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Old 03-02-2015, 22:37
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Stay with me here for a second. I believe Perez come into that house to be the most entertaining house mate and he does try really hard. He can be extremely annoying and over the top however I think its just him wanting to be liked by people.

This guy is his biggest worst enemy, he says or does harmless things which can be childish however instead of defending himself or making the other person understand his point of view. He acts up by saying he does not care and that he does it on purpose which is not true and in turn this makes his situation worse, people lose patience with him and use him to make themselves look better.

I think Perez being in this house has made him a stronger person and I think in a way its been good for him. I remember the first two weeks he was in the house he was always in tears because of the treatment he was getting from others as he was unable to defend himself. KH saw that and said so many times that Nadia has to fight his battles for him.

I think he turned a corner when he come back from the secret room and he finally managed to stand up for himself. Even though he is not quite there as he is still unable to articulate his point fully he does stand up for himself now and gives it back when he is questioned.

How can the housemates continue to call Parez Manipulative, do they know anything about manipulation.

Take tonight's fight with Calum as an example. Calum always stops any conversation that is not going according to how he wants it, even though it might not involve him. I think Perez was annoyed by this and knowing that Calum does not like him as he has made it clear sense joining up with KH.

Instead of saying to Calum I'm tired of your peace keeper act when you have treated me badly and have all pretty much ganged up on me. He makes the situation worse by saying I don't like you I don't care etc. So what happens everyone turns on Perez even thought Calum was the one who took it far by throwing insults at him and everybody just remembers what perez said.
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Old 03-02-2015, 22:42
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I live the guy. Best housemate ever. Though tonight I found myself thinking 'you just need to know when to stop'. The argument with Michelle didnt need to happen, he did well with callum as callum was the one who resorted to aggressive swearing and childish insults before stomping off.

Problem is when someone is talking reasonably to you (as Michelle was) and you continue to have a go at them, it doesn't make you look any better. Hopefully he will get a better edit tomorrow as I'd like him to win over the person who has been systematically bullying him.
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Old 03-02-2015, 22:48
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I live the guy. Best housemate ever. Though tonight I found myself thinking 'you just need to know when to stop'. The argument with Michelle didnt need to happen, he did well with callum as callum was the one who resorted to aggressive swearing and childish insults before stomping off.

Problem is when someone is talking reasonably to you (as Michelle was) and you continue to have a go at them, it doesn't make you look any better. Hopefully he will get a better edit tomorrow as I'd like him to win over the person who has been systematically bullying him.
I agree with you, this is what I mean. He does not help his position by continuing to go on like that.

I think he has a maturity problem and does not know how to deal with people. However you would have to be so blinded and stupid to think Perez is this evil manipulative person everyone is painting him out to being.
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Old 03-02-2015, 22:53
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Misunderstood?? That's the biggest joke I've ever heard
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Old 03-02-2015, 23:02
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He is a 37 year old man who is acting like a spoiled child, he knows full well no one is going to hit him, so he continues to goad people into losing their temper with him and then becomes a victim
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Old 03-02-2015, 23:05
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Stay with me here for a second. I believe Perez come into that house to be the most entertaining house mate and he does try really hard. He can be extremely annoying and over the top however I think its just him wanting to be liked by people.

This guy is his biggest worst enemy, he says or does harmless things which can be childish however instead of defending himself or making the other person understand his point of view. He acts up by saying he does not care and that he does it on purpose which is not true and in turn this makes his situation worse, people lose patience with him and use him to make themselves look better.

I think Perez being in this house has made him a stronger person and I think in a way its been good for him. I remember the first two weeks he was in the house he was always in tears because of the treatment he was getting from others as he was unable to defend himself. KH saw that and said so many times that Nadia has to fight his battles for him.

I think he turned a corner when he come back from the secret room and he finally managed to stand up for himself. Even though he is not quite there as he is still unable to articulate his point fully he does stand up for himself now and gives it back when he is questioned.

How can the housemates continue to call Parez Manipulative, do they know anything about manipulation.

Take tonight's fight with Calum as an example. Calum always stops any conversation that is not going according to how he wants it, even though it might not involve him. I think Perez was annoyed by this and knowing that Calum does not like him as he has made it clear sense joining up with KH.

Instead of saying to Calum I'm tired of your peace keeper act when you have treated me badly and have all pretty much ganged up on me. He makes the situation worse by saying I don't like you I don't care etc. So what happens everyone turns on Perez even thought Calum was the one who took it far by throwing insults at him and everybody just remembers what perez said.
Brilliant post!! Very well written.

