Originally Posted by fifitrixibelle:
“But you are insisting your view on 'beauty' is the only one.....why not take it as read that not everyone share's what you perceive as beautiful......I don't think she's in the least bit beautiful...I wouldn't even say she was pretty,,and I'm stumped as to how both she and other's could consider that she is anything but average at best, but that's life, it doesn't make either view right or wrong or not 'genuine'.”
I'm not insisting (or even saying) that my view on 'beauty' (why the quotes?) is the only one. But, unlike (it seems) people who believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I distinguish between all of the following.
1. How beautiful someone is.
2. How beautiful someone is according to the currently prevailing 'standards' in some time and place (such as the UK, now).
3. How much someone's looks appeal to me personally.
I can have an opinion on (1) and (2), but that opinion is still distinct from (3).
If we were discussing how intelligent HMs were, I don't think people would be making the sort of accusation you've making there. They wouldn't be saying things like "not everyone share's what you perceive as intelligent". I think beauty and intelligence are in quite similar 'boats'.