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Let's clarify one thing about Jade...
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Thad
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by JustTam:
“I would like to just touch on the "jealousy" bit. I hate that people call those who have a differing opinion jealous. That is always the classic go to response. Sorry but it is possible to have differing opinions and not simply be jealous.”

Correlation does not always equate to causation, but it has to be noted that the number of pretty girl early exits in big brother coupled with the reaction they often get on the forums most likely does mean something, if not jealousy what?

Yes people have individual opinions and they are often valid, but that doesn't mean they are not influenced by prejudice, overt and subconscious ones.
Nesta Robbins
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by Kromm:
“If she'd just stopped at referring to herself as beautiful that one be one thing. But she's also done the "I'm a good person" thing too (as well as other variations, a number of times. on both her moral superiority and her looks).”

It's occured to me that maybe she has a whole pile of insecurities beneath the surface, and the constant "I'm good and beautiful" thing is trying to convince (and comfort) herself. Also the whole - "I don't care" thing is a hardened defence barrier too she's learnt, to protect and mask how she really feels.
niwdeness
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by Nesta Robbins:
“It's occured to me that maybe she has a whole pile of insecurities beneath the surface, and the constant "I'm good and beautiful" thing is trying to convince (and comfort) herself. Also the whole - "I don't care" thing is a hardened defence barrier too she's learnt, to protect and mask how she really feels.”

You've got to give her credit, the "I don't care" thing has worked pretty well on the twins. They look completely lost and out of their depth around her, despite it being 2 vs 1.
Desy Boy
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by Karen_Annanina:
“Jade's strength lies in the fact that she doesn't EXPECT to survive in the house, and she doesn't care! She said she would be out on any week she's nominated, so she's under no illusions. She isn't "manipulative" at all, she just doesn't care what anyone thinks of her. When people are fighting her, she only puts up a token defence and doesn't mutate into a screaming harridan like Harriet and the twins, or a melodramatic actress like Eileen.”

Personally I warm to confident people who don't need other people to validate their views, opinions and sentiments. As much as I may be a bit meh about Jade I do admire her attitude and that's more than I can say about many of the others.
Thad
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by Desy Boy:
“Personally I warm to confident people who don't need other people to validate their views, opinions and sentiments. As much as I may be a bit meh about Jade I do admire her attitude and that's more than I can say about many of the others.”

I'm the same, but its a fine line between confidence and arrogance. I like to think im my own man and im certainly forthright and secure in my opinions, but I don't have to be a dick about it (most of the time)

I personally think Jade has handled this pretty well, despite having some deep insecurities.
Sifter22
25-05-2015
If people can't get down with Jade's positive vibe then that's their problems not hers.
jeanoj
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by Skyrah:
“she may think she is beautiful, but this is only skin deep .... inside she is very very ugly”

Without all the slap she isn't that good on the outside either!
Vicky8675309
25-05-2015
Jade is pretty but she is NOT intelligent. She came up with that ridiculous story (lie) about being traumatized as a child (seriously, traumatized) because a family member falsely accused her of playing with an Ouija board. She can not think fast on her feet and I just found it to be a sign of stupidity.
Sifter22
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by Vicky8675309:
“Jade is pretty but she is NOT intelligent. She came up with that ridiculous story (lie) about being traumatized as a child (seriously, traumatized) because a family member falsely accused her of playing with an Ouija board. She can not think fast on her feet and I just found it to be a sign of stupidity.”

How do you know it wasn't traumatic for her?
Vicky8675309
25-05-2015
I don't think it even happened. The way she told the story make it seem like she was making it up on the spot.
JustTam
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by Thad:
“Correlation does not always equate to causation, but it has to be noted that the number of pretty girl early exits in big brother coupled with the reaction they often get on the forums most likely does mean something, if not jealousy what?

Yes people have individual opinions and they are often valid, but that doesn't mean they are not influenced by prejudice, overt and subconscious ones.”

Maybe some females are just able to view women objectively on their personality and not get distracted by their looks.

If we went by the theory that girls are jealous of pretty girls and that's why they get voted out it would be fair to assume they don't like them. How is it then that pretty girls like Taylor Swift or Kylie Jenner have millions of fans? Using them as I'm assuming it's about the same age bracket.

I'm not saying there aren't girls who aren't jealous, but I think the jealousy excuse is over used.
Scarlet O'Hara
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by JustTam:
“I would like to just touch on the "jealousy" bit. I hate that people call those who have a differing opinion jealous. That is always the classic go to response. Sorry but it is possible to have differing opinions and not simply be jealous.”

It's a tedious accusation, I agree. And sexist too, given that it's only EVER directed at female viewers as if we're all so shallow, so competitive and so unsisterly that we feel threatened by a complete stranger.

Re Jade, I like confidence in a person. And there's no point denying you're attractive if it's a fact (she IS a model). But conceitedness and vanity is quite different IMO...and I see it in her actions as well as her words: the swooshing her hair while she looks at herself, the little shimmy out of the diary room last night like it was a catwalk. There's a reason why the story of Narcissus is a cautionary tale.
Scarlet O'Hara
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by JustTam:
“Maybe some females are just able to view women objectively on their personality and not get distracted by their looks.