You really have analysed his character brilliantly. It's a shame other people don't see it. He did annoy be in the beginning, but I've really warmed to him & want him to win.

I hate how Katie Hopkins has manipulated & galvanised her posse to become so hateful to him. They don't even see how bad their own behaviour is. They think Perez is all bad when in actual fact he is retaliating to his treatment, but not in the best way. I've not seen him purposely be nasty & hurtful like Katie Hopkins has, with him he acts out like a hurt child who lashes back out & says he doesn't care when he does.
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Old 03-02-2015, 23:12
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Brilliant post!! Very well written.

You really have analysed his character brilliantly. It's a shame other people don't see it. He did annoy be in the beginning, but I've really warmed to him & want him to win.

I hate how Katie Hopkins has manipulated & galvanised her posse to become so hateful to him. They don't even see how bad their own behaviour is. They think Perez is all bad when in actual fact he is retaliating to his treatment, but not in the best way. I've not seen him purposely be nasty & hurtful like Katie Hopkins has, with him he acts out like a hurt child who lashes back out & says he doesn't care when he does.
He is a 37 year old man,, not a 7 year old child,, he has lived so far up his own arse in America he has no respect for anyone else but himself, he believes the world revolves around him and if he doesnt get his own way he resorts to tantrums and goading people with insults, to be honest i don't think he is actually real, i think the guy must be acting out some sort of role tbh, if not he need a dose of reality and learn a bit of respect
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Old 03-02-2015, 23:16
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Yes and I hope Perez realizes that you have to be responsible for your actions.
He just says when challenged he simply states but I don't care.
How can he or anyone expect any housemate to care about him when he doesn't care about them.

It has gone too far , funny how he wishes to only be friends with the millionairess.

I hope in his interview he apologises for his behaviour in the diary room especially.
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Old 03-02-2015, 23:35
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Perez is arrogant, rude, totally self obsessed and contemptuous of all the housemates.

Katie Price is wealthy and successful therefore of interest to him. The rest have either failed or are also rans and of no interest to him. He made that very clear.

He is one of the most nakedly horrible people I have ever seen. Second only to Derek Laud on BB5.
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Old 03-02-2015, 23:41
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Yes and I hope Perez realizes that you have to be responsible for your actions.
He just says when challenged he simply states but I don't care.
How can he or anyone expect any housemate to care about him when he doesn't care about them.

It has gone too far , funny how he wishes to only be friends with the millionairess.

I hope in his interview he apologises for his behaviour in the diary room especially.
forget it guys we've been had over again by the numpties. Hope the ones going into the civ BB this summer have been taking notes on how to get the 'great British public' to vote for them. Act like a complete idiot, treat everyone like turds, shout the loudest, oh don't forget the bullied victim card near the end and hey presto.. we have a WINNER Unfortunately I will miss it all cos this has been the last one for me.
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Old 03-02-2015, 23:45
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He is a 37 year old man,, not a 7 year old child,, he has lived so far up his own arse in America he has no respect for anyone else but himself, he believes the world revolves around him and if he doesnt get his own way he resorts to tantrums and goading people with insults, to be honest i don't think he is actually real, i think the guy must be acting out some sort of role tbh, if not he need a dose of reality and learn a bit of respect
No ones more up their own arse than Katie Hopkins & now most of the housemates are up their too. That woman certainly doesn't respect people. She doesn't care how hurtful & cruel she is & has been clever in her manipulations. Apart from Perez, if you don't agree with her, she sets about targeting you & saying negative things to other housemates about you like she's done with Keith & Katie Price.

I agree that Perez has been OTT & has acted like a primadonna & needed to rein it in a bit, but at least he's been trying to have fun & I like a bit of silliness. I don't think he's malicious like Katie Hopkins is, he just reacts to how he feels he's been treated. I'd rather hang out with him than glum looking, judgemental, patronising Katie Hopkins anyday!
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Old 03-02-2015, 23:46
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No, he really IS that revolting and attentionseeking and vile.

