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"Polyamorous is a posh word for immorality"
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dtorre
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by niwdeness:
“*SIMPLIFICATION ALERT*”

But I suppose this doesn't apply to your other thread about all conservatives being stupid
niwdeness
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by dtorre:
“But I suppose this doesn't apply to your other thread about all conservatives being stupid ”

Scientific research shows that the general tendency is that they are less intelligent.

Of course, all scientific research can be criticised.
dtorre
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by niwdeness:
“Scientific research shows that the general tendency is that they are less intelligent.

Of course, all scientific research can be criticised.”

It can also be censored when the scientific findings are considered 'non-politically correct' therefore having a pro-left bias
niwdeness
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by dtorre:
“It can also be censored when the scientific findings are considered 'non-politically correct' therefore having a pro-left bias”

Everything is open to bias.

However I'd also like to see a source for what you just said.
KT_Dog
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by Littlegreen42:
“As proven by this thread, we all have different and sometimes opposing views and should respect them.”

I disagree
niwdeness
26-05-2015
Knowledge is knowing that you don't know anything.
GibsonSG
26-05-2015
I agree with him as it happens. Polyamorous or 'polyphonic' as we call it in our house, conjures up the thought of someone who is selfish and likes to sample many 'goods' at once. Making up a name doesn't change it.
dtorre
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by niwdeness:
“Everything is open to bias.

However I'd also like to see a source for what you just said.”

Are you having trouble finding a search engine? 'Controversial science censored', etc
GibsonSG
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by dtorre:
“But I suppose this doesn't apply to your other thread about all conservatives being stupid ”

The fm has a point there.
niwdeness
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by dtorre:
“Are you having trouble finding a search engine? 'Controversial science censored', etc”

If it is important to you to explain it to me then you should find the source.
dtorre
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by niwdeness:
“If it is important to you to explain it to me then you should find the source.”

You said that you would like the source, feel free to use a search engine, I've given you the ground work. For someone who doesn't like anti-intellectualism, you don't seem too eager to research (unless it supports your own agenda apparently)
little-monster
26-05-2015
He said it in a very judgemental way. In a slight old fashioned way

I don't see as Immoral at all.

I wonder what else he see's as immoral. I bet behind the scenes he isn't keen on homosexuality either and likely would vote against gay marriage.
niwdeness
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by dtorre:
“You said that you would like the source, feel free to use a search engine, I've given you the ground work. For someone who doesn't like anti-intellectualism, you don't seem too eager to research (unless it supports your own agenda apparently)”

If I want to provide a source for something I am trying to convey I will find one.
JanisElizabeth
26-05-2015
Everyone has their own moral compass. Morality is a very personal thing in my view and if you are comfortable in yourself about your behaviour then it's not up to anyone else to decide whether you are moral or immoral.
dtorre
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by niwdeness:
“If I want to provide a source for something I am trying to convey I will find one.”

And if you want a source for something you demand others go and find it for you
niwdeness
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by dtorre:
“And if you want a source for something you demand others go and find it for you”

This is boring. Have the last word if you want.
Karen_Annanina
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by Dext:
“No, it's more moral to be monogamous and stay faithful to your partner”

This is the perfect misunderstanding of polyamory. There isn't one partner to be faithful to, and in polyamorous relationships, no one is "cheating".

As far as morality goes, polyamorous relationships are not even PRIMARILY about sex, although sex will often be involved. These are primarily loving, intimate, emotionally rich relationships, above and beyond friendship.

Polyamorous people in my experience are no less moral than anyone else, and are extremely serious and self-reflective about their lifestyle. To call them "sl*ts" and "sl*gs" is, quite literally, ignorant.
dtorre
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by niwdeness:
“This is boring. Have the last word if you want.”

I can see why you're bored, your original plan was to spout off a load of leftist opinions while we gather around to listen to your 'wisdom' but when others start picking holes in it, you're not interested in listening. Thanks for the last word anyway, very generous. Let's see if you mean it
niwdeness
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by dtorre:
“I can see why you're bored, your original plan was to spout off a load of leftist opinions while we gather around to listen to your 'wisdom' but when others start picking holes in it, you're not interested in listening. Thanks for the last word anyway, very generous. Let's see if you mean it”

left right, black white.
dtorre
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by dtorre:
“Thanks for the last word anyway, very generous. Let's see if you mean it”

GibsonSG
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by Karen_Annanina:
“This is the perfect misunderstanding of polyamory. There isn't one partner to be faithful to, and in polyamorous relationships, no one is "cheating".

As far as morality goes, polyamorous relationships are not even PRIMARILY about sex, although sex will often be involved. These are primarily loving, intimate, emotionally rich relationships, above and beyond friendship.

Polyamorous people in my experience are no less moral than anyone else, and are extremely serious and self-reflective about their lifestyle. To call them "sl*ts" and "sl*gs" is, quite literally, ignorant.”

I'm sorry but most of what you have just said makes no sense. Alex Comfort who wrote "The Joy of Sex" commented after experimentation in various fields, that multiple partner scenarios don't work. The reason for that is - according to his observations - humans beings can't truly separate themselves emotionally or psychologically from monogamy. In short one or more people in such relationships form bonds that would normally require exclusivity. He also noted that none of the relationships were likely to last long term or be ultimately be satisfying.

So pretty it up how ever you like polyamorism goes against human nature, and is about the selfishness of one or more people who like to get around.
barclay55
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by GibsonSG:
“I'm sorry but most of what you have just said makes no sense. Alex Comfort who wrote "The Joy of Sex" commented after experimentation in various fields, that multiple partner scenarios don't work. The reason for that is - according to his observations - humans beings can't truly separate themselves emotionally or psychologically from monogamy. In short one or more people in such relationships form bonds that would normally require exclusivity. He also noted that none of the relationships were likely to last long term or be ultimately be satisfying.

So pretty it up how ever you like polyamorism goes against human nature, and is about the selfishness of one or more people who lie to get around.”

So DS:BB, Alex Comfort has written this in a book. You have been told, and on her exit, the police should ensure Jade reads it and reshapes her thoughts accordingly.

The book was first published 43 years ago. Like Lieutenant Pigeon also from 1972, the world has moved on.

if you dont know who Alex Comfort and Lieutenant Pigeon are, exactly.
momoriro
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by Alrightmate:
“Isn't it more moral to be honest with people, and more immoral to be monogamous and cheat on your partner?”

Excellent point, yes it's good she's honest about it, giving people a choice to avoid her if they couldn't cope with an open relationship.
wotnot
26-05-2015
Originally Posted by GibsonSG:
“So pretty it up how ever you like polyamorism goes against human nature, and is about the selfishness of one or more people who like to get around.”

I find it really odd that people feel that anyone's life choices, as long as they are within the law, need justifying.

If a person wishes to sleep with more than one partner and are open and honest about that and up front with their sexual partners I see nothing wrong with those actions at all.
LMAO
26-05-2015
Polyamourous may (or may not) be a real condition/life choice, but Jade certainly isn`t it. She has read it somewhere & thought it would make her seem interesting, but when she was put on the spot to define exactly what it meant, everything she said about herself completely contradicted what it would mean to be polyamourous, She then tried to justify that & made herself look like a total idiot.
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