Originally Posted by Teddybear99:
“Because Nadia didn't say they should ignore him, she said they should ignore his more extreme behaviour. Which is pretty much what Nadia did and why she became good friends with him. Also on BOTS last night she said that she had the best conversations with Perez as they talked about places they had been etc., etc. We didn't see anything of that.”
Bearing in mind the irate responses from posters on this forum, I would love to know how FMs would fare at ignoring Perez' behaviour but remaining pally with him if they were in the house....
He needed to be put on the naughty step and have it made quite clear to him that he would be back there, with no attention from anyone, if he continued to behave as he had, That's not bullying.
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Originally Posted by funlovingirl:
“Would a person need to have experienced isolation themselves to know the effects it can have on an individual? I'm asking because I'm wondering if KH has experienced this at some point in her life, that she wants someone to experience it because she knows the effect it will have on the person.[/QUOTE]
Well if that were true then she is truly a psychopath, i.e. incapable of empathy. She has probably a knowledge of psychology and will know that to isolate someone from a group when they can't get away from the group in question is one of the cruellest acts you act inflict on anyone. This type of alienation is called ' anomie' or something . Can you imagine the heights she would rise to if she was allowed to give free rein to her behaviour in society. The SS would have nothing on her. She is truly an obnoxious creature and it's scary how people are so easy persuaded that 'she's a nice person really.'”
It's quite possible that Katie has herself been subjected to isolation techniques as part of her military training, thus she understands their effectiveness.
To make comparisons between Katie and Nazi Germany is stretching credulity a little. I have yet to read accounts of her advocating that people should be subjected to the equivalent of military regimes or subjected to abuse. Dangerous ground, I should say...