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Let's clarify one thing about Jade...
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Veri
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by mz fit:
“Sarah received the vote for most attractive, which Jade clearly thought she had in the bag,”

No, Jade expected the twin (Amy?) to win it.

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“yet she hasn't once spoken about how beautiful she is. The twins are also far more attractive than Jade and I don't believe I've seen them speak a word about how beautiful they are.”

For all we know, Sarah spends 10 minutes every morning talking about how great she looks, and the twins whisper it to each other every night.

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“Every woman should be confident and recognise her own unique beauty, but to be boastful and act with an air that they expect that beauty to be acknowledged by all she sees is the most unattractive thing they can do. From the start Jade has come across to me as a vain girl who expects adoration and attention...I don't find her as beautiful as the other women in the house. She and Harriet are systematically losing every bit of shine I had for them.”

She wasn't boastful, and she hasn't had an air of expecting her beauty to be acknowledged by all either. Nor has she come across to me as vain or as expecting adoration and attention.

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“As far as Nick - he's been completely honest with everyone about why he did what he did and how he's tried to check himself, but chose to go with it. When they were caught with the noms talk he was shocked into looking at his own behaviour and rejigging it. He was straight with everyone, including Jade, and set his course again. Good on him and it's brought him up in my estimation tremendously.”

There's no way of knowing whether Nick's been completely honest or not.

Quote:
“Jade pranced around in front of the mirrors cause no one else was paying her any attention at all. I was especially happy when Cristian drew the line too. She's going to have to go all humble to get through this one I'm afraid.”

Apart from "pranced" which is just rhetoric, what's supposed to be wrong with it?
coke_pepper
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by niwdeness:
“To be fair, big brother doesn't really bring out the best in people. How would you be if you were deprived of any intellectual stimulation and were in a house with brain dead people like the twins and Jack? Eventually your empathy would subside. Around a smart house, Jade has the wherewithal to flourish.”

She's the poorest game player I've seen on big brother for as long as I can remember. How anyone can interpret that as a sign of intelligence has me giving my head some serious scratching. Her replies and body language during the discussion to clear the air with the twins reminded me of my 8 year old niece.
niwdeness
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by coke_pepper:
“She's the poorest game player I've seen on big brother for as long as I can remember. How anyone can interpret that as a sign of intelligence has me giving my head some serious scratching. Her replies and body language during the discussion to clear the air with the twins reminded me of my 8 year old niece.”

What makes you think she is playing a game?
niwdeness
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by WhatJoeThinks:
“Regardless of how hungry one is, or how intelligent one is, being manipulative is objectionable. If people take offense it has nothing to do with their intelligence or their ability to understand complex thought.”

I still don't see how she has been manipulative. When has she been disingenuous? Facts not conjecture please.
coke_pepper
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by niwdeness:
“What makes you think she is playing a game?”

Gawd. It's a GAMESHOW. None of them have a money tree growing in there garden. There's a big pot of gold to be had.
Or do you still fall for the old "here for the experience" line? lol hahaha.
niwdeness
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by coke_pepper:
“Gawd. It's a GAMESHOW. None of them have a money tree growing in there garden. There's a big pot of gold to be had.
Or do you still fall for the old "here for the experience" line? lol hahaha.”

Jade has said time and time again that she knows she won't win.
Panda Eyes
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by niwdeness:
“Jade has said time and time again that she knows she won't win.”

Majority of them say that, I can't even remember anyone saying they truly believed they were going to win or that they were going in for the win and nothing else.
coke_pepper
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by niwdeness:
“Jade has said time and time again that she knows she won't win.”

I'll say it again, so you still fall for the old "here for the experience" line?
niwdeness
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by coke_pepper:
“I'll say it again, so you still fall for the old "here for the experience" line?”

To a degree.
coke_pepper
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by niwdeness:
“To a degree.”

Hmm. Says it all.
Veri
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by Panda Eyes:
“Majority of them say that, I can't even remember anyone saying they truly believed they were going to win or that they were going in for the win and nothing else.”

The most likely reason most of them say it because it's true. They'd like to win, and will try to, but they don't expect to win and aren't there just for it. The idea that they're really there only for the win makes little sense.

