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Old 06-02-2015, 13:49
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Following someone around the house hurling verbal abuse at them.

Destroying property that the same person carries around like a security blanket.

Publically humiliating someone by standing at the edge of thier bed (in a room full of people) critisising their genitals.

Never refering to person by their name instead substituting "Nobhead or "Parasite" to others.

Incitations to violence "I wish this button could just ignight Perez"

And pre-meditating more of the same while everyone else engages in the bystander effect e.g.:
Callum: Only another 11 days to go.
Hopkins: I'll be making his life hell for each one, I can promise you that.

The repeated threat to crash pans over his head while he slept

Threats by Hopkins and Cami to spit (or worse) in his water.

While she may be guilty of bullying from these examples, I would suggest that Callum, Michelle etc are worthy of their fair share of the blame for never challenging it. The bystander effect just doesn't wash.
If Hopkins wins it says a lot of bad things about the british public.
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Old 06-02-2015, 13:53
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How is she bullying him ? He was evicted wasn't he? Ahhhhh I see what you've done.
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Old 06-02-2015, 13:55
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Excellent example how members of DS need to grow up
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Old 06-02-2015, 13:58
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She is just one nasty ba*stard.
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Old 06-02-2015, 14:00
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People throw the term bully right like confetti. Perez wasn't bullied anymore than Perez was bullied.
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Old 06-02-2015, 14:24
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Great summary, OP.

Helen Wood received warnings for doing less, and her bullying was more temper-driven rather than premeditated. But she shouted more and had a common accent so is obviously deemed a bully where the more 'cultured' middle class Hopkins is not.

The double standard seems obvious to me. But regardless, both will lay claim to winning the UK's biggest popularity contest.
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Old 06-02-2015, 14:28
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People throw the term bully right like confetti. Perez wasn't bullied anymore than Perez was bullied.
Nah he was definitely bullied. I don't particularly like Perez, and I expect he would be very tough to live with, but he was definitely ganged up on, Hopkins the relentless ringleader.
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Old 06-02-2015, 14:33
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She is just one nasty ba*stard.
Beautifully put, Sheils.
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Old 06-02-2015, 14:35
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My interpretation of bullying is different then if you think Perez was bullied. Perez got as good as he gave, he never came across as weak or a victim.
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Old 06-02-2015, 14:45
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Great summary, OP.

Helen Wood received warnings for doing less, and her bullying was more temper-driven rather than premeditated. But she shouted more and had a common accent so is obviously deemed a bully where the more 'cultured' middle class Hopkins is not.

The double standard seems obvious to me. But regardless, both will lay claim to winning the UK's biggest popularity contest.
Yes, calculated bullying.. which she employed towards some of the others, who didn't fall in to line in isolating Perez: Alicia, Nadia and Keith. Though for some reason now that Perez is gone Keith now agrees with them. Fear?
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Old 06-02-2015, 14:49
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My interpretation of bullying is different then if you think Perez was bullied. Perez got as good as he gave, he never came across as weak or a victim.
He was crying on numerous occasions, exasperated, isolated and in his own words traumatised. It's easy to look past the emotional stuff because as you say he did stick up for himself but he was hurting bigtime, he just wanted out of there.
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Old 06-02-2015, 14:54
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My interpretation of bullying is different then if you think Perez was bullied. Perez got as good as he gave, he never came across as weak or a victim.
That is beside the point.The fact is Hopkins was hounding him or they would all {Hopkin's coterie}, leave the room as he entered and use tactical means to isolate him. In a confined space like that it would be damaging, no matter what your strength of personality.
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Old 06-02-2015, 14:59
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Yes, calculated bullying.. which she employed towards some of the others, who didn't fall in to line in isolating Perez: Alicia, Nadia and Keith. Though for some reason now that Perez is gone Keith now agrees with them. Fear?
Don't know what programme some of the FMs have been watching to say it's not bullying. last night's show was the final straw for me when Eammon Holmes and James Jordan, who has openly spouted hateful things about Perez on Twitter (although Eammon was a bit more restrained), then Jim Davidson joining in the gang fight, attacked Perez for no reason but were kind to everyone else. They then got the HMs to deflect their appalling behaviour and blame Perez! Finally, Keith - who has got upset when all the other HMs were evicted, openly celebrated Perez's eviction along with idiot Callum who has openly been edited by CBB to win. It's ok for Hopkins to spout her bigotry and break company property, and Callum to call Perez one of the most offensive words in the English Language, but it's Perez's fault of course and he got the warnings for other things he's said, whilst they. got off with their appalling behavior. I've complained to Ofcom as it's uncomfortable to me to allow this bullying to happen. And everyone is still attacking him - that awful cow on BOTS who couldn't even be bothered to shake his hand ought to be made to apologise. Dreadful woman.
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