This isn't a victim blaming thread. Joel felt uncomfortable, I have no doubt about that and it wasn't fair for him to feel like that and to feel harassed. This thread isn't about proving Joel wrong and Aaron right.
It's more that when I was watching the show I thought Joel looked a bit exasperated with Aaron, as he has done previously. Part of me even thinks Joel may be gay and I don't like how Aaron is trying to out him. But I didn't realise just how much it was effecting Joel and just how uncomfortable he felt.
I was just wondering what everyone else's opinion was. Had you read the signs right and knew Joel would respond to BB with those feelings or were you surprised and just how uncomfortable he was being made to feel?
Again it's not a victim blaming thread and I don't want people to have a go at each other for what they genuinely think or believe. It's more it's opened my eyes a bit to possibly see how I could mis read signals of what someone deems appropriate, which is why I sympathise with Aaron but in no way does that mean I think Joel is in the wrong
It's more that when I was watching the show I thought Joel looked a bit exasperated with Aaron, as he has done previously. Part of me even thinks Joel may be gay and I don't like how Aaron is trying to out him. But I didn't realise just how much it was effecting Joel and just how uncomfortable he felt.
I was just wondering what everyone else's opinion was. Had you read the signs right and knew Joel would respond to BB with those feelings or were you surprised and just how uncomfortable he was being made to feel?
Again it's not a victim blaming thread and I don't want people to have a go at each other for what they genuinely think or believe. It's more it's opened my eyes a bit to possibly see how I could mis read signals of what someone deems appropriate, which is why I sympathise with Aaron but in no way does that mean I think Joel is in the wrong



