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Old 03-07-2016, 14:08
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I like Scott, I wouldn't mind if he won - but I don't like Kady she doesn't deserve to win. So Scott hope you don't win now!


Makes me chuckle that he's the educated one out of him and his brothers. He seems just as dim and inarticulate as them.
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Old 03-07-2016, 14:15
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I like Scott, I wouldn't mind if he won - but I don't like Kady she doesn't deserve to win. So Scott hope you don't win now!
Or if Scott and Kady won - hopefully he would steal the winnings! I wouldn't be surprised, I think he would be so paranoid that she would steal that he would!
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Old 03-07-2016, 15:21
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My 'normal' may not be yours, but the issue of sex in public is one that has to be considered at in the context of social mores rather than individual viewpoints. It does not matter if you and I disagree on a personal level, the fact is that as a society we view the act of intercourse as a personal and private matter and it is a criminal act of public indecency if people have sex in public. Before I get jumped on I do realise that this does not apply here.

I think Terry and Emma were disrespectful to the others and both lack self respect. Don't really care if that makes me judgmental or not.
I tend to agree - I fully expected sex of some description and it does not offend me - I usually put the kettle on cos it really does bore me to watch. I felt sorry for Emma in a way - she had thought through the day about doing this in this way, for what reason I can only guess - I think it was for this exact reason - getting talked about, airtime and what will come after. I feel sorry that this type of behaviour gets you noticed and may ultimately put bucks in your bank, but she wasn't coerced, it was entirely her choice. I didn't get the feeling this was about lust love or such like - it felt like a well planned encounter.
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Old 03-07-2016, 15:42
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I don't understand this "respect for yourself" cliche which is often used in a judgmental way regarding sex. What does it actually mean?
I'm afraid if you don't understand the concept then I have neither the time nor the inclination to explain it to you.
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Old 03-07-2016, 15:45
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They are both equally to blame and neither of them has any self respect.
I agree with that, it's just that "lads" have little or none when it comes to sex (and yes, I'm aware that I'm generalising greatly here) but women are held to a higher standard. A double standard still exists whether you like it or not. A woman doesn't need to lower herself to a man's level in order to enjoy a full and varied sex life. I have no problem at all with her having sex with Terry or anyone else, just as I had no problem with Zara having sex with Alex, it's the manner in which they did it and the reasons they did it I have a problem with. Young, attractive women don't need to have sex they don't really want in order to please/attract/appease other people.
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Old 03-07-2016, 16:04
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I like Scott, I wouldn't mind if he won - but I don't like Kady she doesn't deserve to win. So Scott hope you don't win now!
I quite enjoy her, she makes a good villainess!!
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Old 03-07-2016, 16:15
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I agree with that, it's just that "lads" have little or none when it comes to sex (and yes, I'm aware that I'm generalising greatly here) but women are held to a higher standard. A double standard still exists whether you like it or not. A woman doesn't need to lower herself to a man's level in order to enjoy a full and varied sex life. I have no problem at all with her having sex with Terry or anyone else, just as I had no problem with Zara having sex with Alex, it's the manner in which they did it and the reasons they did it I have a problem with. Young, attractive women don't need to have sex they don't really want in order to please/attract/appease other people.


Are you suggesting the sex was non consensual?? How do you know they didn't 'really want it'??

Just wow.
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Old 03-07-2016, 16:22
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Me too. I think Scott and Kady are actually my favourite couple now, which says something about how slim the pickings are!! Don't think any of them deserve the £100k (or however much it is) to be perfectly honest. Cara is my favourite girl but I can't stand the way Nathan speaks to her so I wouldn't choose them as a couple.
The two models who appear in the Superdrug ads before LI appear to be a more genuine couple than any of those in LI.
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Old 03-07-2016, 16:54
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Are you suggesting the sex was non consensual?? How do you know they didn't 'really want it'??

Just wow.
I didn't say that, nor was I suggesting that and I resent you putting words in my mouth. Just wow.

I'm suggesting that SOME women have sex with men for reasons other than sexual desire. It's my opinion, and only my opinion, that both Zara and Emma MADE CHOICES to have sex for reasons other than sexual desire. It's my opinion that, based only on what we've been shown on tv, that Zara and Emma MAY have regretted those choices. Certainly Zara has said so.
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Old 03-07-2016, 17:02
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I didn't say that, nor was I suggesting that and I resent you putting words in my mouth. Just wow.

I'm suggesting that SOME women have sex with men for reasons other than sexual desire. It's my opinion, and only my opinion, that both Zara and Emma MADE CHOICES to have sex for reasons other than sexual desire. It's my opinion that, based only on what we've been shown on tv, that Zara and Emma MAY have regretted those choices. Certainly Zara has said so.


You said they had sex they didn't really want. No one is putting words in your mouth. & of course Zara regrets losing her crown from an antiquated beauty contest.

You've dug your own grave and you're digging it even deeper with this response. Don't get all passive aggressive because you've been caught out on your own - deeply questionable - words.
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Old 03-07-2016, 17:36
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What I would like to know is, is "sex" all we are being shown? Do you think maybe the rest of the edited bits are full of the islanders discussing Politics - Climate Change - University fees etc etc. I went off BB because all they seemed to want to show was arguments and abusive comments - it then becomes like a self fulfilling prophecy, the contestants start acting in the way the producers want and we never get to see a full rounded individual.
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Old 03-07-2016, 18:31
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You said they had sex they didn't really want. No one is putting words in your mouth. & of course Zara regrets losing her crown from an antiquated beauty contest.

You've dug your own grave and you're digging it even deeper with this response. Don't get all passive aggressive because you've been caught out on your own - deeply questionable - words.
Prume, you really were putting words in Wolfs mouth there.