If we went by the theory that girls are jealous of pretty girls and that's why they get voted out it would be fair to assume they don't like them. How is it then that pretty girls like Taylor Swift or Kylie Jenner have millions of fans? Using them as I'm assuming it's about the same age bracket.

I'm not saying there aren't girls who aren't jealous, but I think the jealousy excuse is over used.”

Good post.

There's some irony that this is being used to defend Jade, when she herself took against Sarah on day 1 for having 'bad energy', and then the twins a few days later again for inexplicable reasons (and they said they felt immediately that Jade didn't like them). If anyone has seemed threatened by other attractive women, it's Jade. That's part of why I'm not a fan. She's letting the side down with all that stuff.
MrJamGd
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by borintimebrenda:
“last word.”

This comment is ridiculous but it makes me laugh
Thad
25-05-2015
If we were to break it down to evolutionary brass tacks, I would say that jealousy is the wrong word. More likely the root is rivalry or competition for a mate. It's a threat reaction if anything and yes it does exist.
constantino_chr
25-05-2015
Jade is a queen and you peasants will have to deal.
cah
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by Angie_Plasty:
“Seems to me she wants, even expects, to be desired by men. She came into the house and announced she was beautiful and available for all the men to pursue and adore, too self-obsessed to realize that most men will be put off by a woman vowing to sleep around on them before they've even got together.

When the adoration she expected didn't materialize she had to pretend she didn't fancy anyone to cover up, but luckily for her there's a chancer in the house, lacking spine and character, who'll take whatever he can get so long as he doesn't have to work for it and it doesn't disadvantage him.

The moment it does disadvantage him, he predictably abandons her to save himself and she's immediately trying to get a replacement for him.

They're as bad as each other in their own way. She's bonkers and he's a shit.”

Exactly !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well said
niwdeness
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by Vicky8675309:
“I don't think it even happened. The way she told the story make it seem like she was making it up on the spot.”

The great arbiter of truthfulness has spoken. Rejoice!
niwdeness
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by Scarlet O'Hara:
“Good post.

There's some irony that this is being used to defend Jade, when she herself took against Sarah on day 1 for having 'bad energy', and then the twins a few days later again for inexplicable reasons (and they said they felt immediately that Jade didn't like them). If anyone has seemed threatened by other attractive women, it's Jade. That's part of why I'm not a fan. She's letting the side down with all that stuff.”

She isn't threatened by Sarah who has tonnes of guys fawning over her and was voted the most attractive by the public.

The twins are vacuous, hence why she doesn't like them.
niwdeness
25-05-2015
It's pleasing that this series of BB is inspiring debate, so much better then last year.
keeping_it_real
25-05-2015
Originally Posted by Thad:
“There are some objective standards to beauty to do with proportions and symmetry and like it or not Jade conforms to many of those standards and is objectively beautiful, or at the very least attractive. to deny this is disingenuous.

Of course on an individual basis people may not be attracted to her, but that's another kettle of fish.”

The biggest of those standards is symmetry which Jade doesn't have (one eye is about half an inch higher than the other and a different shape) and having the eyes widely spaced which she also doesn't have.

If you were to cover her eyes the lower half of her face is attractive which is why she looks better with lots of slap on as it disguises the above (ditto when she was wearing a hat which cast her eyes into shadow.)

I believe the most attractive thing about her good posture which is entirely down to believing herself to be 'all that' so at least in that respect it is serving her well but beautiful she is not.
Fairy Wings
25-05-2015
Maybe in Jade's world, if she tells us she's beautiful enough times we'll believe it
Scarlett Berry
25-05-2015
[quote=Scarlet O'Hara;78221176]Good post.

There's some irony that this is being used to defend Jade, when she herself took against Sarah on day 1 for having 'bad energy', and then the twins a few days later again for inexplicable reasons (and they said they felt immediately that Jade didn't like them). If anyone has seemed threatened by other attractive women, it's Jade. That's part of why I'm not a fan. She's letting the side down with all that stuff.[/QUOTE]

Why not give Jade the benefit of the doubt.

She doesn't automatically have to like women to keep the "sisterhood" alive and well. Sarah is a gobby mouthpiece with passive aggressive tendancies and the twins are just superfluous eye candy & only in the house because of their twinness (if that's even a word). Moreover, they're not terribly nice girls either.

I don't believe JADE is letting the side down. In fact I think many of the females on this forum are guilty of that themselves.
sorcha_healy27
25-05-2015
I'm not a massive jade fan but I find her very interesting to watch. I also don't see what the issue is with someone being confident enough not to need other people's validations

The Twins are frankly 2 pains in the arse and not pleasant at all.
curvybabes
25-05-2015
I'd rather get the twins, Eileen and Harriet all out before Jade.
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