Originally Posted by lollipop1995:
“can't believe they threw Cindy out!”
Neither can I with what she knows but I suppose Ian's now frightened her into believing that if she says something now she'll be in trouble too

She's young, she'll not know that he's talking shit.
Originally Posted by eastendersboi:
“I believe what Bobby and Jane did is more unacceptable compared to what cindy has done and Ian can't forgive her for that but can forgive his son for essentially being responsible for his daughters death”
Bamboozling isn't it? Ian was just annoyed because his Lucy replacement and Jane's new toy had been taken away. What a b@stard he was trying to bully Cindy into handing over Beth to them.
Originally Posted by Mormon Girl:
“I agree with this. Hopefully when Kathy returns she can make Ian see that Jane is toxic.”
I agree that Jane is toxic (remember what Denise said? She pretends she's everyone's friend but she's not?) but Ian isn't exactly an innocent bystander here. He's covering up his own daughter's murder to keep Jane happy as I don't believe it's just to protect Bobby with him. Ian doesn't want to be alone. He's being nice to Bobby now because basically he's all he's got left but while Lucy and Peter were on the scene Bobby was just the spare part who was effectively ignored, no way was he as favoured as the twins - or even Stephen IMO.
Originally Posted by duckylucky:
“I am gobsmacked at some posters defending Ian and Jane . They were disgraceful”
Totally agree. I know Cindy isn't the most likeable of kids but in this she has my full support. I can see why she'd want a clean break if she wants to give her daughter up and more importantly I can see why she wouldn't those two ghouls (and more importantly Bobby!) near her kid in a million years. She's a kid and they used everything in their arsenal to try and bully or guilt-trip her into handing Beth over (Ian was particularly vile with his threats).
Originally Posted by NickJordan:
“I couldn't stand the appalling emotional manipulation from Jane as Beth was being taken away. It was disgusting.”
Me neither. It's not Cindy's fault that Jane can't have a baby. Cindy had to make a decision based on what is best for her and Beth not be guilt-tripped by a woman who for no fault of Cindy's, can't have kids.
Originally Posted by Nefersitra:
“I can't say that what Jane is doing is right, but I can see her motivation and I do feel sorry for her.
Jane has always wanted to be a mother, to have a baby to love and bring up. She couldn't have a baby with her first husband because of his illness and then she was shot by Steven and had to have a hysterectomy. She lost the ability to have a child of her own.
Then Lucy got pregnant and Jane's hope of having a baby were raised only to be cruelly dashed when Ian helped Lucy get an abortion in secret. And now it's happened again with Beth, but what must be worse is this time, Jane's had time to bond with the baby.”
Indeed, I used to feel dreadfully sorry for Jane back then but she did end up adopting Bobby so she has a child now - and don't we know it! But once she picked up another woman's daughter, shoved her into a boot and callously dumped her on the common like a discarded crisp packet I went right off her. Saying that she'd carried her like a child? Crap, her first thought was to protect her own yet this was a girl she'd known since she was a child. She'd been her step-mother. She told Lucy around the time she was murdered that she made her life better (or WTTE) - yet she still did
that to her to protect her own brat. I just can't get my head round it, your child is only more important to
you, other people and their feelings matter. She let Ian and Peter go to hell and back and all explained away as 'mother's love'? Bull. As for Ian going along with it, I have no words. Put me off the pair of them, probably for life!
Originally Posted by Mormon Girl:
“But the thing is no EP will ever axe Ian he is a too much of an important character to loose.”
I'd be surprised if Ian was ever axed but there's always the chance that some producer will come along and 'want to make their mark'. I'd say he's safer than a lot of the actors but no one is totally safe on a soap. I hope they don't axe him mind, he's EE's Bill Roache/Ken Barlow now!
Originally Posted by B*witched:
“No way. I can't believe anyone would say that what Ian and Jane did for Bobby was normal. I can understand wanting to protect a young boy, but covering up a murder, disposing of a body on a cold dark common leaving her for strangers to find and lying to the police and everyone around them. That's hardy the actions of sane, rational people.
And as for Cindy, perhaps given time she might learn to accept Beth and love her, but right now she's not coping and insteading of helping and supporting her, Ian and Jane are railroading and guilt tripping a young girl who probably doesn't know what she wants.”
BIB: Cindy was struggling, of that there is no doubt but given time and opportunity she might have got there. Instead Jane and Ian took Beth on holiday but when they came back and Cindy was wanting to make the effort with her daughter (even though she admitted she hadn't missed her), feeding her etc they completely took. They destroyed an already fragile girls confidence in being a mother by bragging that Beth had a set routine now, settled for them now etc, made Cindy feel utterly useless and the fragile bond between Cindy and Beth was broken. By the ever so caring Beales who really have no bloomin' idea or empathy for anyone else!
(needless-to-say totally agree with your first paragraph!)
Originally Posted by vald:
“Best for who. She left Peter and Ian thinking that Lucy could have been raped and brutally murdered, that she was wandering around upset and angry because of them. She did it for herself, because she didn't want to lose her son, and blow everyone else.”
Exactly. The woman is a freak. I still can't get over the fact that she shagged Ian on that floor hours later. Seriously disturbed.