Originally Posted by shrinkingviolet:
“There is zero percent chance that a social worker in the real world wouldn't have spoken to Cindy alone, and they most certainly wouldn't threaten her and ignore her in the middle of a breakdown where it was pretty clear she was unhappy.
It's a pretty disgusting depiction of social workers, tbh.”
There's no way that Cindy would have been ignored and dismissed like that by any
decent social worker, no way. Once again EE disgustingly portray social workers as bad or good depending on the narrative they want to pursue, We were
meant to see it from Cindy's POV of 'no one is listening to me!' last night and EE cack-handedly made it happen. From the moment that the social worker stepped into the house asking Cindy how her exams were going (or WTTE) then talking right over her when she tried to answer we knew which way the land was lying - that Cindy had a genuine grievance and was correct that no one was listening to what
she wanted. Even after Cindy cracked up the social worker's bad attitude continued actually voicing the opinion that Cindy might do something to Beth. Absolutely pathetic portrayal of a social worker totally missing the crux of the matter, that the very young mother wasn't coping and wouldn't be able to cope with her child growing up in the house, she needed a clean break.
In the real world yes Cindy would be listened to if for no other reason than no adoption can happen without her say so but I didn't like the way the social worker was talking about Cindy almost being a danger to the child (utter rot!) and it made me wonder if they're going to attempt make Beth a ward of the court where a judge would make the final decision?
Originally Posted by Ell_Ren:
“With Ian's history of mental health difficulties and the abandoment of his family during a period of time, they wouldn't give Beth over so lightly. Did Ian receive medical care after his breakdown? If he did then the social worker would be aware, however if he didn't then they could probably get away with it. I don't know how Lucy would fit into it and Jane/Ian's history. They would delve deep into their histories which would flag up a LOT of discrepencies. I don't think alot of research has gone into the story.”
I agree. There's also no way that Ian's mental health wouldn't be taken into consideration and like
Vald says Ian and Jane aren't a stable couple who have been together a long time, they've repeatedly split up and got back together. They'd even be able to prove (from police records if nothing else) that Jane came back from Cardiff (or wherever she was) but walked back out taking Bobby with
days after Lucy was murdered and didn't stay to support Ian! Hardly the sign of a rock solid couple even if they are married
again now.
I doubt very much that Ian and Jane would get Beth in the real world without Cindy's approval (or they'd more likely start as foster parents leading to adoption). But like I say I'm a bit concerned now (or would be if it was real lol!) that they're going to try and portray Cindy as unstable now and take it out of her hands.
Originally Posted by Sunshine Sammy:
“I disagree. She does have somewhere else to go. You have to remember that Ian, Jane and Bobby are of no relation to her. Ian is her mothers ex husband who she tried to murder and divorced before she was born. She should be living with her mother or fathers family. I think Ian has been very kind to let her stay in the first place and I'm not an Ian fan!”
It looked like Cindy was on the phone to her Aunt last night desperately wanted to go back but her Aunt refused to let her so at the moment Cindy really has nowhere else to go. I agree it was good of Ian to take her in but I think he did so as she is
his children's half-sister and can hardly chuck her out again now - especially with what she knows!
But yes that social worker did my head in again when she mentioned Ian and Jane being Beth's 'family' - they don't share a drop of blood! Cindy is Ian's ward, she's his children's (Bobby aside) relative but not actually his or Jane's! I don't mean any disrespect to adoptive families or reconstituted step-families etc saying that, just that the social worker was talking as if Jane or Ian were a biological relative to Cindy and perhaps had a legitimate claim (emotionally if not lawfully) to Beth!