Originally Posted by muggins14:
“It's purely a personal opinion, in MY opinion you cannot be bored - it's a state of mind. There's always something to do, thoughts to think.”
Then your opinion that "Boredom doesn't exist" is incorrect. Perhaps you cannot be bored, but plenty of other people can be and sometimes are.
I don't know what you mean by "it's a state of mind". How would that mean it doesn't exist? You seem to be thinking that minds have states (so that something can be a "state of mind") but also that the states don't exist (so that boredom, which you say is a "state of mind", can be nonexistent).
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“When I was a teen my Dad would see me staring into space and say 'if you're bored, do something'. I would reply that I was not bored, I had my thoughts to entertain me 
Surely nobody should ever <-- never? be bored - there are books to read, films to watch, games to play, there's music to listen to, washing-up to do, letters to write, e-mails to send... whatever, there's always something that needs doing, something to do.”
Perhaps no one ever
should be bored; but that doesn't mean no one ever is, or that boredom doesn't exist.
Beides, when people talk of boredom in a BB context, they're usually saying it's the show that's boring them. That there are completely different things they could be doing instead of watching BB doesn't mean BB isn't boring or that they aren't bored when watching it.
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“Perhaps my definition of boredom is different. I would say, though, that I'm never bored in the 'there's nothing to do' kind of way. When people say they are bored, with regard to BB - how can they be, they choose to watch it, it's either entertaining you (in a pleasurable or an aggravating way ... in SOME way) or you turn it off, or find something else to watch. There's a plethora of channels available these days, plus the internet.”
You're conflating different issues. You say you're never bored in the "there's nothing to do" kind of way. Fine. Plenty of people are sometimes bored in that way; but if you're not, fine, you're not. But when people say they're bored in a BB context, they don't mean bored in the "there's nothing to do" kind of way; they don't mean there's nothing else they could do that would be interesting. Indeed, they're often
doing something else too, at the time (such as participating in this forum), which they find enjoyable or interesting.
Then you mix in yet another issue by "how can they be (bored), they choose to watch it ...", as if you think they're lying or deluded about finding BB boring.
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“If a person's easily bored, doesn't that say something about their state of mind, that the choose to be bored rather than finding something that doesn't bore them?
In a world with more options than any other time in even my 52 years, how can anybody be bored? It's a state of mind, one I choose not to indulge in.”
There's "state of mind" again. Anyway, if you can't understand how anyone can be bored, then you can't; that wouldn't mean no one ever is bored.
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“In BB terms, I realise that when people say a housemate is boring they don't really mean boring, they mean they don't like them, or they aren't wild and wacky enough for them, or argumentative/scintillating/unusual/(insert description) enough for them... they aren't providing them with the level of entertainment that require from that housemate for them not to be 'boring'.”
When I say a HM is boring, I mean the HM is boring, and I really do mean boring. You're trying to create endless complications about a word that is actually quite straightforward.
Do you have the same sort of view of dull, uninteresting, bland, or the positive alternatives such as interesting?
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“Anyway, obviously my post was my own personal opinion, and in my life I don't use the term 'I'm bored' or somebody is 'boring' because I have options ... not to be bored.”
It's your opinion about other people, not just yourself, and as such it can be mistaken.