The Psych agrees.
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Old 03-02-2015, 23:52
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funny how he wishes to only be friends with the millionairess.
What a silly assessment. Nadia isn't a millionaire and she was his best buddy in the house.
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Old 04-02-2015, 00:18
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He is a 37 year old man who is acting like a spoiled child, he knows full well no one is going to hit him, so he continues to goad people into losing their temper with him and then becomes a victim
Yes and I hope Perez realizes that you have to be responsible for your actions.
He just says when challenged he simply states but I don't care.
How can he or anyone expect any housemate to care about him when he doesn't care about them.

It has gone too far , funny how he wishes to only be friends with the millionairess.

I hope in his interview he apologises for his behaviour in the diary room especially.
Perez is arrogant, rude, totally self obsessed and contemptuous of all the housemates.

Katie Price is wealthy and successful therefore of interest to him. The rest have either failed or are also rans and of no interest to him. He made that very clear.

He is one of the most nakedly horrible people I have ever seen. Second only to Derek Laud on BB5.
I hear you guys.
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Old 04-02-2015, 00:29
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What a silly assessment. Nadia isn't a millionaire and she was his best buddy in the house.
He said he will only be friends with Katie millionaire Price when he leaves the house. Nadia is past history.
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Old 04-02-2015, 00:40
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I think the OP overlooks what Perez has been saying about being very hurt by being there. Also he clearly wants to leave and says it is not reverse psychology (Nadia too confirmed this when giving her interview). This is not the mark of someone who is learning but who is being damaged by the experience.

Have you forgotten him going to the DR 2 days ago and being wounded? He left, descending the stairs with hood up quietly sobbing.....
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Old 04-02-2015, 02:11
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He is a 37 year old man who is acting like a spoiled child, he knows full well no one is going to hit him, so he continues to goad people into losing their temper with him and then becomes a victim
It's unfortunate that no one will hit him, because - just like the silly kid he loves to act like - sometimes they just need a smack.
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Old 04-02-2015, 02:58
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First of all, I am just going to say I hate Perez, he has a lot of traits that I despise in people and although I am taking him for face value in the house, it is pretty well known that outside of the house, he is scum but I am not going to get into that.

I think you have a few good points. The guy clearly went in so that he would be loved by the British public (where he is a lot less known). Obviously this didn't work out for him due to a number of things. One of them was being far too loud and obnoxious. Another being far to narcissistic and egocentric. As soon as the boos came for him, he switched into his natural defensive mode where he 'doesn't care' about what the British public think of him.

Every time he says 'I Don't care' in response to something, I believe it less and less and it is obviously some sort of defense mechanism that he uses to try and justify EVERYTHING he does. The same with him wanting to leave. He only wanted to leave once it was clear the public (in general) wanted him out of the house. He never lets his guard down to show that he is genuinely hurt and it comes across as incredibly fake. There have been very few genuine Perez moments in the house and one of them was when he was drunk, another was when Cami Li and Katie Hopkins got to him.

At 37 years old, he SHOULD NOT be acting like this. It is akin to a spoiled child that is throwing a tantrum because he is not getting attention. It's honestly a bit pathetic to watch actually.

The way he has behaved in the house has been despicable at times, he just needs to change his attitude, grow up and face up to what he has done rather than 'I don't careing' it a away.
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Old 04-02-2015, 03:06
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I think the OP overlooks what Perez has been saying about being very hurt by being there. Also he clearly wants to leave and says it is not reverse psychology (Nadia too confirmed this when giving her interview). This is not the mark of someone who is learning but who is being damaged by the experience.

Have you forgotten him going to the DR 2 days ago and being wounded? He left, descending the stairs with hood up quietly sobbing.....
He did the exact same act when he said he wanted to leave, then BB gave him a secret task ( the room) he came down the stairs with a hat pulled down over his eyes, he then "cried" packed his bag and left. He needs an oscar for his performance's regarding the crying, and " poor me " scene's hes been doing, afterall he did attend drama school hoping to be an actor. Wounded did he fear for his safety ? did he get his lawyers in. ?
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Old 04-02-2015, 03:08
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I don't believe he is misunderstood at all, I think he is egocentrically unstable
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Old 04-02-2015, 04:25
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Stay with me here for a second. I believe Perez come into that house to be the most entertaining house mate and he does try really hard. He can be extremely annoying and over the top however I think its just him wanting to be liked by people.

This guy is his biggest worst enemy, he says or does harmless things which can be childish however instead of defending himself or making the other person understand his point of view. He acts up by saying he does not care and that he does it on purpose which is not true and in turn this makes his situation worse, people lose patience with him and use him to make themselves look better.

