Go to Settings/Messages and scroll down to Send and Receive.
Here you can see all the email addresses that can iMessage you and of course your mobile number.
I find the email thing a pain in the bum so I just uncheck ALL the email addresses completely.
Then people can only iMessage to your phone number.
When you have done it it should look like this...... https://www.dropbox.com/s/1lutvq6if1...ssage.JPG?dl=0