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Anyone else find the way Michelle talks about gay people cringeworthy?
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broadshoulder
24-01-2015
Oh look hundreds of straight people object to what she says

She can say what she likes
pompeybird
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by broadshoulder:
“Oh look hundreds of straight people object to what she says

She can say what she likes”

If you look through you will see Gay people are saying the same thing.
broadshoulder
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by pompeybird:
“If you look through you will see Gay people are saying the same thing.”

She's had a hard life. Don't belittle her
karen2401
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by broadshoulder:
“She's had a hard life. Don't belittle her”

many of us have, but we dont go round verbally destroying people
pompeybird
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by broadshoulder:
“She's had a hard life. Don't belittle her”

A) Where have i belittled her ?? B) Many people have hard lives but dont go on a one person crusade to the point its patronising.
There is nothing belittling in pointing out facts about someone.
Scarlett Berry
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by broadshoulder:
“Oh look hundreds of straight people object to what she says

She can say what she likes”

Of course she can, it's usually patronizing cr*p though.She does love her soapbox does old Michelle.
SillyBillyGoat
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by Dave_62:
“I find Michelle deeply homophobic. But if all the gays, lesbian, bisexuals, transgenders in the world want a leader like her, that's there choice.”

I've very much gone off Michelle since the start, but she's about as far from homophobic as one can be.
pompeybird
24-01-2015
Also if Michelle can say what she likes then why cant others
Never Nude
24-01-2015
I totally agree with he OP. I find her incredibly cringeworthy and quite toe curling.

As another fm posted earlier it does seem hat she sees gay people as her pets, there is something incredibly childish about her attitude towards them. I doubt she really seems them as fully fledged human beings but rather a walking and talking sexuality.

Don't get me wrong, I am far from homophobic and I support her going on TV and supporting gay rights but I can't stand her execution. I am sure her heart is in the right place but just look at how she uses the term 'gay community'. Just because they are gay does not mean they have everything in common with another gay person. She is just lumping them all together when everyone is different. It does come across as those annoying girls who squeal I would love a gay friend because they think homosexual automatically assume they will take them shopping and are covered in glitter and will take them to see Lady Gaga. I wonder if she realises her mentality of gay people are my friends because all gay people are like this is quite damaging.

I like Michelle going in but can't stand her now, mainly because of how chummy she has got with the walking foghorn Hopkins and her treatment of Alicia. I love the misfits? Yeah right
HughOS
24-01-2015
I don't mind it really. She can take it a bit over the top from time to time but her heart is in the right place. I think she's very passionate and genuinely wants the world to be better and her actions reflect that. She's a very positive role model and the more there are the better.
Scarlett Berry
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by HughOS:
“I don't mind it really. She can take it a bit over the top from time to time but her heart is in the right place. I think she's very passionate and genuinely wants the world to be better and her actions reflect that. She's a very positive role model and the more there are the better.”

She might start by being a kinder person to some of her housemates. Her actions are not all sweetness and light to all, so her inclusivity extends to only those she likes.

Role model for what exactly
getmadnow17
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by Never Nude:
“I totally agree with he OP. I find her incredibly cringeworthy and quite toe curling.

As another fm posted earlier it does seem hat she sees gay people as her pets, there is something incredibly childish about her attitude towards them. I doubt she really seems them as fully fledged human beings but rather a walking and talking sexuality.

Don't get me wrong, I am far from homophobic and I support her going on TV and supporting gay rights but I can't stand her execution. I am sure her heart is in the right place but just look at how she uses the term 'gay community'. Just because they are gay does not mean they have everything in common with another gay person. She is just lumping them all together when everyone is different. It does come across as those annoying girls who squeal I would love a gay friend because they think homosexual automatically assume they will take them shopping and are covered in glitter and will take them to see Lady Gaga. I wonder if she realises her mentality of gay people are my friends because all gay people are like this is quite damaging.

I like Michelle going in but can't stand her now, mainly because of how chummy she has got with the walking foghorn Hopkins and her treatment of Alicia. I love the misfits? Yeah right”

That's the main reason, why i can't support her. She claims that she wants to fight for the 'misfits' and the vulnerable but disgustingly took delight when tearing down poor Alicia. She's a hypocrite.
Nearly New
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by broadshoulder:
“She can say what she likes”

She can but she should speak only for herself and not for me or the countless other Gay people who don't give a toss for her or her self aggrandizing.
HughOS
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by Scarlett Berry:
“She might start by being a kinder person to some of her housemates. Her actions are not all sweetness and light to all, so her inclusivity extends to only those she likes.

Role model for what exactly”

Well she's a role model for gay rights. I know a lot of posters here have said they don't like to be patronised and thats fine but the reality is that coming out and being gay is still very difficult for a lot of people, even in countries like the UK and USA. I welcome her and straight people like her who are strong vocal figures and advocates. The more the better.

