He hated it!

That's why he went to bed straight away and didn't carry on taking to Aaron.

He looked more embarrassed then enjoying it.

He was embarrassed but nothing more sinister than that. Bit of an overreaction there.

It is emotionally uncomfortable when someone persistantly invades your personel space.

Then why didn't Joel go to bed and stop taking to Aaron

If that was eg. Chloe, Harriet, Jade or one of the other girls + it was one of the boys i bet they wouldn't find it so amusing +be yelling sexual harassment

He wasn't emotional at all just annoyed and embarrassed. There was no sense of danger or aggression in that. Of course it was obnoxious behaviour but it was meant to annoy not terrorise.

and here we get the victim shaming.

How so?

He shouldn't have done it, it's that simple.

True. But as he did do it did he deserve to be booted out.

Part of the personal space that was being invaded was Joel's bed.

Who is going to climb into a bed when they've got a naked person thrusting themselves at them?

He was quite clearly uncomfortable by it, so it's no wonder he didn't get into bed. I wouldn't have either.

Because even if Joel was laughing at the time, you could visibly see he was uncomfortable by it all.

Even if Joel hadn't been called to the DR, Aaron still should have gone.

Get over your medieval views and stop victim shaming.

Precisely.

Yes. If a bloke had been doing that to a girl, Harriet would have laid him out with one punch, not egging him on.

Effectively saying he was asking for it. What a sad outcome to what happened.

I thought he looked uncomfortable through most of it...with all the housemates looking on/laughing I don't think Joel knew just how to handle it.

It was unacceptable. Aaron clearly crossed a line. He should have had more sense, even though the others were encouraging him in his behaviour. Like others have said, we wouldn't put up with that if it was a female he was sexually harassing.

I agree. I wonder if for example Cris got himself out and started trying to hug Harriet 1) if Harriet would be pissing herself and 2) people would be questioning the decision.

Like he said, that sort of thing has never happened to him before. He didn't know how to react, he was obviously shocked and embarrassed. All the housemates laughing didn't help, I suppose that made him feel even more awkward.

He shouldn't have done it. All the housemates egged him on too like Nick saying "Show him", so it's an awkward situation. I think Joel should've went to diary room straight away if he was so bothered though.

Yeah it was clear he was uncomfortable, the other housemates shouldn't of egged him on to do it more.

Joel was extremely uncomfortable and didn't know how to react,it didn't help with the HM egging Aaron on Harriet was the worst but they all thought it was funny and acceptable because it wasn't happening to them. They all need to be told what's acceptable and what's not seeing as they can't work it out for themselves.

I liked Aaron as a HM and I don't think he is a horrible person but YES he deserved to be booted out he crossed the line on a national TV show after being given fair warning before entering the house. HMs are all trying to get on with each other and look good on tv so when someone crosses the line they are making it hard for the other players since they have to follow the rules and not react so that their place in the house is safe. The whole situation is a mess it is BBs responsibility to fix it and booting Aaron out is right, he screwed up he lost the game.