I've seen an uncountable (uncomfortable) number of posts stating that Perez is getting what he deserves, cause and effect, what goes around comes around etc... So i'm asking: are 'we' just blinded by hate for Perez or do people honestly believe that some people deserve to be continually and ongoingly bullied/isolated/targetted?

If so, when is enough, enough? When do we stop and think 'hang on, this isn't necessary'. Whatever happened to forgiveness? Being the bigger person? Standing up for what's right? Gaining a little perspective?

I teach primary and do not tolerate any kind of bullying/isolating/targetting no matter what the previous actions of the victim. Luckily, it's not something I see often.When does this warped sense of almost vigilanty style justice kick in?

Ask Perez if all those people he bullied on his blog deserved it, and I'm sure he'll tell you "I DONT CARE!"

We should all be as lucky as him, to be a complete bully to everyone on the planet, get paid for it, and then go on a tv show where we finally get back what we've been dishing out our whole career, AND GET PAID FOR IT AS WELL.

You can be a Nadia all you want, but I think its a big joke, and I have no sympathy.

No we all chose how to respond to things, and if someone is irritating then we can chose to respond in several ways, bullies will chose the bulling rout and nicer people will either ignore the behaviour or try to help the person be less annoying.
I am sure Perez is a nightmare to live with but given a choice I would rather live with him than some of the others in there as I think he would accept people who are different and not pick on and bully them.

Imagine bringing this poster to your primary class, OP.

"Alright boys and girls, I'd like you to welcome today's guest, Ding_Batty. She's going to talk to you about how it is ok to bully people if you think they deserve it and how empathy and forgiveness are pointless wastes of time!"

I don't know much about him prior to BB I prefer it that way with most contestants but I seem to recall FMs saying he apologised publicly, also he does when you listen to his conversation seem genuinely contrite. I would guess being a father is changing him it often does.

Good job you asked because I am one of those very people who is saying perez deserves all he gets. By no means whatsoever would I ever condone bullying.
When I say Perez deserve all he gets, I mean the way the house has turned against him. In my opinion, when you alienate people you can expect them to turn away, turn off you, move themselves away from you and any situation you may be creating.

If I have ever said in the past on this forum, Perez deserves all he gets, the above, as explained, is what I meant.

I would never condone the act of bullying, ever. It's in my nature to favour the underdog but in Perez's case, it's cause and effect.

Nooo.. Id tell them that when a bully threatens to put their pee-pee up their bum while making kissy faces and licking their faces, they should forgive them. And when the bully laughs at them and screams "I DONT CARE!" while stripping to their pants and making sexual orgasm noises, they should feel empathy, and try to be their friend so they don't feel lonely.
Ill also teach them that they should take everything they see "celebrities" getting paid ridiculous sums of money to do on "reality" tv, DEATHLY seriously, because that's what their teacher does, and isn't she smart for it?

It sounds like you're the one taking everything Perez does deathly serious.

OH MY SWEET LORD, he stripped down to his pants and blow kisses at people?! WHAT A MONSTER!

Absolutely, for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction and that is what's happened in the house.

Perez has bullied throughout his career, he does things out of pure hatred and disrespect and then cries when there's any kind of comeback, such as when Will.I.Am punched him.

People like him need to get it into their thick skulls that they cannot just behave the way they want to without repercussions.

To me, that's is not bullying, if it were then everyone ever sent to prison would be classed as a victim.

I agree with you. It's shocking behaviour especially from adults. Isolation is bullying, no question about it. Listen to Kav in the bathroom, "He's done nothing to me". Well grow a spine, stand up to the head bully and do as you want, not what she tells you. He daren't and neither do any of the other gang members, because they knows they'll be frozen out, more bullying. Disgusting. Imagine being the victim, fastened in a house with them. It's now reached ridiculous levels and is sickening to watch.
Alicia was mercilessly bullied because of her learning difficulties. Is that allowed in school, NO. Did these people never learn that? One in particular never has and is so proud of her obnoxious juvenile self.

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Of course I am, that's why I made this thread...

The more pertinent question is "do some people deserve to be a bully ?"

I've no problem with people walking away from perez when he's in the middle of one of his annoying moments....fair enough

What I do object to is an orchestrated campaign not to talk to him, initiated by Katie Hopkins.....who is acting like the school bully.

But, as people have said about Hopkins herself, no-one is bad all the time in there. People should reinforce both Perez and Hopkins' good behaviour by spending time with them when their behaviour is acceptable , and turning their backs on them when they are acting like little sh*ts.

Michelle has been doing that, and people called her a backstabber.
Everyone has an opinion, and you can't make them all happy.

No one deserves to be bullied and no one in the bb house is being bullied.

Perez is a classic me vs the world case. Let's face it. His WHOLE 'career' is based on sucking dry the talent and fruit of others. he is a classic parasite. His whole website is based on the idea of revenge. If YOU won't accept me and let me be in your circle, I'm gonna do everything I can to bring you down and disparage you. That is how HE thinks.

He's not talented, he is extremely unattractive physically and he has no friends to speak of. He resorts to these insane antics because it is the ONLY way he can get the attention that he craves. In a weird way, I feel pity for him, then I see his latest example of disgusting behaviour and that quickly passes.

Sorry, but I can't remember an instance where Michelle has been turning her back on Katie when she's been a sh*t and I can't remember many examples of her supporting Perez in his nice moments either

Perez isn't getting bullied.... these threads are getting so tedious.

That only demonstrates a lack of knowledge, or perhaps care, about bullying.

I completely agree. I would also argue that Perez exhibits bullying behaviour himself, certainly early on in the series. He has deliberately gone out of his way to antagonize people and to attack and then plays the victim. He pokes the bear and then acts surprised when the bear bites him, so to speak

I would also argue that he loves the attention and is delighted when people are screaming abuse at him because it means he is getting the attention he desperately craves. He could have chosen to integrate himself more but he's chosen his path and he's reaping what he chose to sow

Then ignore

There's only one kind of bully and that's someone who bullies. They will find any reason to do it. So people saying Perez deserves it are just bullies. Simple.

If antagonising is bullying behaviour as you have stated, then certainly he has been a receiver as well as a giver, so to speak? So would you agree then that Perez has been on the receiving end of bullying behaviour from more than one member of the house, over an extended period of time?

I would say Hopkins and Hilton are as big a bullies as each other tbh. I've said before that they are like 2 rutting stags locking horns and willing to fight to the death. I don't see one as being better or different to the other.
In fact, between them they've got so obsessed with their game of one-upmanship with each other than they don't care that they've spoilt the experience of the other HMs and a lot of the viewers, just as long as they get to score points off of each other.

If you are a teacher then you ought to learn how to spell properly.