And she gets involved in some bitching in the house. Ring the police. She must be the first ever housemate to do that.
anne_666
24-01-2015
I think these earlier two videos of Michelle's campaigning against Perez and trying to divide the house against him, speak volumes.

Firstly her badgering with Cheggars , a weird concept of house "families" and how genuine she is(again) yawn. Who needs to keep on and on telling everyone that? Mmm. Not a lot of support for a gay gay here, who refuses to behave the way she thinks he should. Did he actually tell her he was fake and manipulative? I've learned now not to believe much that comes out of her mouth.

http://bigbrother.channel5.com/day-9-pick-side-chegs

Then Callum, the same badgering and spiel.

http://bigbrother.channel5.com/day-9...nds-perez-fake

2.36 very strange conversation indeed with Callum and probably when he joined the gang. I wonder who else she's made promises of career help to?

No pressure there?
Nearly New
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by HughOS:
“I welcome her and straight people like her who are strong vocal figures and advocates..”

I suspect she's too busy telling us she supports LGBT rights to actually DO something to support us.

Collecting a pay check at a GAY PA or on RuPaul's Drag Race is hardly a Stonewall riot.
Randysback
24-01-2015
Imagine if a man went in saying how much he is supporting straight men of the world. His ass wouldn`t touch them steps as he was thrown out. Double standards
Luxray
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by Randysback:
“Imagine if a man went in saying how much he is supporting straight men of the world. His ass wouldn`t touch them steps as he was thrown out. Double standards ”

Straight men are not a minority. Not the same thing.

I agree with the OP though.
Nearly New
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by Luxray:
“Straight men are not a minority..”

Straight women aren't either.
oulandy
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by Blondie X:
“I agree with you re Kav. Is there really any such thing as the 'gay community' these days? I know quite a few gay people and they're not a homogeneous group, they're individual and unique people.
My good friend is someone you wouldn't have a clue was gay until you met his partner. He's a regular bloke who goes to football, has an almost entirely straight circle of friends and would rather have pins stuck in his eyes than spend 10 minutes in GAY.

The problem is the BB deals with stereotypes. Almost every gay man they've had on their has been as camp as a row of pink tents, chosen deliberately to provoke a reaction. Sadly, Michelle for all her good intentions, seems to be re-enforcing that stereotype that gay people are not like the rest of us”

Now now, we can't have people just being people or individuals.

I loathe that word and the habit of using it unnecessarily that has crept into broadcasting and public discourse. On BBC Radio 4 for example, it's the farming community. Aaagh. Why can't they just say farmers?

They've probably picked it up from the Americans who generally use it more than we do - or rather, than we used to do.
Oracles_eye
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by Luxray:
“Straight men are not a minority. Not the same thing.

I agree with the OP though.”

Straight white British born men who work and don't have kids with multiple women don't smoke and have a quiet life are a minority so I'll be championing their rights!!!!!

There is no gay community really anymore, community to me means secret hidden place.

I'm not homophobic I have gay friends,
I'm not racist we have a black family in our town,
I once saw an old person I couldn't possibly be ageist.

Well Nanny McPhee and the big bang just started, I used to know children when I went to school so I will now watch it.
Veri
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by oulandy:
“Now now, we can't have people just being people or individuals.

I loathe that word and the habit of using it unnecessarily that has crept into broadcasting and public discourse. On BBC Radio 4 for example, it's the farming community. Aaagh. Why can't they just say farmers?

They've probably picked it up from the Americans who generally use it more than we do - or rather, than we used to do.”

I think one reason is that some people consider it offensive (or at least rude) to use words such as "gay", "homosexuals", "transgender" (there's quite a long list) as nouns. If you say "gay community" instead, it's an adjective.

(I'm not saying that view re nouns makes sense, just that it's out there.)
Vesna
24-01-2015
Dial down the vitriol please. Especially those who don't care to know what is actually happening to gay people in the UK.
From 2013 Teenager died after being set on fire at his 18th birthday party
From 2014 Gay couple targeted in homophobic attack by teenage gang on east London street
Man jailed for hammer attack on gay flatmate
And from November, last november, 2 months ago. HOMOPHOBIC ATTACK' IN MANCHESTER'S GAY VILLAGE LEAVES RUGBY PLAYER WITH BROKEN JAW


Originally Posted by Ms Ann Thrope:
“Yes I've found it odd that she thinks the gay community need her to speak for them. Why? Can they not speak for themselves? In what way does she represent gay men, being neither gay nor a man herself?

I dont know how her role has evolved, perhaps it makes more sense in the US? Although I'm not sure how she has managed turn her job as a presenter of a drag show into some kind of crusade that seems like more of a prop to her vanity than anything else. But perhaps I'm just being cynical.”

