Originally Posted by Penny Crayon:
“I've loved them all
I think I am a Loose Woman at heart
It's not really something I've felt able to admit before as they are treated with such derision on here. This year though I thought b***cks - I'm coming out of the closet.
and while we're at it - I voted for Ulrika too
”
“I've loved them all

I think I am a Loose Woman at heart

It's not really something I've felt able to admit before as they are treated with such derision on here. This year though I thought b***cks - I'm coming out of the closet.

and while we're at it - I voted for Ulrika too

”
It's interesting that most middle-aged women who go on CBB are almost immediately damned, regardless of how different their personalities are. It feels like there's a totally disproportionate level of intolerance to any older women 'with a voice'.
The quieter and still-beautiful ones like Patsy are enjoyed but heaven help any older female HM with a big personality. Words like "bitter old hag", "old busybody", etc are routinely used in threads. Even the younger model types get defended on here (albeit from male FMs playing at being the 'white knight' or as an [ironically] sexist stick to beat female FMs with, e.g. "you're just jealous!"). And it's a complete contrast to the tolerance and affection shown to older male HMs. Imagine if Davidson or Busey had been women.
I've been pondering this and come up with some sketchy theories....
a) 'Mummy issues'
b) Projection/identification issues, i.e. they're the same age range as some FMs.... although this doesn't explain the hostility from male FMs
c) Society has less respect or use for women once they've stopped being pretty baubles or producing babies, so if they've outlived those traditional roles, they're going to get it in the neck for daring to be heard as well as seen.
d) All of the above.