I think Perez being in this house has made him a stronger person and I think in a way its been good for him. I remember the first two weeks he was in the house he was always in tears because of the treatment he was getting from others as he was unable to defend himself. KH saw that and said so many times that Nadia has to fight his battles for him.

I think he turned a corner when he come back from the secret room and he finally managed to stand up for himself. Even though he is not quite there as he is still unable to articulate his point fully he does stand up for himself now and gives it back when he is questioned.

How can the housemates continue to call Parez Manipulative, do they know anything about manipulation.

Take tonight's fight with Calum as an example. Calum always stops any conversation that is not going according to how he wants it, even though it might not involve him. I think Perez was annoyed by this and knowing that Calum does not like him as he has made it clear sense joining up with KH.

Instead of saying to Calum I'm tired of your peace keeper act when you have treated me badly and have all pretty much ganged up on me. He makes the situation worse by saying I don't like you I don't care etc. So what happens everyone turns on Perez even thought Calum was the one who took it far by throwing insults at him and everybody just remembers what perez said.
you make some great points!

However I have to admit I liked it when he told Callum and the others (excluding KP and Keith to some degree) that he didn't like them and they weren't his friend. He is not gaining points in the house but I think he realizes it is hopeless to get them to like him and by now I sure he no longer wants to be like by them.
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Old 04-02-2015, 04:47
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Stay with me here for a second. I believe Perez come into that house to be the most entertaining house mate and he does try really hard. He can be extremely annoying and over the top however I think its just him wanting to be liked by people.

This guy is his biggest worst enemy, he says or does harmless things which can be childish however instead of defending himself or making the other person understand his point of view. He acts up by saying he does not care and that he does it on purpose which is not true and in turn this makes his situation worse, people lose patience with him and use him to make themselves look better.

I think Perez being in this house has made him a stronger person and I think in a way its been good for him. I remember the first two weeks he was in the house he was always in tears because of the treatment he was getting from others as he was unable to defend himself. KH saw that and said so many times that Nadia has to fight his battles for him.

I think he turned a corner when he come back from the secret room and he finally managed to stand up for himself. Even though he is not quite there as he is still unable to articulate his point fully he does stand up for himself now and gives it back when he is questioned.

How can the housemates continue to call Parez Manipulative, do they know anything about manipulation.

Take tonight's fight with Calum as an example. Calum always stops any conversation that is not going according to how he wants it, even though it might not involve him. I think Perez was annoyed by this and knowing that Calum does not like him as he has made it clear sense joining up with KH.

Instead of saying to Calum I'm tired of your peace keeper act when you have treated me badly and have all pretty much ganged up on me. He makes the situation worse by saying I don't like you I don't care etc. So what happens everyone turns on Perez even thought Calum was the one who took it far by throwing insults at him and everybody just remembers what perez said.
Well I think he's a prat.
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Old 04-02-2015, 05:15
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Im 50/50 with Perez.
On one hand he does my head in to the point i would happily smash my TV ..... BUT having said that i cant help wondering what the hell happened to him in his life to make him like this ??
Not just in the house but in his everyday life. What has made him so hateful towards people (outside the house) and to have so so many barriers up that he has to act like he does not care when he clearly does.
Deep down i think there is one very very unhappy man there and i dont think he knows how to deal with whatever demons he may have.
I could of course be wrong but i dont understand how anyone would be the way he is without having something happen in the past to make him shut off his emotional side towards others and making others feel so bad with his words (again outside the house mainly)
Im not trying to defend the guy because he is an ADULT so should know how to behave but talking from personal experience of someone very close to me i think there is more to his story and WHY he is like that.
I think he needs help tbh.
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Old 04-02-2015, 05:25
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If he wins, it will be almost as tragic as Helen Woods winning. Are any of you who actually like him aware of how he built his career up by malicious gossip, outing gay celebrities, posting sick rumours etc etc? He complains about being bullied (yawn), about being insulted etc. He's a massive hypocritical, bitchy queen, attention seeker who needs to disappear sharpish.
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Old 04-02-2015, 05:28
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If he wins, it will be almost as tragic as Helen Woods winning. Are any of you who actually like him aware of how he built his career up by malicious gossip, outing gay celebrities, posting sick rumours etc etc? He complains about being bullied (yawn), about being insulted etc. He's a massive hypocritical, bitchy queen, attention seeker who needs to disappear sharpish.
Hear, Hear
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