Graham from JK show is on BBOTs at the moment. Should be good 
Jeremy Kyle's Graham on BBOTS
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Saying Perez plays the victim. He needs constant adrenaline shot - he gets it from KH. KH and Perez are not polar opposites, they thrive on the same thing, they both carry gossip. If on JK stage he would say never darken each others doors again. He says Callum has great coping skills, he is a good honest bloke. He walks away because he really does like to contain his emotions. Says Callum won't crack. Callum walks away to avoid the conflict but Perez wants to cause conflict. Of Katie Price he says she made real disclosures about herself and she is now wondering if she is being judged and she now thinks its better to be quiet. His advice would be to tell her to be herself. Of Keith he says he gets good support from the other housemates and he isn't struggling. He says no way can anyone be happy every day. He loves Michelle because she is the voice of reason. She is such a strong lady and he says she is balance in herself and only Perez will take her on. Kav needs to assert himself more - he doesn't cope well with the volume in the house but on one to one he is supportive. Graham wants Michelle to win as he says she has such good values and principles. Graham says if Perez wins he will be more off the scale and if the public vote him to win they are saying they validate his behaviour and we can't be saying that. He says Perez need for constant attention is worrying. He says both Perez and KH are manipulative.
Hope you find that interesting
Hope you find that interesting
Originally Posted by jobielad:
“Saying Perez plays the victim. He needs constant adrenaline shot - he gets it from KH. KH and Perez are not polar opposites, they thrive on the same thing, they both carry gossip. If on JK stage he would say never darken each others doors again. He says Callum has great coping skills, he is a good honest bloke. He walks away because he really does like to contain his emotions. Says Callum won't crack. Callum walks away to avoid the conflict but Perez wants to cause conflict. Of Katie Price he says she made real disclosures about herself and she is now wondering if she is being judged and she now thinks its better to be quiet. His advice would be to tell her to be herself. Of Keith he says he gets good support from the other housemates and he isn't struggling. He says no way can anyone be happy every day. He loves Michelle because she is the voice of reason. She is such a strong lady and he says she is balance in herself and only Perez will take her on. Kav needs to assert himself more - he doesn't cope well with the volume in the house but on one to one he is supportive. Graham wants Michelle to win as he says she has such good values and principles. Graham says if Perez wins he will be more off the scale and if the public vote him to win they are saying they validate his behaviour and we can't be saying that. He says Perez need for constant attention is worrying. He says both Perez and KH are manipulative.
Hope you find that interesting”
“Saying Perez plays the victim. He needs constant adrenaline shot - he gets it from KH. KH and Perez are not polar opposites, they thrive on the same thing, they both carry gossip. If on JK stage he would say never darken each others doors again. He says Callum has great coping skills, he is a good honest bloke. He walks away because he really does like to contain his emotions. Says Callum won't crack. Callum walks away to avoid the conflict but Perez wants to cause conflict. Of Katie Price he says she made real disclosures about herself and she is now wondering if she is being judged and she now thinks its better to be quiet. His advice would be to tell her to be herself. Of Keith he says he gets good support from the other housemates and he isn't struggling. He says no way can anyone be happy every day. He loves Michelle because she is the voice of reason. She is such a strong lady and he says she is balance in herself and only Perez will take her on. Kav needs to assert himself more - he doesn't cope well with the volume in the house but on one to one he is supportive. Graham wants Michelle to win as he says she has such good values and principles. Graham says if Perez wins he will be more off the scale and if the public vote him to win they are saying they validate his behaviour and we can't be saying that. He says Perez need for constant attention is worrying. He says both Perez and KH are manipulative.
Hope you find that interesting”
Excellent summary thanks
He's basically telling the public not to vote for Perez, 'because we can't condone his behaviour'.
We'll decide who to vote for, thanks.
We'll decide who to vote for, thanks.
Originally Posted by JVS:
“He's basically telling the public not to vote for Perez, 'because we can't condone his behaviour'.
We'll decide who to vote for, thanks.”
