Originally Posted by AA2009:
“Kieran actually said that older people sleep LESS not more so Eileen misinterpreted him on purpose. She also delighted in bitching about Jade when the rest turned on her.”
Whether he said more or less is irrelevant. The point was about talking to Eileen as though she's just her age rather than as a person.
Some are saying that she was rude and aggressive. She didn't come across that way at all to me. She wanted to get something off her chest, and did what people on here say housemates should do, approach the person and just let them know.
She wasn't aggressive, she was calm, didn't lose her temper, and didn't start shouting. She just let her feelings known. It was Kieron who was being overly defensive and raising his voice. She was telling him that she knows that he didn't mean it, she just wanted him to be aware of how she felt about him treating her as some old person. She is only 51, and it is very patronising.
That's the thing with being patronising, people aren't usually conscious that they are. They need to be informed that they're being patronising or they'd never know that they are.
They sorted it out, they were holding hands, and that should be it.