I don't see what the issue is as long as he is being safe
So Aaron has slept with over 200 men?
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To be fair, he ought to slow down.. The sphincter can only take so much... He might end up prolapsing and that ain't pretty....
Yeah that's not something i support... i don't care if it's judgemental or not. I believe intimacy to be something more special than doing it with many people. To me three to five is considered a lot.
Originally Posted by ccosmiclove:
“You slept with Aaron?”
“You slept with Aaron?”
Yes I did, recently. And he has a problem with kissing because he is scared of intimacy now. It happens when you have a lot of sex where there isn't s proper emotional connection. Intimacy becomes something you're afraid of, and you can have sex but not kiss.
Originally Posted by onfencewithrach:
“Yeah that's not something i support... i don't care if it's judgemental or not. I believe intimacy to be something more special than doing it with many people. To me three to five is considered a lot.”
“Yeah that's not something i support... i don't care if it's judgemental or not. I believe intimacy to be something more special than doing it with many people. To me three to five is considered a lot.”
I appreciate what you're saying but three to five certainly is not a lot. I'm afraid you'll be in a minority with that opinion.
Originally Posted by BB Informant:
“Yes I did, recently. And he has a problem with kissing because he is scared of intimacy now. It happens when you have a lot of sex where there isn't s proper emotional connection. Intimacy becomes something you're afraid of, and you can have sex but not kiss.”
“Yes I did, recently. And he has a problem with kissing because he is scared of intimacy now. It happens when you have a lot of sex where there isn't s proper emotional connection. Intimacy becomes something you're afraid of, and you can have sex but not kiss.”
Don't you think that's maybe a sign that the excessive amount of sexual partners may be adversely affecting him?
Originally Posted by BB Informant:
“Yes I did, recently. And he has a problem with kissing because he is scared of intimacy now. It happens when you have a lot of sex where there isn't s proper emotional connection. Intimacy becomes something you're afraid of, and you can have sex but not kiss.”
“Yes I did, recently. And he has a problem with kissing because he is scared of intimacy now. It happens when you have a lot of sex where there isn't s proper emotional connection. Intimacy becomes something you're afraid of, and you can have sex but not kiss.”
Do you think it's right to be on here discussing him in this way? We see him on the telly - what he wants us to see and know. Personally I don't want to hear about his private/sex life without his prior permission.
It isn't right IMO.
Originally Posted by Penny Crayon:
“Do you think it's right to be on here discussing him in this way? We see him on the telly - what he wants us to see and know. Personally I don't want to hear about his private/sex life without his prior permission.
It isn't right IMO.”
“Do you think it's right to be on here discussing him in this way? We see him on the telly - what he wants us to see and know. Personally I don't want to hear about his private/sex life without his prior permission.
It isn't right IMO.”
Exactly, it's intrusive if true.
Originally Posted by BB Informant:
“I'm his age and I've slept with well over 100 since I was 20, Aaron being one of them. I'm not a slag, I'm always safe, and I just enjoy sex. Don't forget it's much more readily available in the gay world, rightly or wrongly. I don't see an issue with it if everyone is safe!”
“I'm his age and I've slept with well over 100 since I was 20, Aaron being one of them. I'm not a slag, I'm always safe, and I just enjoy sex. Don't forget it's much more readily available in the gay world, rightly or wrongly. I don't see an issue with it if everyone is safe!”
Well quite. In my experience the men, and women, who do engage in a lot of social or recreational sex are very aware of the risks and are therefore more responsible in their behaviour. It's often the people who are less conscious about their sex lives who are less responsible.
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