“He's basically telling the public not to vote for Perez, 'because we can't condone his behaviour'.
We'll decide who to vote for, thanks.”
He wasn't telling anyone - he was asked by Rylan what would happen if Perez won and he gave his professional opinion.
Originally Posted by jobielad:
“Saying Perez plays the victim. He needs constant adrenaline shot - he gets it from KH. KH and Perez are not polar opposites, they thrive on the same thing, they both carry gossip. If on JK stage he would say never darken each others doors again. He says Callum has great coping skills, he is a good honest bloke. He walks away because he really does like to contain his emotions. Says Callum won't crack. Callum walks away to avoid the conflict but Perez wants to cause conflict. Of Katie Price he says she made real disclosures about herself and she is now wondering if she is being judged and she now thinks its better to be quiet. His advice would be to tell her to be herself. Of Keith he says he gets good support from the other housemates and he isn't struggling. He says no way can anyone be happy every day. He loves Michelle because she is the voice of reason. She is such a strong lady and he says she is balance in herself and only Perez will take her on. Kav needs to assert himself more - he doesn't cope well with the volume in the house but on one to one he is supportive. Graham wants Michelle to win as he says she has such good values and principles. Graham says if Perez wins he will be more off the scale and if the public vote him to win they are saying they validate his behaviour and we can't be saying that. He says Perez need for constant attention is worrying. He says both Perez and KH are manipulative.
Hope you find that interesting”
“Saying Perez plays the victim. He needs constant adrenaline shot - he gets it from KH. KH and Perez are not polar opposites, they thrive on the same thing, they both carry gossip. If on JK stage he would say never darken each others doors again. He says Callum has great coping skills, he is a good honest bloke. He walks away because he really does like to contain his emotions. Says Callum won't crack. Callum walks away to avoid the conflict but Perez wants to cause conflict. Of Katie Price he says she made real disclosures about herself and she is now wondering if she is being judged and she now thinks its better to be quiet. His advice would be to tell her to be herself. Of Keith he says he gets good support from the other housemates and he isn't struggling. He says no way can anyone be happy every day. He loves Michelle because she is the voice of reason. She is such a strong lady and he says she is balance in herself and only Perez will take her on. Kav needs to assert himself more - he doesn't cope well with the volume in the house but on one to one he is supportive. Graham wants Michelle to win as he says she has such good values and principles. Graham says if Perez wins he will be more off the scale and if the public vote him to win they are saying they validate his behaviour and we can't be saying that. He says Perez need for constant attention is worrying. He says both Perez and KH are manipulative.
Hope you find that interesting”
But its ok to validate KH behaviour
That guy needs to give up his day job
Originally Posted by JVS:
“He's basically telling the public not to vote for Perez, 'because we can't condone his behaviour'.
We'll decide who to vote for, thanks.”
“He's basically telling the public not to vote for Perez, 'because we can't condone his behaviour'.
We'll decide who to vote for, thanks.”
Exactly, i hate these so called professionals. Who are they to tell people how they should and shouldn't behave ?
Originally Posted by Morgsie:
“he is better than the rest of the so called experts”
“he is better than the rest of the so called experts”
He's well qualified for a start and let's face it, he deals with plenty of off the wall people so the BB housemates must be a walk in the park lol!
Originally Posted by KazzyD:
“But its ok to validate KH behaviour
That guy needs to give up his day job”
“But its ok to validate KH behaviour
That guy needs to give up his day job”
He didn't say that. He said they are very similar and they are both manipulative. He wasn't asked what would happen if KH won
Originally Posted by SegaGamer:
“Exactly, i hate these so called professionals. Who are they to tell people how they should and shouldn't behave ?”
“Exactly, i hate these so called professionals. Who are they to tell people how they should and shouldn't behave ?”
