Originally Posted by anne_666:
“No I don't know. I'm not labelling her at all. Listening to her she is articulate, has a very good level of awareness and insight. I could never say she is behind others if you are inferring lack of intellect. Yes she could be slower in absorbing information because of poor concentration and short attention span.. That is what the people who have talked about her have said, they find her "slow".
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I know you haven't said she is and are quoting what Hm have said. For me regardless what job she does, what hobbies or interests she has, personality wise she isn't someone I would hang out with, nor is Perez. I base this on personality wise. I have a friend who has tourettes physical and they start and stop a conversation when in tick mode, we get on great, like a house on fire. All I am meaning is, you either connect with a person or you don't regardless of what difficulties they suffer. Like attracts like. I know what I mean but I do struggle to get it across sometimes

if house mates are unaware of her difficulties that isn't their fault. Lack of communication is but they don't get on so doubt they will ever have a conversation.