Originally Posted by Penny Crayon:
“Yep ...........she retreated to the toilet once and said 'call the Police' once.
Talk about desperation in constantly regurgitating the same stuff.
Nadia has finally blown - why all the toilet talk?
I think it's gonna be an interesting day.”
An Thropologist made a great post on this tedious 'toilet bitching' charge and my view is the same as hers.
It is not 'bitching' and two-faced if you've told someone
to their face that you don't like them. It's what we in the sane world call "letting off steam". It's what a normal person would do when they're trapped in a pressure-cooker environment with someone who's driving them nuts but who they really don't want to get into an argument with at that point in time (e.g. if the other person is spoiling for trouble).
It is not cowardly to 'talk behind someone's back' if you've also demonstrated that you're prepared to go toe-to-toe with them when the occasion calls for it, e.g. during the debate and the clip on the website from last night. Again, this is what normal people do:
they choose their battles carefully. They don't charge around like an injured rhinoceros on a daily basis angrily confronting the person they don't like. They don't sick up whatever insensitive comment or question pops into their head.
Nadia is the only person in the house bar maybe Keith who has ONLY 'bitched' about one other person: the person she's openly said she doesn't like. Now contrast with Katie Hopkins (and to a lesser extent Michelle), who've routinely 'bitched' about multiple people including those they seem to be friendly with.
And now examine your own interactions and see if there's anyone you've discussed behind their back. Or anything you've said that might possibly hurt someone's feelings or cause tension if they heard it. If you haven't, you're probably a saint. Or a robot. Or someone who doesn't get out much.