Originally Posted by coke_pepper:
“I'll say it again, so you still fall for the old "here for the experience" line?”

I think that most people who choose BB are interested in the experience, even if that's not all they're interested in.
wazzyboy
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by Thad:
“I'm the same, but its a fine line between confidence and arrogance. I like to think im my own man and im certainly forthright and secure in my opinions, but I don't have to be a dick about it (most of the time)

I personally think Jade has handled this pretty well, despite having some deep insecurities.”

I think her insecurity is what makes me think her apparent confidence might seem more like arrogance.

I don't think she is that confident in herself in reality.
Veri
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by Thad:
“Sure that's right, but objectively at the very least she has the physical attributes of someone that is at the very least attractive. It's grasping at straws and to be frank disingenuous to think of her as ugly or plain.

The rest is just whatever personal bias we have.”

I think it's quite telling that people also say / think she looks old, even though she doesn't. However, there's no "age is in the eye of the beholder" cliché, so they can use reasoning-by-cliché in that case.
Panda Eyes
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by Veri:
“The most likely reason most of them say it because it's true. They'd like to win, and will try to, but they don't expect to win and aren't there just for it. The idea that they're really there only for the win makes little sense.”


Why does it not make sense? I bet there are some that don't give a flying one about making friends or getting to meet Rylan that only care about the money and exposure that comes from winning and nothing else.

What I initially meant was that Jade saying that she wont win is meaningless and trite and is no reflection of hers or any of them that trot out that line.
coke_pepper
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by Veri:
“The most likely reason most of them say it because it's true. They'd like to win, and will try to, but they don't expect to win and aren't there just for it. The idea that they're really there only for the win makes little sense.



I think that most people who choose BB are interested in the experience, even if that's not all they're interested in.”

Yeah, the more they say it the more chance they have of winning it is more likely the reason.
The end goal for ALL of them is to make as much money out of it as possible. Any life experience / friends they make in the process is purely incidental.
Getting force fed a diet of rice, bread and water on a regular basis and participating in regular heated arguments/mind games is contrary to what the human mind classifies as rewarding behaviors.
I'm sure that after 3 or 4 weeks, not one of them, if there was no financial reward would choose to stay rather than go home and surround themselves with family and friends.
wotnot
26-05-2015
It was clear from the off that Jade would be disliked because of her vanity, some people just don't like vanity or people who are overly confident. Personally I do think Jade is beautiful, as beautiful as Sarah certainly and IMO much moreso than the other women in the house. This is where personal taste/subjectivity comes in to play but I don't think that it can be denied that Jade is vain. Personally I am fine with that, it's not a trait of mine but I think it's healthy to acknowledge your attributes and this is something that we as a society seem to have difficulty with, we don't really applaud success or self confidence in others and we tend to prefer the humble or downtrodden which I think is a shame.
wazzyboy
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by wotnot:
“It was clear from the off that Jade would be disliked because of her vanity, some people just don't like vanity or people who are overly confident. Personally I do think Jade is beautiful, as beautiful as Sarah certainly and IMO much moreso than the other women in the house. This is where personal taste/subjectivity comes in to play but I don't think that it can be denied that Jade is vain. Personally I am fine with that, it's not a trait of mine but I think it's healthy to acknowledge your attributes and this is something that we as a society seem to have difficulty with, we don't really applaud success or self confidence in others and we tend to prefer the humble or downtrodden which I think is a shame.”

I admire quiet confidence, coupled with genuine modesty. Trouble is it is often gets mistaken for insecurity or false modesty.

FTR i don't think jade is that confident and is actually quite insecure in some ways. As has been said, it's her tone and body language that portrays something other than true confidence.
mz fit
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by WhatJoeThinks:
“I didn't say anybody was manipulative. I was responding to the part of your OP that I'd highlighted in bold:



Regardless of how hungry one is, or how intelligent one is, being manipulative is objectionable. If people take offense it has nothing to do with their intelligence or their ability to understand complex thought.”

And how can anyone justify saying she was being manipulative because of hunger. She is the one HM there who can not use that excuse...she's had more to eat and drink than anyone.

I still think her major issues with other HMs started with that...she wasn't even remotely humble or considerate about the luxury food. They gave her the plot of land and the shovel...she dug for all she was worth.

