Originally Posted by IsThisHappiness:
“People like to play this bullying card every year when there is rarely any bullying going on.
She hasn't bullied anyone. Alicia was an idiot who said the most stupid things and didn't know her alphabet and only learned it to raise her SECOND child (such a great person she didn't even learn it when she had baby number 1). Alicia annoyed most the HM's but Katie was the only one to say anything to her face whilst Keith, Katie P, Calum, Nadia, Perez, Patsy, Alexander and Kav all spoke about her behind her back. Alicia looked for arguments with Katie and Katie never went for it, which was brilliant as Alicia was left there looking foolish.
You're absolutely right it speaks volumes. It shows that the public have seen right through that idiot, Nadia, and have realised exactly what her intentions were from the start - going against Hopkins for popularity. And it failed....BRILLIANTLY.”
Never did I once mention bullying in my post. And regardless of whether you want to call the deliberate ostracising of another housemate (to the point of hounding anyone that dares speak to them) 'bullying' or not..... it still shows a horribly nasty side to her character anyway.
I said she threw unecessarily rude insults to Alicia, FOR NO GOOD REASON other than to demean and embaras her or for 'entertainment' - either way it was nasty and I find it incredible that people think she should be patted on the back for it!
And I don't agree that Alicia was disliked by everyone. She was a bit of a dolly daydream and as a result some might have got impatient with her or voiced a few things that annoyed them about her (I'm sure there are characteristics of all the housemates that they found annoying at times) but on the contrary, Nadia and Keith were extremely fond of her, as evidenced by their reactions when she left.
So what if she might be a bit lacking in the intelligence department? How people reacted to that says more about them than her. If we were talking about a particular behaviour of Alicias that was wrong, or a dispute, of course it is better to speak directly to the person (although it can be done with tact) and 'have it out' so that the problem could be sorted. But this has nothing to do with it. There was no 'problem'. Katie identified a weakness/shortcoming in Alicia and decided to mock and humiliate Alicia publicly for it. There was no need to talk about Alicias lack of intelligence in a mocking way, no benefit to come from it other than to make Alicia feel bad. How some people are going on as if she was speaking out on something that had to be said is absolutely ridiculous. It served no purpose than to be destructive and unkind. Nadia and Keith reactions to her by contrast were constructive and kind. As Nadia said in the Diary Room, Alicia made her want to give her a big cuddle. And in practical terms thats what she did, she looked out for her and supported her. Alicia mentioned how great Nadia and Keith were - not just by being kind and supportive in the house, but by helping her a lot with her mindset and failings she had in approaching things out of the house.
As for Alicia looking for arguements with Katie....it was Katie who initiated it all when she chose to pick on what she saw as Alicias weaknesses as thats what she does. Alicia didn't cry or shout back but calmly pointed out to her how unecessarily rude she was being. It was only after the mocking insults did Alicia get the bit between her teeth, and I'm not surprised, who would not get annoyed at people mocking you like that?