Originally Posted by Cat_McFarlane:
“First, I think Perez is deliberately the cause. When there's someone who is totally self-absorbed, draining, and gives nobody any space or time at all, that is way too stressful, especially when being in the BB house is already stressful. The fact that BB are not really doing anything about him must also be adding to the stress, so it's turned into the pack sorting things out themselves, after having been able to rely on BB to remove Jeremy and Ken. Plus, Alex just left, due to Perez, which has angered them deeply.
I think until someone has had a 'Perez' person in their family/space, they can't know how stressful it is to get zero space at all. It does bring up aggression, and I think the housemates are doing very well considering.
Yes, Alicia seems to have got in the firing line, and Nadia a little (although she is encouraging Perez wrongly), but, only regarding Perez, I think isolating him first is best. That's what I would do ... tell someone straight, then walk away. That gives the person time to reflect. Unfortunately if, like Perez, the person has no self reflection skills or interest in changing/being reasonable, that's when things amp up. In the real world, they're out. In BB, it must be hell.”
Perfectly stated...the one thing I must add is that there is no bullying going on in the house. Perez has acted like a total tw2t and there are repercussions to it - namely Katie and Michelle are going to keep approaching until he chooses to engage with them or change his own behaviour. As far as Nadia, she is also trying to make herself look as though she is somehow rising above Katie by not engaging...interestingly enough if she would simply sit and have a conversation with her it might be resolved. Nadia is indeed so absorbed in being anti Katie (not to mention not able to hold her own against her) she doesn't see that the way Keith has handled it is correct - don't like how Katie is handling it, tell her and clear the air between yourselves at least.