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saying stop it while laughing away doesn't count
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and they had been getting closer that past 24 hours.
This video was posted Wednesday morning... Joel jokes at the end that if Aaron left on Friday, he would cry and admit his "underlying feelings"... Now, if Aaron wasn't that emotionally astute to those type of things - could he have believed that to be true? When you consider Nick and his 'banter' with Jade, could you imagine him, after a few drinks, stripping off, thrusting his dick at her and trying to jump on her as being in anyway OK. (would it still be banter?) It appears that Aaron is a bit Jekyll and Hyde between that clip and when he has had a few drinks, when he becomes a menace and a pest. |
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Good....boot her out and nip this showmance crap in the bud
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I'm sure if one of her gang was getting harassed.. by a naked Joel...she'd go mad.
In fact, if it's anyone's fault (apart from Aaron's) It's Sarah's, Harriet's and the rest that sat there laughing and encouraging Aaron. If she'd stepped in, maybe her mate would still be there. |
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The problem here is that some people are calling Joel a 'victim'. Which implies that a crime has been committed.
Even in BB's reprimanding of Aaron they spoke of how his actions could be seen to be offensive, they didn't tell Aaron that he had committed a crime. I watched Joel throughout the interaction again, and he was smiling pretty much throughout the incident, and at points he was sort of laughing himself. So I think you'd have to give the other housemates some slack for thinking that Joel wasn't as distressed as he made out afterwards if at the time he appeared to be playing along with the joke. It's how it would have looked to them. If people describe Joel as a victim, that throws up all sorts of connotations which may not be a reliable way of seeing the situation. Quote:
And what also makes me skeptical is that at times in there Joel has not been a shrinking violet when it comes to making comments to other housemates. He has very much shown an assertive side when telling other housemates to their faces that he doesn't like them. So this idea that he has an inability to display assertiveness when required doesn't ring true with me.
See him in the debating task? he was great. He came across as very assertive and more than capable of holding his own. I am not victim blaming because there is no victim here, just a drunk person who went too far in a joke, partly because he was egged on. Aaron deserved to be warned and he owed Joel an apology but he did not deserve to be ejected.I don't think the ejection did Joel any favours either. As the poster above said Joel had no problem being assertive with other Hms and even telling them he hated them. Saying he hoped Jade would be scalded in the bath.He is not shy about expressing his feelings.Why could he not have slammed down Aaron the same way. I can see Sarahs point and it makes me wonder about Joel. Why the dressing up if he is so determinedly straight, I think Aarons flamboyance was a threat to him as its the part he wants to play.I feel the whole incident has been blown out of proportion here and on BB. |
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I'm sure if one of her gang was getting harassed.. by a naked Joel...she'd go mad.
In fact, if it's anyone's fault (apart from Aaron's) It's Sarah's, Harriet's and the rest that sat there laughing and encouraging Aaron. If she'd stepped in, maybe her mate would still be there. |
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If it wasn't a sure thing before, this will definitely see Sarah evicted.
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I'm saying Sarah isn't. Her motivation is she wants Joel out as he's not on her "team" and she wanted Aaron in because he is on her "team". She's quite manipulative. IMO
I'm not a group think person. I know what is right and wrong and you nor Veri nor anyone for that matter will sway me in this matter. The gay man whose bedded 200 partners had no right to invade the teenagers personal space. That is my final word on this matter. Aaron was totally wrong and I'm content that he was removed. i'm not trying to sway you. remember you were the one that came to me with your arguments not me. i never disagreed with you that aaron should be removed so i dont know where thats come from. you're the worst kind of poster to reply to on messageboards because you make assumptions or straight up lie about what the other poster is supposedly thinking about. thats like the 4th instance in this thread you've done it |
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people blaming sarah shes lives with them shes seen what shes seen everyones going to kick her out over a little missunderstanding? she didn't flash joel
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Im falling out of like with Sarah.
She tells Nick to stay out of her row with Joel but she stuck her nose in to Eileen's discussion with Kieran. |
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sarah was right about one thing, and the most important part:
joel did not effectively get his message of No to aaron clearly enough. you do not smirk if you want to be serious and you do not say it in a nicey jokingly half hearted way. if he wants to get into politics he'll have to be a much better communicator. what aaron did couldnt have happened to any other hm besides maybe nick because everyone else can deliver the message properly It is possible he did not want it to turn nasty and so did not use an angry tone. That doesn't mean he was OK with it really. |
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I'm sure if one of her gang was getting harassed.. by a naked Joel...she'd go mad.
In fact, if it's anyone's fault (apart from Aaron's) It's Sarah's, Harriet's and the rest that sat there laughing and encouraging Aaron. If she'd stepped in, maybe her mate would still be there. It's clear some of them think very little of Joel as this was the 3rd or 4th time some of them have been egging Aaron on to do something to Joel. I'm just glad Joel let BB know he was uncomfortable and the other housemates have had a severe wake-up call. The silly gits. |
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If joel had got really angry, arron may have carried on using his sexuality to goad him but everyone else would have been clear it was unwanted provocation.
Im not saying Joel was sending mixed signals, it just wasn't an absolute one. Joel's a complex character, obviously confident but then also very unconfident in that situation. It will be interesting to see what the actual conversation was. Whether Sarah was implying Joel was asking for it or he should have been more assertive earlier. |
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oh ok so you made that first accusation and now you keep listing new accusations of me to things i never said.
stop trolling 1. i dont think certain people are legit targets in the house 2. and i dont pretend it never happened 3. and i'm not excusing it. nobody thought joel was serious when telling him to stop. not All the other hms in the room, and not bb until much later. that is clearly joels own fault at that part in not being forceful and clear enough in what he was trying to say. words and commands mean nothing unless you can communicate them properly to other people and is understood by them. look at other responses in this thread like veri's post 69 for instance. or even the post just before mine here. they're saying what i;m saying: that sarah was right about joel not getting his message through to other people. |
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So because he didn't say it forcefully enough it's his fault that Aaron continued and the others egged him on? I think Sarah is trying to deflect away from taking any responsibility for her own actions and blaming Joel is the easy option.
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Joel just isn't experienced enough in that way to read sexual advances and in turn stop them. I think the reason he didn't kiss Aaron, wasn't because he didn't want to - it's probably because he hasn't kissed anybody before.
What Sarah is insinuating here, is that because Joel carries on (after Aaron's removal) dressing in women's clothes etc... he must have led Aaron on in some way? Hmmm |
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