Originally Posted by kaycee:
“BIB: You are right. However, the real sad thing is that when homophobic people object to the idea of same-sex couples dancing, they are nearly always thinking in terms of 2 males dancing together. Women have been dancing together ever since dancing was created. Medallist competitions virtually always include events for all-female couples, from kids to adults ..... Of course, this is because girls outnumber the boys to such an extent that without all-female partnerships, there would be few couples dancing.
This doesn't alter the fact that go to ANY social dance and invariably there will be ladies dancing together, & no one blinks an eye-lid. If 2 males get up to dance together, you can almost hear the " Oh No no no, we can't have that; make them leave......."
Double standards or what?”
I've read all your comments Kaycee and I agree, people with real-world dance experience are going to be way less bothered by a same sex Strictly pairing - we're used to it!
It's pretty common in Lindy Hop for two chaps to dance together at a social dance, and no one would want them to leave (they are usually advanced dancers!) but I have had to stop two women breaking up an all-male dance partnership - they felt it was unfair that two primary role leaders were dancing together when there were more followers in the room and that entitled them to cut in, which is clearly bad manners. No one is *entitled* to dance with anyone and any decision between two dancers to dance together should be respected (two men dancing is not 'a waste' and two women dancing are not 'leftovers').
(There is some footage on youtube somewhere of me and a female friend dancing and switching the lead and follow back and forth. I'd show y'all, but we are actually gossiping all the way through and had no idea the camera was there, it doesn't exactly show us at our best

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In terms of Strictly, I think that the pro dancer should continue in the role they have always done, and the celebs choice should be based on whether they want to lead or follow, not if they want to dance with a man or a woman. If they want a pro dancer that takes the opposite role to the traditional gender expectation, they should employ someone who dances that role competitively (example, celeb female leader and female pro follower or pro male leader and celeb male follower, fine and dandy. But the other way around it does becomes less about dancing and more about the celebs sexuality, real or implied).
Here is some of my favourite vintage dance footage, 1939 World Fair in NY - Lindy, Jitterbug, Foxtrot, Jive, some breakaway vernacular Jazz... - almost all the dancers are women. I'm pretty certain they aren't all gay
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WB28EIKC4DE