She is a gay icon, it's a fact. She's worked HARD for decades. She doesn't imagine who she is like some people on this forum, she KNOWS who she is. Some viewers don't know who she is and don't care to know. Says more about them than it does about Michelle to me.

Originally Posted by Rufus Knights:
“She is constantly reminding us she is representing the LGBT community. Even the clothes she wears often has a reference to LGBT.

Is she just doing this to get the gay vote?

This isn't the 1970's. People have moved on....
”

Clearly you don't have any idea of what is happening in your own backyard then. A short search turned up several attacks on Gay subjects of the UK, which I've provided at the top of this post. She doesn't need to get the gay vote, she already has it.


Originally Posted by Ms Ann Thrope:
“Maybe here in the UK we are more tolerant and accepting of homosexuality ...”

Clearly not read the articles above.

Originally Posted by Veri:
“America is a very diverse place. I think that is often greatly underestimated here. It might even be less misleading, for some purposes, to think of it as a cluster of different countries that happen to have very odd-shaped boundaries than as one place that falls under generalisations about being more or less tolerant than the UK.

Same-sex marriage only recently became legal in the UK, and there was considerable (though minority) opposition.

The situation in the US is complicated, because individual states can have different laws in that area. The first state to legalise same-sex marriage was Massachusetts in 2004. Or, as Wikipedia puts it, "On May 17, 2004, Massachusetts became the first U.S. state and the sixth jurisdiction in the world to legalize same-sex marriage."”

You put that very well Veri, thanks. 2 United Kingdoms can fit into just 1 American state, things can take time to resonate through all the states. Each state is different even within an area, like New England. Once the Supreme Court makes a decision though it will be federal law. My recollection is that either Iowa or Idaho was first, because it was embarrassing to progressive states, like mine, who took way too long pass the legislation.

Originally Posted by Doggyphant:
“To put things into context: the US is behind the UK in terms of gay rights.
”

To put things into context, that statement is incorrect.

Originally Posted by pompeybird:
“If you look through you will see Gay people are saying the same thing.”

If you look through one really has no idea who is actually gay and who isn't.
Yes, some claim they are gay or have gay children and one thinks well why would anyone lie about that. I can't answer why but it happens and it happens quite frequently. Something to do with being anonymous, one can be whoever one wants to on the internet. I personally don't believe them if they are attacking Michelle. Doesn't make sense to attack someone so supportive.
Oracles_eye
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by Veri:
“I think one reason is that some people consider it offensive (or at least rude) to use words such as "gay", "homosexuals", "transgender" (there's quite a long list) as nouns. If you say "gay community" instead, it's an adjective.

(I'm not saying that view re nouns makes sense, just that it's out there.)”

Well then the tshirt she wore must have been highly offensive with those words on.
Scarlet O'Hara
24-01-2015
Originally Posted by Veri:
“How do you fit that with the abolitionist movements in the US an UK where white men such as William Lloyd Garrison and William Wilberforce played such prominent roles? (Of course, there were black voices too, such as Frederick Douglas, and women, including black women such as Sojourner Truth, who had prominent roles as well. Most of the main voices were nonetheless men who, unlike Douglas and Truth, had not been slaves themselves.)

I think that in some cases, the degree of oppression is so great that the most, at least, of the main voices have to be from outside. Another factor is some cases, such as the British abolitionist campaigns against slavery and the slave trade, is distance. The vast majority of slaves and ex-slaves were 1000s of miles away and could not realistically be main voices in Britain at that time.”

Yes, I absolutely agree. But put simply, it was a different world then requiring different action. In western society now, things are from perfect but there's not the same need for someone outside a minority group to act on its behalf because the group itself has NO voice at all. I'm an Amnesty supporter and there are clearly still occasions when a silenced person or group needs championing by others, but this tends to be in more oppressive regimes (when it's not, it's usually on behalf of a US death row prisoner).

As I said in my original post, there's a need for supporters of all creeds, colours, genders, sexualities etc to come together in solidarity and fight injustice. It says "we're all one", they are not Other. But what I also said is that acting like a self-appointed guardian of a 'community' that you can only ever belong to in kinship rather than reality can be seen as patronising or even preposterous in these more 'free' times.

But I also agree with other posters who said her heart is in the right place on that front.

Originally Posted by Veri:
“I think one reason is that some people consider it offensive (or at least rude) to use words such as "gay", "homosexuals", "transgender" (there's quite a long list) as nouns. If you say "gay community" instead, it's an adjective.

(I'm not saying that view re nouns makes sense, just that it's out there.)”

I like this explanation. It makes a lot of sense.

I also think that 'community' in this context can describe a group with shared aims. So even though a lot of gay people are happily living their lives as individuals and don't like being lumped together, there's a movement still fighting for equality and an end to discrimination because 'we're not there yet'. Michelle obviously identifies with that proactive movement.
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