I don't particularly like Jade, but I'm loving all the chaos in the house around her.
bulldog rosie
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by coke_pepper:
“She's the poorest game player I've seen on big brother for as long as I can remember. How anyone can interpret that as a sign of intelligence has me giving my head some serious scratching. Her replies and body language during the discussion to clear the air with the twins reminded me of my 8 year old niece.”

Are you saying that your 8 year old niece is a moron ???
coke_pepper
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by wotnot:
“It was clear from the off that Jade would be disliked because of her vanity, some people just don't like vanity or people who are overly confident. Personally I do think Jade is beautiful, as beautiful as Sarah certainly and IMO much moreso than the other women in the house. This is where personal taste/subjectivity comes in to play but I don't think that it can be denied that Jade is vain. Personally I am fine with that, it's not a trait of mine but I think it's healthy to acknowledge your attributes and this is something that we as a society seem to have difficulty with, we don't really applaud success or self confidence in others and we tend to prefer the humble or downtrodden which I think is a shame.”

If someone proclaims to be something that they are, i think that in general people can accept there self assessment. It only becomes a problem when the self assessment is incorrect. For example, if you're an employee and you proclaim to be the best at what you do in your area of work but you're not, then your colleagues will challenge your statement. If you are, people will generally, silently acknowledge that fact.
Same goes for Jade. She vocally declares to be a beautiful specimen and quite clearly regards it as a valuable asset in her armory when it is quite clear that alot of people do not agree. She puts herself up there and if her proclamations are judged to be incorrect she's going to come up against some pretty strong objections.
wazzyboy
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by coke_pepper:
“If someone proclaims to be something that they are, i think that in general people can accept there self assessment. It only becomes a problem when the self assessment is incorrect. For example, if you're an employee and you proclaim to be the best at what you do in your area of work but you're not, then your colleagues will challenge your statement. If you are, people will generally, silently acknowledge that fact.
Same goes for Jade. She vocally declares to be a beautiful specimen and quite clearly regards it as a valuable asset in her armory when it is quite clear that some(alot) of people do not agree. She puts herself up there and if her proclamations are judged to be incorrect she's going to come up against some strong objections.”

Moreover, if you have positive attributes there really should be no need to declare them. Others will see them and likely as not say so.
coke_pepper
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by wazzyboy:
“Moreover, if you have positive attributes there really should be no need to declare them. Others will see them and likely as not say so.”

That's the other issue. It's not particularly endearing blowing your own trumpet, but when said trumpet is out of tune you've got some major criticism heading your way.
Artemis1
26-05-2015
To be honest , I don't think any of them are too confident except for the twins because they have each other.

I must admit I feel sorry for jade , there she thought she had someone in Nick who she could trust.

He was in the group who were laughing at Jade'S nominations.
in video probably in tonight's show.

Don't like Nick anymore.
WhatJoeThinks
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by niwdeness:
“I still don't see how she has been manipulative. When has she been disingenuous? Facts not conjecture please.”

I don't know how to be clearer. I did NOT say that anybody was being manipulative. In fact, YOU did, then proceeded to explain that it was in some way acceptable (due to being at your wit's end, or hungry) and that the less intelligent always criticise the more intelligent for being manipulative on account of their inability to understand complex thought.

Basically, you said that being manipulative is okay, because we all do it when we're stressed, and taking offense is a sign of stupidity. I completely disagree.

[Edit} Perhaps you should look back over my previous posts in this thread. I think you may have confused my responses with somebody else's.
niwdeness
27-05-2015
Originally Posted by WhatJoeThinks:
“I don't know how to be clearer. I did NOT say that anybody was being manipulative. In fact, YOU did, then proceeded to explain that it was in some way acceptable (due to being at your wit's end, or hungry) and that the less intelligent always criticise the more intelligent for being manipulative on account of their inability to understand complex thought.

Basically, you said that being manipulative is okay, because we all do it when we're stressed, and taking offense is a sign of stupidity. I completely disagree.

[Edit} Perhaps you should look back over my previous posts in this thread. I think you may have confused my responses with somebody else's.”

Cute to see I got your back up.
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