Originally Posted by Flowes:
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If you believe it is okay to focus on how you can hurt someone and try to get others to agree with you, that is up to you but you won't succeed in achieving that.”
All i'm saying is that if you are in a heated argument with someone then you will say something which you know will hurt them if you have it in your arsenal.
People on here can pat themselves on the back and claim 'oh i'd never do such a thing' and that's all well and good.
But it's like when two really close people, such as a couple, have a furious row. Things can be said which are very cutting and hurtful because they know each other so well and know what the weak points are.
It doesn't make you a bad person, it's just a natural thing. You're not going to be in a slanging match with someone and think "ooh i better not say that, it might upset them a bit".