Originally Posted by wonkeydonkey:
“BB rivalries are often horribly ramped up outside the house. We have several times seen housemates part on good terms, discover that their fans hate the other, and decide that, on second thoughts, the other person was vile to them. Aaron/ Jay is a good example. They were practically brothers in arms by the last day, then as soon as he had a chance to speak to people outside the house Jay seemed to acquire a huge grievance.”
Why do you think it was about discovering
their fans hate each other?
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“In the case of Nikki/ Aisleyne, I think Nikki's weeks outside the house were disastrous. Aisleyne and Nikki had made up their row, and aisleyne was quite comforting and supportive to wards Nikki, and strongly supportive of her just before the shock eviction. But Nikki was fatally suggestive. And the press were obsessed with the fatuous idea of a triangle. Nikki wasn't even in any sort of romantic relationship with Pete, and Aisleyne certainly wasn't, but it was what some of the public wanted. So every single interview that Nikki did - and she did a lot - centred round her romance, and how awful it would be if Aisleyne stole Pete from her, the minx. Based on nothing, Nikki started seeing Aisleyne as a calculating enemy who was out to ruin her big romance. It was quite bizarre, and very unpleasant, listening to Nikki move from irritation towards Aisleyne to something that was virtually hate, and Aisleyne completely oblivious of all of this, and even persuading the others that Nikki must be the one voted back into the house.”
I don't think it was "based on nothing" that Nikki started seeing Aisleyne as a calculating enemy. Whether Ash
was a calculating enemy is not clear, but there are reasons to think she may have been.
But also, Nikki already had a significant problem with Ash before Nikki was evicted and so also before anything was ramped up outside the house. It wasn't just irritation either. (Remember, for instance, the time Nikki became very upset during one of the Scouse Talks?)
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“I don't think it was at all. Aisleyne was paranoid as hell (and had some right; compare the charming welcome early latecomers like Claire and Josh got with the nasty stuff she came in to). She just reacted badly because she thought Nikki was bad-mouthing her. There is no reason to suppose that her remark was pre-planned, or that it was part of a pattern of behaviour. And I think you are putting too much emphasis on the word 'mental'. Far worse terms are used in every series nearly every day.”
It looks like you now accept that you were wrong in saying the "boring" remark wasn't pre-planned (and consequently also in your alternative suggestion, that Ash just reacted badly because she thought Nikki was bad-mouthing her). But there are problems with some of the other things you say there too.
I didn't put any emphasis on the word 'mental'. Sometimes in this forum, people seem to think the nastiness of a remark is entirely down to the nastiness of individual words. That has never been my view. However, you also took it out of context. Ash told Lea that Nikki was ****ing mental and was using Pete to stay in. My point was that while Ash was generally nice to Nikki's face, she said a lot against Nikki behind her back. Some of what she said had a nasty edge, but that wasn't the main point.
I don't know why you think "Aisleyne was paranoid as hell". But in any case, she wasn't subjected to any nasty stuff when she came in. There were some bitchy remarks about her, but they were not to her; and she made some bitchy remarks as well.
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“I don't agree with that either. I think Aisleyne was utterly confounded by the turn of events. She had been having a perfectly nice time (once she had got over having to evict a friend), then suddenly discovers that Pete and Nikki were the adored king and queen of the series (not entirely true; but of course all the evidence pointed that way), and that she was hated. The always sweet and loyal Richard, who had been quite pally with her, responded to this change in the landscape by attaching himself like a limpet to Pete and Nikki, praising and flattering Nikki to the skies, and by discarding, and on at least one occasion, bullying and ridiculing Aisleyne. Pete, who had been a good friend throughout, completely deserted her. Her behaviour towards Nikki seemed almost unwatchably nervy and insecure that week. The time she kind of threw herself into the pool, and attracted yards and yards of ridicule on here - I think it was the response of an insecure person completely at the end of her tether: the kind of catastrophic social failure that makes people punch the wall when everything just becomes unbearably awkward and humiliating. How very much easier to be Glyn, and just completely oblivious to everything except his own stomach and groin.”
You say you don't agree with me, but when you say why, you are talking about when Nikki returned from the HND, while I was talking about when
Aisleyne returned from the HND.
We disagree about the period after Nikki returned too, but for now (at least), I'll just comment on one point: the supposedly "always sweet and loyal Richard". Richard nominated Aisleyne in weeks 6 and 9. (She couldn't be nominated in week 7, because she was in the HND, or in week 8, because there were no nominations.) (Nikki didn't return until the end of week 11.) That doesn't seem very loyal to me.