He hasn't told anyone how to behave. He made the point that we would validate his behaviour if he won. Has Helen's behaviour changed? Think about it
Originally Posted by KazzyD:
“But its ok to validate KH behaviour
That guy needs to give up his day job”
“But its ok to validate KH behaviour
That guy needs to give up his day job”
He hasn't validated KH behaviour as he wasn't asked his opinion on what would happen if she won. He said Perez and KH are similar
Originally Posted by KazzyD:
“He's rubbish, he loves Michelle !!!”
“He's rubbish, he loves Michelle !!!”
Yeah clearly doesn't bother to watch the actual show just picked up the BOTS script on the way in like all the other guests.
ETA They clearly don't want Perez to win
Originally Posted by KazzyD:
“But its ok to validate KH behaviour
That guy needs to give up his day job”
“But its ok to validate KH behaviour
That guy needs to give up his day job”
He hasn't validated KH behaviour as he wasn't asked his opinion on what would happen if she won. He in fact said Perez and KH are similar
Apologies Kazzy this posted twice somehow!!!
Originally Posted by jobielad:
“He hasn't told anyone how to behave. He made the point that we would validate his behaviour if he won. Has Helen's behaviour changed? Think about it”
“He hasn't told anyone how to behave. He made the point that we would validate his behaviour if he won. Has Helen's behaviour changed? Think about it”
Well he kinda was. He was telling us that Perez' behaviour isn't acceptable.
Originally Posted by jobielad:
“He wasn't telling anyone - he was asked by Rylan what would happen if Perez won and he gave his professional opinion.”
“He wasn't telling anyone - he was asked by Rylan what would happen if Perez won and he gave his professional opinion.”
IMO, my post was correct. His exact words were,
"...if Perez were to win the general public are saying to Perez 'You know what, your behaviour was exemplary, we support you' ...and, to be honest, we can't validate that kind of behaviour".
Originally Posted by SegaGamer:
“Well he kinda was. He was telling us that Perez' behaviour isn't acceptable.”
“Well he kinda was. He was telling us that Perez' behaviour isn't acceptable.”
I get you point and respect what you are saying but seriously I think Perez may get clobbered if he goes around in the UK behaving with people like he has in the house lol!
He did get clobbered and thrown out of Paris Hiltons party and hit by Will.I.Am's manager in the states so it may happen here!!!
Originally Posted by JVS:
“IMO, my post was correct. His exact words were,
"...if Perez were to win the general public are saying to Perez 'You know what, your behaviour was exemplary, we support you' ...and, to be honest, we can't validate that kind of behaviour".”
“IMO, my post was correct. His exact words were,
"...if Perez were to win the general public are saying to Perez 'You know what, your behaviour was exemplary, we support you' ...and, to be honest, we can't validate that kind of behaviour".”
Yes you are right but I personally don't see that as him telling me what to do - I would make up my mind as will most of the people in the UK so to me he was giving his professional opinion and I thought he was speaking in general. And yes that is exactly what he said. He wasn't saying don't vote Perez - he was speaking as a psychologist.
One of the best guests they've ever had on there IMO.
Talks a lot of sense and is interesting and fair in his judgements.
I agreed with everything he said.
Talks a lot of sense and is interesting and fair in his judgements.
I agreed with everything he said.
Loving Graham tonight!
He wants Perez out. This man is an expert so he really should be listened to.
He wants Perez out. This man is an expert so he really should be listened to.
It's kind of a moot point the psychologist saying if people vote Perez to win they're validating his behaviour. People voting Perez to win presumably quite like his behaviour. Y
Originally Posted by KT_Dog:
“It's kind of a moot point the psychologist saying if people vote Perez to win they're validating his behaviour. People voting Perez to win presumably quite like his behaviour. Y”
“It's kind of a moot point the psychologist saying if people vote Perez to win they're validating his behaviour. People voting Perez to win presumably quite like his behaviour. Y”
I think a lot of people on her value him as a housemate and what he has brought to the show but the thing is would we like to have to spend 4 weeks with him non stop for 24 hours a day??? He makes me laugh at times with some of the stuff he comes out with but I sure wouldn't want to have to cope with his off the wall behaviour too much
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