Okay, so you make your assumption based on various things, as we all must, but then do you let that inform your opinion of Danny? You might, depending on how certain you felt about your assumption. What I'm saying is that if you do (let your assumptions inform your opinions), you're deceiving yourself. Having and maintaining your opinions based on strong evidence is an important step towards being able to make useful assumptions when necessary. There should be no feedback loop in that though. You have to form hypotheses then put them to the test, not just collate your results based on your best guess. Maybe rational thinking isn't your strong suit. If so fair enough.


Yes, that would have been my first guess. And the fact that I guessed correctly may seem to show that it's a useful skill, but it could have meant 1000 other things. When a person's reputation is being questioned due to the use of an ambiguous phrase I think it's more pragmatic to withhold judgment.

It's kind of obvious what he meant when you have heard similar phrases in the past: hit and quit, pump and dump, blank and chuck.

Physical and dispose.

Now we can smash his face in!

I was just thinking the same thing he must be a well known asshole.
He aint no oil painting either

It's just bantz.

It wasn't an assumption, it was obvious Joe!

You've explained yourself better in this post but none of it applies to me, so haven't quoted it. Maybe someone who can relate to your points can reply to those though

Like I said maybe 'wakaru' wasn't the best example, but you still guessed it correctly, and it was in a different language, surprised you are struggling with such simple phrases in a language you understand tbh.

Anyway, g'night!

Oh, I wasn't struggling. The OP made less sense, but the quote in your first post (#3) would likely mean "f*ck her and chuck her" (although 'beat' is open to a lot of interpretation). What I was struggling with was how several posters appeared willing to condemn Danny based on a phrase that nobody seemed to have heard before, which was probably misquoted by the OP. Obviously as the thread went on we (or I, rather) have ended up splitting hairs about something that's already been straightened out. Oh well.

Night.

Cristian is an idiot himself so he might not have figured it out yet.

How did Cristian react to the "beat it/delete it" comment? Did he appear confused (more than usual), smile in agreement, appear outraged or did he imitate a cornflake?

I just watched it again to see his reaction and he smiled, laughed and shook his head a bit like "you didn't just say that"

I guess you missed the bit where Biannca from last year told how that is his MO outside ? He chased her til she gave in then as soon as he'd had her he was off to the bathroom phoning the next one up. She found out later that he was known for doing it.

I also just re-watched it and I concur. He found it funny. Here's the transcript:


So there we have it, folks.

It brings me some solace to hear that.

So "beat and delete" is a slang term to do with downloading porn (which explains the 'beat' part) that is also applied to one night stands (the other party being as disposable as Internet porn, I suppose). That makes more sense. Nice.

He was engaged and in a relationship for 5 1/2 years.

I find it hilarious how everyone is jumping on everything Danny says. As if none of you would go for it if a hot girl throws herself at you after just a few hours like Jasmine did with Cristian. I don´t feel a bit sorry for women like her or Ais who act like that around men.

And they had the nerve to call marc a misogynistic pig .....it's amazes me just how some people, "Mainly Marcs greatest detractors" seem to conveniently over look that fact about danny ..and with everything that has recently come out on the net about danny they still pretend its not happening

dannys is a well known A grade chauvinistic pig ...it's a pity people are so shallow

It seems light years away now but wasn't Danny also involved in the 'vulnerable' objectifying discussion about the twins too? He makes my skin crawl.

Sorry, double post (or triple if you include keeping it rea1's too!)

I agree, and am a little surprised some don't seem to know what it meant. I don't think he could have made it much clearer

To beat and delete basically means shag/ use her for sex and then cast the person aside once had your fun with no thought for their feelings. Treat the woman like an object and then dump her/ ignore her as if she never existed as soon as you've got your end away.

Lovely guy that Danny. (and Cristian wasn't exactly in any kind of rush to set him straight).

Imo. Attitudes are informed by the world you live in, Danny's world: one night stands with fellow z-listers, ten phone numbers exchanged on a Friday night, a bit of networking a bit of sex a bit more networking etc, women who operate in the same vain.

It could be Danny had assessed the two personalities (Jasmine and Cristian) and believed Jasmine was perfectly capable of expressing that attitude herself (beet and delete) where as Cristian is the sensitive type and could get hurt. It's the kind of thing a protective, wiser brother would say.

I think the comment is a reflection of his opinion of the z-list lifestyle not necessarily all women. If he does feel that way toward all women then i'v not seen it expressed toward Chloe for instance.

Is keeping_it_rea1 a sockpuppet account of yours?

Yes he was, he basically said that it didn't matter that they had boyfriends, he still thought they'd be worth chasing and they might possibly be up for it.

I find it very hard to believe that Biannca needed any chasing.

I've seen some people 'reaching' as it were to excuse this kind of stuff but this take the biscuit.'It's the type of thing a protective wiser brother would say'? Ha ha come on, pull the other one.

It's actually the type of thing 14 year old boys who've yet to have sex say to try and impress their mates, make them sound like 'ladz' and a hit with the birds, not 30 year old blokes well aware they have cameras on them, and who should know a bit more about this kind of thing by now.

Still, I guess we can keep the excuses rolling in...

Let's call it for what it was- it was Danny being a self centered misogynist who looks at women like worthless objects, there for us chaps to use and abuse, and then discard as we see fit.

Good advice 'bruv', good advice.

Whether she did or not, he still beat and deleted her, he didn't even wait until he'd left either, he rang the next one from her bathroom.