Originally Posted by kitkat1971:
“I'm not sure I'd agree that Bernie's is an excellent doctor or doesn't allow her emotions to control her decisions.
She has in only a couple of weeks, arguably put a young man (and his father) through unnecessary physical and emotional pain by keeping him alive when the kinder thing would have been to let him go. Not to mention the money that would have cost the NHS in theatre and consultant time and possibly neglect to other patients.
Then, the stuff with Ric's teacher was point scoring and she ignored the Patients wishes for her own reasons. Yes, he needed the operation but Ric could have been called. Or one of the other Doctors such as Sacha when the Patient made it so clear he wasn't happy.
Then the mess this week, riding roughshod over something as sensitive as a relatively young woman losing her 'symbol' of femininity (her breasts) and her way of having a baby - what many women believe to be the main reason you exist as a woman. Sometimes people will make decisions based purely on emotion, not medicine or logic.
I'm not saying she should have had to hold the women's hands this week, other people would probably be better at that and to a certain extent, Nurses are there for that or Psych counselors. But she was crap. As a woman in her 40s, who hasn't had kids and has pretty much accepted I won't but still hopes, I'd have found her attitude really horrible even if i had gone in for an elective.
I do know jac has done much, much worse by the way and u've called her for it when she has.
I do quite like Bernie in that i find her interesting and get why she is doing what she is. I just don't like some of the things she has done - specifically being nasty about Jac to Mo when Jac had been a good Doctor clinically and pastorally and even recommended her for a job.”
I realise that the thing with the young man and his father was controversial, but I felt like she felt the chances of him making a recovery were reasonable. Jac didn't think they'd bring him back the first time, and Bernie proved that they could. Yes, they wasted resources, but there's always a risk of that - they want to tell the family that they did all they could, and in Bernie's professional opinion the chances were good enough to try for a bit longer. She didn't go on fighting a losing battle for anything like as long as Arthur did.
I disagree that the issue with Ric was point-scoring. Ric shouldn't have been treating him anyway because they knew each other, and he was so emotionally involved that he wasn't making objective decisions. Bernie realised that and took over. And I don't think any of the other doctors would have been willing to get involved - I'm not sure if they're in awe of Ric or too intimidated by him, but when he insisted on treating the patient himself, they followed his words too literally. Essie didn't even notice that he was bleeding because she wasn't keeping a close enough eye on him. I don't think having been told by Ric lets Essie and the others off the hook on that one at all as a matter of fact, but Bernie was the only one who used any initiative at all.
As for this week - I can't really argue that one, she messed it up with that patient. I would say in her defence that she realised she'd messed it up and did her best to make up for it afterwards.
Originally Posted by kitkat1971:
“Yes, it was horrobly unfair. She was probably a lovely girl who would have really appreciated having a nice, outgoing flatmate like Cara. Bet she made great Tea as well.
But, that is the bigotry we Sci Fi fans face I'm afraid!!??”
Come to think of it, it was very odd that they came to meet her at work. I know these people seem to live their whole lives at the hospital, but surely they'd want to actually see the place they'd be moving into rather than just meeting the person?
On that point, it would have been amusing if after all that, Cara had turned out to live in the most horrible house anyone could possibly live in, and Morven couldn't stand the idea of moving in once she'd seen it!