Originally Posted by heresitting:
“You might feel like that now... but just picture how living with women like that is likely to turn out...
You won't be able to do right for wrong.
It will always be your fault.
You'll feel as though you're walking on eggshells all the time trying to guess their next move.
You'll spend your life focusing on their needs, not yours as part of a couple.
... and if you're thinking "well, at least there's always the sex...". No, there won't be - because that will all form part of the emotional game-playing
and in the end, they're going to leave you anyway for someone who is as emotionally damaged as are they... and then they can play their silly manipulative games together.”
That's an interesting perspective on it... i've rarely seen it put from that angle.
From the perspective of someone who doesn't get the girl in the end, and has to sit by and watch jerks and douches get the girl... it would be nice to get the girl and be with the girl though. Speaking from a movie point of view how the shy geeky nerd sometimes gets the girl in the end.
I see what you're saying though that a relationship with these type of girls might not be the best thing similar to the relationship with these type of guys. It makes some sense such as to why would females be attracted to these type of guys, some of them must have deep rooted issues and what not probably with their fathers or family life.
Being alone isn't the greatest either. I'm not sure which option would be more preferable.
I'm not trying to make it out as a desperate thing of wanting any girl no matter what, i'm just saying some of these girls going with these types of guys seem pretty awesome and attractive to me, issues or not.

I mean most people have some kind of issues anyway.
[Sam is not one of them just for me personally i don't find her interesting or attractive]
EDIT: The previous post i can't edit anymore.
To further explain the name... it's meant to be that there was much attempt to tear Rachel down about being on the fence and the name is to say i support and stand with Rachel wherever and whenever. I stand/sit beside and with Rachel on the fence because i stand with/beside her in the face of adversity or whatever is against her.