It's about intent, motive.

My GF sometimes makes this hot veggie curry. Sometimes i don't really want it, but she's went to a lot of effort. So i'll eat it.
It doesn't mean i don't enjoy it once i get going. But it also doesn't mean i won't wake up with regret, and only a very sore a*se-hole for company.

While i'm on topic, FFS Porkchop take a chill pill.

In fact, can we all just Lighten the F*ck Up and Chill The F*ck Out.

#metaphor-man
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Old 03-07-2016, 18:34
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Prume, you really were putting words in Wolfs mouth there.

It's about intent, motive.

My GF sometimes makes this hot veggie curry. Sometimes i don't really want it, but she's went to a lot of effort. So i'll eat it.
It doesn't mean i don't enjoy it once i get going. But it also doesn't mean i won't wake up with regret, and only a very sore a*se-hole for company.

While i'm on topic, FFS Porkchop take a chill pill.

In fact, can we all just Calm The F*ck Down and Chill The F*ck Out.

#metaphor-man

Nope.

Keep digging that hole.
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Old 03-07-2016, 18:40
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Nope.

Keep digging that hole.
I will.

I'm not just going to leave you rotting here out in the open.
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Old 03-07-2016, 18:47
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I will.

I'm not just going to leave you rotting here out in the open.


Thanks.

But you're still unable to argue the point properly. Your friend said that the women had sex they really didn't want.

You provided a lame analogy about curry.

But really - it's all still nonsense.
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Old 03-07-2016, 18:52
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Thanks.

But you're still unable to argue the point properly. Your friend said that the women had sex they really didn't want.

You provided a lame analogy about curry.

But really - it's all still nonsense.
Sorry......puffff......can't talk......still digging that hole.
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Old 03-07-2016, 18:56
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Sorry......puffff......can't talk......still digging that hole.


Love ya
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Old 03-07-2016, 19:03
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FFS Prume, you should have said something earlier. I'm flattered, but TBH i've got something going with Tinkerbelle and Sofakat at the moment.
I won't say who's who, but i go to one for the bewbs and the big booty, then at the end of the day i go home to old Doris.
But if you want to get something together on the side, we don't have to tell them.
Although, if they keep farting and calling me bruv you should probably just go ahead and choose me at re-coupling.
At the end of the day, it's Love Island. Not Friend Island.

Peace.

#ishouldbesolucky
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Old 03-07-2016, 19:06
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FFS Prume, you should have said something earlier. I'm flattered, but TBH i've got something going with Tinkerbelle and Sofakat at the moment.
I won't say who's who, but i go to one for the bewbs and the big booty, then at the end of the day i go home to old Doris.
But if you want to get something together on the side, we don't have to tell them.
Although, if they keep farting and calling me bruv you should probably just go ahead and choose me at re-coupling.
At the end of the day, it's Love Island. Not Friend Island.

Peace.
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Old 03-07-2016, 19:34
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Prume, you really were putting words in Wolfs mouth there.

It's about intent, motive.

My GF sometimes makes this hot veggie curry. Sometimes i don't really want it, but she's went to a lot of effort. So i'll eat it.
It doesn't mean i don't enjoy it once i get going. But it also doesn't mean i won't wake up with regret, and only a very sore a*se-hole for company.

While i'm on topic, FFS Porkchop take a chill pill.

In fact, can we all just Lighten the F*ck Up and Chill The F*ck Out.

#metaphor-man
FFS Prume, you should have said something earlier. I'm flattered, but TBH i've got something going with Tinkerbelle and Sofakat at the moment.
I won't say who's who, but i go to one for the bewbs and the big booty, then at the end of the day i go home to old Doris.
But if you want to get something together on the side, we don't have to tell them.
Although, if they keep farting and calling me bruv you should probably just go ahead and choose me at re-coupling.
At the end of the day, it's Love Island. Not Friend Island.

Peace.

#ishouldbesolucky
Hahahahaha. LOVE IT!!
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Old 03-07-2016, 19:40
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They are both equally to blame and neither of them has any self respect.
I agree with you. Don't agree with Porkchop though. Sorry Porkchop!! 😚

That's what makes this world great. We all have an opinion and we don't have to agree on what everyone else thinks.

Some people on this thread thought the act was diagraceful and showed no self respect (I am one of those). Some think it's ok.
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Old 03-07-2016, 19:55
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I agree with you. Don't agree with Porkchop though. Sorry Porkchop!! 😚

That's what makes this world great. We all have an opinion and we don't have to agree on what everyone else thinks.

Some people on this thread thought the act was diagraceful and showed no self respect (I am one of those). Some think it's ok.
It's fine to have an opinion on sex on TV, of course. But to have an opinion on someone's lack of self-respect is questionable. I think they do have self-respect. Live your life the way you want; that is respecting yourself.
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Old 03-07-2016, 19:59
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I agree with you. Don't agree with Porkchop though. Sorry Porkchop!! 😚

That's what makes this world great. We all have an opinion and we don't have to agree on what everyone else thinks.

Some people on this thread thought the act was diagraceful and showed no self respect (I am one of those). Some think it's ok.
I agree with you. Terry and Emma are both hitting the headlines for the wrong reasons. Maybe this will take the heat of Zara.

Rooty, you have more people on the go than Terry . Sorry have not yet learned how to multi post. That last post summed up the islanders to a tea.
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Old 03-07-2016, 20:08
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It's fine to have an opinion on sex on TV, of course. But to have an opinion on someone's lack of self-respect is questionable. I think they do have self-respect. Live your life the way you want; that is respecting yourself.
Spot on
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Old 03-07-2016, 21:03
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