone in that house and if anyone finds what he does to be entertaining then they are strange and twisted individuals. eviction is to good for him I want him to be dragged out of that house by a noose around his throat strapped to a horse 👍
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Old 17-01-2015, 22:57
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But he can't claim offence to being called a faggot when he's happy to use it himself. It just annoys me how he acts all high and mighty the frigging imbecile

I pretty much agree.

If he uses it with fellow gay people then, like black people using The N Word with each other or Jewish people using yid with each other, it would probably be acceptable in that context.
But if the word faggot is meant to be an insult solely intended to insult a gay person, why would he use it to a straight man like Will I Am?
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Old 17-01-2015, 23:00
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I pretty much agree.

If he uses it with fellow gay people then, like black people using The N Word with each other or Jewish people using yid with each other, it would probably be acceptable in that context.
But if the word faggot is meant to be an insult solely intended to insult a gay person, why would he use it to a straight man like Will I Am?
Well it's like kids, they use gay or faggot or queer as an insult. Obviously Perez hasn't grown up.
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Old 17-01-2015, 23:02
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Well it's like kids, they use gay or faggot or queer as an insult. Obviously Perez hasn't grown up.
But what I mean is, if it's apparently so offensive to him because it's a gay insult intended for gay people, why would he, a gay man, use the term against a straight person?

It makes no sense, so the word clearly isn't offensive to him.
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Old 17-01-2015, 23:05
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But what I mean is, if it's apparently so offensive to him because it's a gay insult intended for gay people, why would he, a gay man, use the term against a straight person?

It makes no sense, so the word clearly isn't offensive to him.
Because, and I admittedly have made this point a few times tonight, he's a gobshite lol
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Old 17-01-2015, 23:10
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Notice how when Alexander got angry with him he called him an ass faggot.

That sort of proves my point.

It ls like when when a fat contestant annoys someone the fat prejudice rises.

I mentioned the Get Perez out sounded much more masculine than usual as well. I know from experience as a non camp gay man that people will take their homophobia out on explicitly homosexual man.

I don't appear gay so don't tend to get homophobic abuse and I even was friends briefly with someone who I overheard saying he couldn't stand homosexuals. So he obviously assumed I was straight.
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Old 17-01-2015, 23:11
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He didn't call him an ass faggot. He called him a faggot. It's no better but at least get it right
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Old 17-01-2015, 23:15
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What I don't like is violent comments against any contestant.

That is over the top and makes the person making them look dubious.
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Old 17-01-2015, 23:17
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He didn't call him an ass faggot. He called him a faggot. It's no better but at least get it right
I don't think he called him a faggot I think he said something about his "faggot face" Lol.
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Old 17-01-2015, 23:19
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Maybe if he shut the f up nobody would want to punch him?

If I was in there and he intentionally stood by my bed fake coughing and waking up, he'd get a harsh reaction too.

He's the architect of everything negative thing that gets said about him.
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Old 17-01-2015, 23:20
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The bottom line is Perez is a gobshite, but Alexander crossed a line in his language. Two wrongs don't make a right.
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Old 17-01-2015, 23:21
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I feel that some of the male dislike of Perez is homophobic and their desire to physically attack him is disturbing as expressed in posts here.

The chants against Perez sounded much more male dominated than usual.
So where's all the hatred to kav then if that's your case you loose
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Old 17-01-2015, 23:27
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So where's all the hatred to kav then if that's your case you loose
He is hardly advertising his gayness is he? (nor does he get much airtime)

My point however is the violence of the reaction against Perez from some male posters as opposed to what happens with other annoying male housemates.

I am just suspicious.
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