Originally Posted by anne_666:
“No she has a problem with anyone telling her stuff, expecting her to sort it out for them, as she said she's not his mother . Even the biased Michelle understood that part and said so. She wants them to deal with him themselves and not run to her to do it and they agreed. I've never seen her encourage him so I have no idea, again, what you are talking about. Why is friendship and being able to relate to and maturely deal with a friends childish behaviour "up someone's arse"? She does frequently give him a reality check yet you say also say she shouldn't . So contradictory. She admitted she was annoyed with herself for stooping to being frustrated with him over something so trivial.
Ive also never seen her try to stop anyone having their say with Perez.
Alexander left because he was worried about his temper, that's his self control issue which he clearly and regrettably recognises and said so. Don't shove that onto Perez.”
That's not what Nadia said at all,- she said she wants everyone to ignore Perez when he gets silly. And other HMs don't go to Nadia asking her to sort stuff out (they've told her to butt out if anything !) .I only saw Cloe talk about Perez's behaviour to Nadia in the bedroom, (while he was in the garden prancing around), and Cloe then argued with Nadia for telling her how she should think! And Callum had a go at Nadia too for telling others they can't voice their opinions.
And Nadia constantly has told Perez to
be himself, and
carry on how he has been, because she told him he makes her laugh - so that IS encouraging him, and she's the only one doing it, so you've not watched everything if you've not noticed this.
The others don't want Nadia's advice ! She's trying to be everyone's mother, not just Perez, and i'm sure that's very irritating, as you heard Michelle say, if Nadia's in the room that's not their fault if they talk about Perez or want to (WTTE).
And Perez taunted Alexander, he knew how to push his buttons and he behaved disgustingly towards him -all the HMs agreed on that, bar Nadia.